It wasn’t our time! : Just received the... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

56,458 members59,773 posts

It wasn’t our time!

amandac84 profile image
12 Replies

Just received the call from my hcg bloods this morning, it’s a negative after 2ww.

It’s ok... I knew deep down it would be after how I’ve been feeling the last few days. It is what it is and it’s only the start of a journey, as our first IUI and o know it could be a much longer road ahead. I keep my head up and positive mind ready to go straight into round two to see what that brings.

Written by
amandac84 profile image
amandac84
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
12 Replies
Elvia33P profile image
Elvia33P

That's amazing that you are still thinking positively about it. You should be! That's the only right way to take BFN. It is just your first try. Keep your head up!

I've been through a lot of m/c and now am starting a surrogacy program. Right now I feel like a champ, but I was not a few years ago. But I kept reminding myself that everything is fine and I should just get up and do whatever it takes. I hope you do not lose your positive mindset.

xx

amandac84 profile image
amandac84 in reply toElvia33P

Thank you for your reply. Like you say positive mindset is the way forward not sure it will always be there as you know but we can try.

Wow such a journey for you, I’m sorry but sounds like your in a good place with your mindset. Wishing you all the best xx

Elvia33P profile image
Elvia33P in reply toamandac84

You know what's most important here? The fact that after feeling low you find the strength to move forward. So keep in mind that no matter what you should not give up. It's been a lot for me. I had been depressed for a very long time. But I've found support coming from my husband and my counselor. There are people out there who will help you no matter what.

Wish you all the best!

emzall profile image
emzall

Hi sorry to hear, I’ve had the same news today and I’m devastated wish I had your positivity I feel like my world has fell down around me. Good luck with your next stage xx

amandac84 profile image
amandac84 in reply toemzall

Hi there I am so so sorry for you too. It’s super hard, and I have no idea how your feeling as I know every journey is so different and I am sure you have invested so much more into this that I have so I wanted to say I’m sorry and send some positivity over to you and hugs. Xx

Sweets1 profile image
Sweets1

Well done for being so positive, like others have said, it really is the only way, but it does knock you a little! All the very best for your next stage xx

Tugsgirl profile image
Tugsgirl

Sorry for your bfn xx

So sorry to hear this. Hope you take time to heal and be with each other. Big hugs x

wiganlass78 profile image
wiganlass78

Sorry to hear this, x

Firstly I'm sorry to hear your news but just wanted to say good for you for being so positive. I've said this on here before but anyone that can go through the 2 ww is a warrior 💪💪 you find strength you don't know you have on an an IVF journey. Wishing you best of luck with the next stage of your treatment 😊 x

Purple_star profile image
Purple_star

So sorry to hear about your negative test result. I’m also having IUI treatment soon so you aren’t alone in that. That’s great you’re being so positive about it - with this journey it’s hard but I’m sure positivity helps us somehow. Good luck for your second IUI. xx

kirstyblue profile image
kirstyblue

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Your so strong to be able to just pick yourself up! Well done you! Wishing you all the best xx

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

This wasn’t our time :(

Unfortunately our little embryo hasn’t decided to hang around this time. We are so disappointed &...
jengi profile image

So it wasn’t the Menopur, it was a tummy bug!!

Even though I am still feeling really really sick I’m glad to say the sickness is a tummy bug,...
Jonesjp profile image

Not our time

I can't believe it but we got a negative (well 2 actually as I didn't want to believe the first)....
-noodles- profile image

We’ve found our smiles again 😊

So after a really shit few days of crying, not eating and rubbish broken sleep me and my boyfriend...
wemma83 profile image

When will it be our turn

I am sure everyone on here feels like that. We had our first failed IVF cycle 4 weeks ago, there...
kickingfish profile image

Moderation team

See all
Claire_FNUK profile image
Claire_FNUKAdministrator
JA-fnuk profile image
JA-fnukPartner

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.