It wasn’t our time!

[amandac84]

Just received the call from my hcg bloods this morning, it’s a negative after 2ww.

It’s ok... I knew deep down it would be after how I’ve been feeling the last few days. It is what it is and it’s only the start of a journey, as our first IUI and o know it could be a much longer road ahead. I keep my head up and positive mind ready to go straight into round two to see what that brings.

[Elvia33P]

That's amazing that you are still thinking positively about it. You should be! That's the only right way to take BFN. It is just your first try. Keep your head up!

I've been through a lot of m/c and now am starting a surrogacy program. Right now I feel like a champ, but I was not a few years ago. But I kept reminding myself that everything is fine and I should just get up and do whatever it takes. I hope you do not lose your positive mindset.

xx

[amandac84 in reply to Elvia33P]

Thank you for your reply. Like you say positive mindset is the way forward not sure it will always be there as you know but we can try.

Wow such a journey for you, I’m sorry but sounds like your in a good place with your mindset. Wishing you all the best xx

[Elvia33P in reply to amandac84]

You know what's most important here? The fact that after feeling low you find the strength to move forward. So keep in mind that no matter what you should not give up. It's been a lot for me. I had been depressed for a very long time. But I've found support coming from my husband and my counselor. There are people out there who will help you no matter what.

Wish you all the best!

[emzall]

Hi sorry to hear, I’ve had the same news today and I’m devastated wish I had your positivity I feel like my world has fell down around me. Good luck with your next stage xx

[amandac84 in reply to emzall]

Hi there I am so so sorry for you too. It’s super hard, and I have no idea how your feeling as I know every journey is so different and I am sure you have invested so much more into this that I have so I wanted to say I’m sorry and send some positivity over to you and hugs. Xx

[Sweets1]

Well done for being so positive, like others have said, it really is the only way, but it does knock you a little! All the very best for your next stage xx

[Tugsgirl]

Sorry for your bfn xx

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So sorry to hear this. Hope you take time to heal and be with each other. Big hugs x

[wiganlass78]

Sorry to hear this, x

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Firstly I'm sorry to hear your news but just wanted to say good for you for being so positive. I've said this on here before but anyone that can go through the 2 ww is a warrior 💪💪 you find strength you don't know you have on an an IVF journey. Wishing you best of luck with the next stage of your treatment 😊 x

[Purple_star]

So sorry to hear about your negative test result. I’m also having IUI treatment soon so you aren’t alone in that. That’s great you’re being so positive about it - with this journey it’s hard but I’m sure positivity helps us somehow. Good luck for your second IUI. xx

[kirstyblue]

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Your so strong to be able to just pick yourself up! Well done you! Wishing you all the best xx