This wasn’t our time :(

[jengi]

Unfortunately our little embryo hasn’t decided to hang around this time. We are so disappointed & sad but grateful to still have 5 left. Trying so desperately to keep positive & stay strong. Really hoping some of you on the same journey timeline had a better outcome.

Hugs Xx

[EK20]

So sorry to hear that. I’m testing on Monday (OTD) after our donor embryo transfer. I don’t have high hopes for a bfp as I’ve got a stinking cold and feeling so poorly. Like you, we also have 5 frozen embryos left so that’s really what’s keeping me going. You still have a good chance yet so please keep the hope. Keeping my fingers crossed for you on the next one x

[jengi in reply to EK20]

Best of luck, keep positive! Someone has to get those positives so why not you, right! It’s in mother nature’s hands & all you can do is keep positive & calm to give her a helping hand. Everything crossed for you Xx

[Cinderella5]

Awww lovely, Im so very sorry to hear this! Such a disappointment for you guys. Its great that you do have a good number of frosties. Take your time, it hurts like hell when you have made the decision to move forward to DE too. Hugs.xx

[jengi in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks lovely. It sure does hurt. Have you ever transferred 2 embryos or plan too? Hope you are doing ok hun. Xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to jengi]

Ive always transferred 2 embryos where we could (if we had them) and my consultant feels that it increases chance of success. There is always the risk that 2 can stick but we have considered this and we would be delighted and feel we would manage if it happened. There are a few risks associated with multiples too that need to be thought about. Personal decision but we feel we weighed up the pros and cons. Treat yourself to something nice together, hug and cry it out!xx

[jengi in reply to Cinderella5]

I wasn’t brave enough this time to transfer two. A bit scared of the chance of twins for several reasons but I’m going to work on that & get my head in the right place. Best of luck to you, keep strong & positive Cinderella! Xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to jengi]

Well what's right for someone isnt for someone else, like I said there is a lot to consider! Yes, spending a little time on yourselves for now is important. Thank you, we have our next transfer booked for end of October....eeeeek!xx

[jengi in reply to Cinderella5]

Yay! It’s October today! So not long to go now Xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to jengi]

Thank you, nervous but Im glad to get going!xx

[gattonero]

I’m very sorry to hear this Jenji, there’s still hope though and that’s what keep us all going. However I understand how tiresome this journey is. It looks endless and unfair. Take some time for yourselves 🧡😘

[jengi in reply to gattonero]

Thanks lovely. Hope you are ok too! Xx

[Kiers27]

So sorry to read this news Jenji, 😢 just awful and makes us feel so terrible. Please be kind to yourself take your time for the next round ...

sending hugz ... devastated for you xx

[jengi in reply to Kiers27]

Thanks so much. Trying to think of the positives & not let it drag me down. Life is too short. If it’s meant to be it’ll be & if not then we’ll know we’ve given it our best shot. At least we have 5 embryos left! Xx

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry, it’s just devastating. Look after yourself and keep the faith in your remaining frosties xx

[jengi in reply to Solly-44]

Thanks you! Having those 5 is what’s keeping me going! Xx

[Dreamingofbaby]

So sorry to hear this. Take good care hun xx

[jengi in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

Thank you! Xx

[Rowly88]

Sorry to hear your news, thinking of you and sending big hugs xx

[jengi in reply to Rowly88]

Thanks lovely! Xx

[Picalilli99]

So sorry to hear this Jengi. The disappointment, time after time is so bloody tough. So glad you have some more great frosties for when you are ready to go again. But for now just take some time and make sure you look after yourself. Big hugs xxx

[jengi in reply to Picalilli99]

Thanks Picalilli! October is my favourite month so I’m looking forward to cosying up with big woolly jumpers in front of the log burning stove & some nice autumnal walks Xx

[Picalilli99 in reply to jengi]

That all sounds bliss! Good on you, I’m loving your positive attitude xxx

[Kyell2]

Aw I’m so sorry. Just the crappest news. Have some time for you and then when your ready you’ve got your 5 little ones waiting xx

[jengi in reply to Kyell2]

Yes, thankfully we do. It’s whats keeping me sane! Xx

[ChiGi]

Oh jengi, I’m so sorry. Please be good to yourself and when you’re ready, the little frozen cuties will be waiting for you. Xx

[jengi in reply to ChiGi]

Thanks Xx

[Elynn]

Big hugs

[jengi in reply to Elynn]

Xx

[magda22]

Hi hon, I'm sorry to hear that, so disappointing and gutting but well done for moving forward with the donor plan - I suspect that will be for me at some point. Great you have some more embryos, I think you'll get lucky soon. Loads of love and strength xxxx

[jengi in reply to magda22]

Thanks Magda! If you want to chat through donor route at any time, feel free to private message me. It’s a tough decision. Hugs to you my lovely Xx

[magda22 in reply to jengi]

Yes it is!! But brilliant also. Thanks so much, yes I may well love to chat about it sometime. You are couragous and amazing for doing it, big ups xxx

[Lots8788]

So sorry to hear that hun x take time for you both x big hugs to you x x

[jengi in reply to Lots8788]

Thanks so much Xx

[Purplewitch18]

Im so sorry to hear that. Big hugs, and wishing you a better outcome the next time xx

[jengi in reply to Purplewitch18]

Thanks Purplewitch! At the moment another attempt fills me with dread but I’m sure once I’m through the emotion of this one I’ll think differently Xx

[Drives]

So sorry to read this. Sending you a massive hug 😘💕 x x x

[jengi in reply to Drives]

Much appreciated! Xx

[Love4spitz]

So sorry, I’ve just had my 2nd cycle fail, so I can relate. Wish you an easier journey ahead x

[jengi in reply to Love4spitz]

Thanks. Sorry to hear you’re dealing with a failed cycle too. It’s a bit rubbish but we always come out the other side fighting! Take one day at a time Xx