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So it appears I am the only person in the world who can't get pregnant. Low ovarian reserve and husband has 2% morph.

No reasponse to IVF and now many smug people.

I have never been pregnant ever,! .we

Hugs needed

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Saya85

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that - but you aren't alone! You should find lots of support and advice on here

Or if you just want to vent then this is the place

Smug people are the worst 😪 I don't know why they think they've achieved something great by getting pregnant - it's a lottery game- they were very lucky - that's all

There have been women in your position who have gotten pregnant I believe so hopefully someone can offer more support to you

Otherwise big hugs from me

I had never been pregnant either until last week..... But it looks like we may have miscarried

Unfortunately getting pregnant isn't always the end of the journey for us 😣😔

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Cd2018 in reply toSaya85

Awwww babe thanks so much.

My faith and trust in myself are so in the air.

My sister in law for pregnant first try and now her and my brother said it was because I stress.... The docs said otherwise.

I am new to this community xxx

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Saya85 in reply toCd2018

Oh yes

"Don't stress it'll happen !"

" Don't worry yourself or you'll make it worse for yourself"

" You should be on bedrest - etc etc"

The advice is relentless

"Stay positive(!)" My favourite 😜

Welcome to the family on here 🙂 we get it x

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Cd2018 in reply toSaya85

I went to a Christmas party at a family friends place last week and did not drink as TWW a d one got was like "your time is coming up,!"

I turned Round and said "you're fat so is yours!!!"

in reply toCd2018

Good for you! It's aggravating when things you are sensitive about get shoved in your face ad infinitum and I bet they were so shocked when you did that!

I did a similar thing myself years ago when someone smug went on at me about online dating and I had snapped at them and said something rude and had gone home from that party early after as I was just so bloody fed up!

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Cd2018 in reply to

I just can't stand it it makes my blood boil. Grrrrrrrr

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MissSaoPaulo in reply toSaya85

- have you tried putting your legs in the air after sex? Hahaha oh, if only it were that simple!!!

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Cd2018 in reply toMissSaoPaulo

Hahahaha

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Dreamingofbaby

Welcome to the forum. It ace here. def lots of support and understanding of the reality of how tough this can be. Take good care. X

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Cd2018 in reply toDreamingofbaby

Thanks hun

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aamiller405

welcome to the forum..never been pregnant either and currently surrounded by a LOT of pregnant people.

But this forum is great, you wont feel alone for much longer xo

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Cd2018 in reply toaamiller405

So lovely to hear

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Core

So sorry to read this, I too have never been pregnant. This forum is a great place for support and full of lovely ladies who understand xx

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Cd2018 in reply toCore

So good XX

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Ajplus1

I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had such a rough journey trying to convince.

Here for a chat, a hug, support whatever you need.

Sending lots of love and hugs xx

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Cd2018 in reply toAjplus1

Thanks hun really appreciate it xx

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Lovely79

You are at the right place hun. I had 3 failed ivf on the nhs. 2 didn't make it and 1 miscarriage at 7weeks. Now am going abroad for egg donor. I have unexplained fertility. At almost 40. I cried stress my self but that changes nothing. I was happy when I hoping this site not long ago and see how many people around the world going through the same issues. Lots of hugs love. Wishing u all the best in due time.

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Cd2018 in reply toLovely79

Thanks Lovely. It's so frustrating and then people announcing baby news xx

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magda22

You're definitely not alone! I've found this forum so helpful as none of my friends or family, or my partner, who is younger and not very maternal, gets how tough and lonely and miserable infertility can be. Many times something I've read here has reassured me or put a bit of a smile on my face, and that has helped me go on to whatever the next bit of a plan might be. Weirdly, for the past year while I've grappled with journeys into ivf I've had my confidence in other areas of my life shattered. Hearing other people's stories and often successes helps me pick myself up.

Hope it helps u lots too! X

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Cd2018 in reply tomagda22

This is so encouraging and absolutely it is so tough. Xx

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