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Feeling hopeful and then a ‘not pregnant’ appearing ☹️

Ariel24
Ariel24

I’d done the thing you’re not meant to do and was thinking that this month was our month - really got my hopes up. Did think I might have been paranoid because you want to feel different so much don’t you but I really thought I’d had feeling is not had before. Got a negative result this morning though ☹️☹️☹️ not a great start to the day

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I am really sorry to hear this. I totally understand how you feel. I had this last month, even my husband was sure that it worked, but no. I was totally devastated.

I really hope you have somebody to talk to, probably take the day off and do something nice? or just give it a good cry that's what always helps me. The end of a cycle is always at the same time the start of a new cycle!

Big higs xxx

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to sarahharas

Thank u, it wasn’t our IVF cycle luckily but I dunno, just felt this month that I had completely different feelings. Hopefully in the new year we’ll have our appointment come through to start the process. Was just really hoping to be successful beforehand. O well, should be used to it by now unfortunately

Bless you sorry you did not get your positive this time give yourself a little treat and hoping your time comes soon x

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to Autumnmoon

I hope so! Thank u 😊 it’s just been a month of finding out two people I’m close to are pregnant and the birth of our niece, been a tough one

Really sorry to hear this 😞

Was this with no bleeds in your 2ww?

Wishing you all the luck in the world for the future xxxx

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to Freyabelle

Thank u! We’re currently waiting for our first IVF appointment but it won’t be until after christmas now. We just had a feeling this month it was our month but just being silly really! Good luck with everything xxx

Freyabelle
Freyabelle
in reply to Ariel24

Oh I see. If you need any advice or support. I’d be happy to help. Any questions. My inbox is open, all the best xxx

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to Freyabelle

Thank u very much! I think I’ll be looking to this group a lot more over the next few months!!!!

I am sorry to hear that. Is today your otd? Xx

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to Camillage

Just had a quick look at your page, will be thinking about u on Christmas Eve 😊😊😊

We’re currently waiting for our first appointment with the IVF clinic so hoping that’ll be early in the new year. Just really thought today was gna be the day (don’t know why really, it’s silly I suppose).

Camillage
Camillage
in reply to Ariel24

Oh no, not silly at all. That's the eternal optimist in you. You will always have that. I hope you do get there without the need for IVF. Fingers crossed for next month x

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to Camillage

Thank u 🤞🏼 each month is a new month I suppose

Been there so many times. It’s never my time - so deflating. Best advice is to have a nice glass of something ;) then carry on with things.

I’ve been trying for years too so I know how u feel xx

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to AJJ123

Thank you xxx

So sorry to hear that x

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to JennyRLR

I’m just having a moan really, just very deflating. Lucky to be in a position where we’re waiting for IVF though - thinking of the positives

It’s ok to moan, that’s what we are here for x

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to JennyRLR

xxx

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Hi Ariel24, I'm sorry to hear this. You sound like me this time last year, hoping for one last "miracle" before starting IVF in the new year. It's really hard, I know. It's great that you have something to work towards and I hope that once you are through the initial IVF appts. things will move fast for you! They did for me. Wishing you all the very best and try to enjoy this festive month, who knows what you'll be doing next December : ) xx

Ariel24
Ariel24
in reply to Hidden

Thank you, that is very true - who knows what the next year will bring! Hope everything is going well with your little miracle 😊

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