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So, after not ‘feeling pregnant’ all symptoms gone, spotting...I did two pregnancy tests this morning which came back negative 😔 I knew my BFP last week was too good to be true! I must have had a chemical pregnancy 😔 just feel so heartbroken and devastated.

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Autumnmoon

I'm so sorry chemical pregnancy is really so cruel sending love and hoping you have lots of care and support x

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silverlini in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you xx

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Tezzabell86

I’m so sorry to hear this xx

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Niki_B

Aww hun I'm so very sorry to hear this 😓 this whole process can be so cruel and unfair. Thinking of you xxx

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silverlini in reply toNiki_B

Thank you xx

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Lou7744

I’m really sorry to read this. It’s truly rubbish. I had a similar situation last month. Sending you hugs 💕 xx

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silverlini in reply toLou7744

Thank you, It's absolutely awful, like it's not hard enough!xx

Oh no sweetie I’m really sorry to hear this 😢 I went through this myself last year & it’s so heartbreaking. Just remember that just because this pregnancy didn’t work out doesn’t mean another one wouldn’t. Hope you have lots of support around you. Take care xoxo

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silverlini in reply to

Sorry to hear you went through this yourself :( Its so heartbreaking. Glad to see there is hope though, Thank you xx

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Cinderella5

Oh Im really sorry that you've had to go through this, sending hugs.xx

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silverlini in reply toCinderella5

Thank you xx

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Leo2017

Really sorry to read this, know all too well how you feel - I’ve just had another chemical. It really is tough - that tiny glimmer of hope it gives us, just to be ripped away!! Sending you lots of luv & strength for the coming days!! 😢xx

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silverlini in reply toLeo2017

That's exactly it, that glimmer of hope. So cruel and unfair! Sorry to hear it has happened again for you. I really really hope it doesn't happen again for me...this is so tough. xx

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genten

I'm so so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of love. xxx

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silverlini in reply togenten

Thank you xx

Sorry to read this. Look after you xx

I’m so sorry Hun, make sure you get plenty of rest and ask for support should you need it xx

Make sure you get referred to your local EPU if you can. I’m so sorry to hear this xx

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Rowly88

Really sorry to hear your news, sending lots of hugs to you and your partner during this difficult time xxxx

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silverlini in reply toRowly88

Thank you xx

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jm22

So sorry to hear this, I had one back in June. All the advice I can give is to take some time out,I took some time off work sick,allow urself time to grieve, it really is such a hard process, I'm so sorry, I hope u have plenty of support,take care xox

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silverlini in reply tojm22

Thank you, Its awful. I have been having waves of emotions. Sometimes I'm ok and then out of the blue I am crying. Don't think I can face work at the moment, but maybe a bit of distraction will be good. Who knows...this wasn't supposed to happen, its amazing what a week can do. We have gone from overjoyed to devastated. Hopefully it will all work out.xx

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Sweets1

So sorry xx

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EmJen

I’m so sorry. It’s just such a hard journey isn’t it. We had a chemical pregnancy on our latest round, and it was so cruel - just so much sadness. Take some time and try to be kind to yourself. Sending love x x x

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silverlini in reply toEmJen

Sorry to hear you have also gone through this. Thank you for your message xx

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Melissa11

Thinking of you. 💕

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Anya80

I’m so sorry😢 just keep positive, it’s seems you can get pregnant and if so your time will come don’t give up, I wish you your dream to come true and it’ll come soon💗

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silverlini in reply toAnya80

That's the only thing I am holding on to for now...Just such a shame it wasn't meant to be :( Thanks for your message xx

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CC2018

So sorry xx

Ah I'm so sorry to hear this, be kind to yourself and take time to recover X

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Luna11

Heartbreaking news for you, so sorry 😢 x

Oh I am so sorry to read this. Sending you massive hugs xxx

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Masha111

Im so sorry to hear this🙁😢 you and everyone who has gone/going through this are in my thoughts. I can only imagine what you are going through. May God give you the strength to get you through this difficult time. I hope you have support around you and close family/friends to talk to. Sending you lots of hugs and love xxx

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silverlini in reply toMasha111

Thank you for your kind message. It's awful and I would never wish this on anyone. Hopefully it will all work out another time for us.xx

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Elynn

So sorry..huge hugs.

I'm so sorry my love. Same thing happened to me back in March. It's so horrible. It's OK to feel bloody awful and sad and I hope you can take some time out and build up strength to one day try again. Be kind to yourself and sending much love xx

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silverlini in reply to

Thank you for your message. I’ve read a few of your posts so massive congratulations on your pregnancy. This makes me feel so much more hopeful that I could have success next time. Wishing you all the best xx

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