So as the title says, we have made it to the night before our official test date. I feel absolutely crazy for feeling this way, but I have no desire to do the test what so ever. This is our third transfer, so I know what the heartache feels like and I really just don't want it again.
Has anyone else ever felt like this??? If I do do the test in the morning, I'm going to have to go in to work either way and just not sure I can face people if it is negative again...
I also feel like I'm going to come on my period and have done since last Thursday. Has anyone felt like like this and had a BFP?
Sorry for the moany/nervous post xxxx
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Just sending you all the best wishes and all the luck! Fingers and toes crossed! Take care of yourself tonight and be kind to yourself. Don't go to work tomorrow if you do not feel up to it. There will always be more work and your mental health is more important. xxx
I've only had the 1 transfer so nothing to compare it to but don't count yourself out.
I got a BFN and took 2 days off sick just couldn't face it so I would say whatever happens if you can't face going in then don't, you and your mental health come first, there will always be lots of work waiting.
I’m testing tomorrow too and I started feeling cranky and achy the day after transfer until 5dp and it started again last night. I don’t know what to think. I was crampy and achy the whole time last time and it was a bfn so at least it’s not exactly the same. Good luck for tomorrow xxxx
I understand why you feel the way you do. It's hard to face people if the news isn't good. Even harder to be on the ball at work. You could always keep your first pee and test when you get home? Or take the day off, it's important to put yourself first. Hope you get the news you desire x
Best of luck for tomorrow. If you do get a negative and don’t want to face people don’t go into work- don’t force yourself! I’ve got everything crossed for a positive for you xxx
Haven’t got to this stage yet as everything is in the freezer but wanted to say good luck xx
I totally understand how you feel. I am already dreading it and I am not transferring until next month. You will find the strength from somewhere and then it will be like a slow motion film. Symptom spotting is no good either as the symptoms are never the same for two people and quite often the same symptoms for bfp as bfn.
Hi, it's not my OTD till Friday so still feels like forever to wait. I did test early though on day 10pt and got a faint positive, did another today and had the same so going to wait till Friday to test again so it's still early days but I have had the same symptoms. Good luck for tomorrow x
Hi all, we got our positive this morning. Still don't really believe it tbh! In utter shock. Guess it was third time lucky for us ❤️ thank you for all the good lucks! Wishing you all the best of luck xxx
I am so so happy for you congratulations. I’ve had 2 failed ivf and will be having third in a few months so that anxiety the worry being scared to test again I can imagine how you felt. I’m so happy you got a positive 😊 start of new beginnings. All the best xx
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Test date 7th Feb....1 embryo 
Period before test date 
BFN on day 10 of FET? :(
