Ugh. Same again 😢

[drinathan]

So I’m 2pt5dt and my symptoms are EXACTLY the same as my last BFN. Constant cramping and terrible backache. It’s like my body is desperately trying to expel! I just wondered whether anyone had experienced the same symptoms with different results? I need something to hold on to for these next 10(!) days. Thanks 🙏

[Hidden]

I had bad cramp a day or so after my transfer and got a positive so hang on in there x

[drinathan in reply to Hidden]

Thanks lollypop how long did your cramps last for? X

[Hidden in reply to drinathan]

They were a few days after transfer on and off! For a few days too! Not persistent but strong and lasted maybe 10 or so minutes x

[drinathan in reply to Hidden]

Ah mines all day. Congratulations BTW 👍👍👍

[Hidden in reply to drinathan]

I know it’s difficult but try not to think negative, it’s a uncertain stressful time but keep remembering how far you’ve come to get to the 2ww you’ve done so well. Sending lots of luck to you for test day xxxxx

[Faithful06]

Constant cramping is not a bad sign. You will get that on the pessaries as well. You’re only 2dp5dt give you body time and try to think positive. I know it’s very hard but thinking negatively this early will only cause you heartache for the next 10 days. Try to enjoy being PUPO!! I have 1 more day til OTD and I’m trying to enjoy every minute of being in oblivion 😘😘

[drinathan in reply to Faithful06]

Well done you. I haven’t made it to otd for my last 3 cycles but your way is the best way. 🤞 for tomorrow for you xx

[Hidden]

All the symptoms are the same and no two people are the same. Please try to stay positive. Wishing you all the best xxx

[Hidden]

I’m 3dp3dt and have had cramps on and off since transfer day. Was told they are a combination of my ovaries still aching after ec and progesterone.

[drinathan in reply to Hidden]

Good luck. Mines a fet but am happy to blame the progesterone 🤞

[Tugsgirl]

Although all of my bfns (3) have felt eerily similar at 2dp I was still full of hope so early on in those cycles. I think it’s far too early to compare. Days 5/6/7 seem to be the deal breakers for me, the stage when I know or I don’t. It’s still so early.. Good luck xx

[Faithful06 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Tugs what changes for you around 5/6/7? How do you know?

[Tugsgirl in reply to Faithful06]

On the two bfps I had I began to experience af type cramping only milder. On my first bfp I also had spotting on day 6/7. Didn’t have any spotting on my second bfp though xx

[Faithful06 in reply to Tugsgirl]

😘😘 I hope it works out for you Hun. I know it’s a struggle for you at the moment. I admire your will, strength and determination.

[Tugsgirl in reply to Faithful06]

Thank you ☺️ xx

[Lou7744]

Hi there, I’m in the dreaded 2ww too! I’m on day 10 and I’ve had my usual period symptoms e.g heavy tum/twitches since day 5. I haven’t experienced these in either my first or second attempts...so who knows!

I know it’s really hard, but you gotta keep the faith 💕 xx

[drinathan in reply to Lou7744]

Thanks. I wish you the bestest of luck x

[Hidden]

Hey lovely.

I’m on my first round of clomid & I have endometriosis ( recent laparoscopy to treat it was in July)

I’m in the 2WW & 6 days post Lh surge & I had some twinges & mild cramps since. It’s so hard know what it is going on! Whether it’s my endo ( hope not) or something else! With clomid o have no way to know if the egg & sperm have even met!! My temperature has dipped this morning & no twinges or cramps now 🤔 2WW is hard going & I imagine with IVF it must be even harder...

When I feel like it’s not worked I make up a “back up plan “ & knowing I have other options makes me feel a bit better & hopeful. For now I agree with others I’d remain hopeful until you have a reason not to be, that’s what I’m doing until period comes will be hopeful.

I had a chemical pregnancy last year & I had no symptoms at all when I conceived, literally felt like my period was coming. My sister was the same when she fell with my niece ( happier story of hope!) Pms vs early pregnancy symptoms are the same & impossible to tell apart. Well I couldn’t anyway!

Good luck for OTD really hope it’s a BFP xoxo

[drinathan in reply to Hidden]

Thanks. Totally agree with the 'back up' plan. This was meant to be our last go but I think we will go one last time again!

[Sammy18]

Hi, I am also on the tww, I am 2dp 5dfet. I have had a lot of cramping (transfer was tough though so could be part of it), can't get comfortable or sleep for very long. I don't remember having this much pain on my first transfer so each time seems to be different. Fingers crossed we get our BFPs, good luck xxx

[drinathan in reply to Sammy18]

Fingers and toes. Thanks for sharing x