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I am supposed to be 8+3 today. We went for a private scan as we still couldn’t quite believe I was pregnant.

As soon as she started scanning I could tell that something was wrong. Apparently the sac and yolk sac have grown but she couldn’t see any foetus.

We’re being referred to the EPU for another scan, hopefully tomorrow.

I’m devastated, as is my partner. We just can’t believe it. I’ve had no worrying things like cramping or bleeding, just normal pregnancy symptoms.

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Ekjones86

Can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling. So sorry to read this. I have everything crossed for you for tomorrow 🤗🧡 xxx

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Clover5

So sorry to hear this hun. I really hope they were just not able to see the baby for some reason today and everything is fine tomorrow 💕🙏xX

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Penders

Oh Hun I'm so very sorry to read this. I hope you get in with the epu tomorrow. Sending big hugs and lots of love xxx

Really sad to read this. I echo the others and hope today was a mistake xxx big hugs x

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Devj

Aaw sorry to read this. Really hope today was just a huge mistake and tomorrow things are more positive. Fingers crossed and big hugs hun xxxx thinking of you xx

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genten

Thinking of you. I can't imagine what yours going through at the moment. Also hoping there has been an error made. Xx

I’m so sorry to read this.

I’m sorry to hear this I’ve had a blighted ovum at 12w it truly devastating my first mmc. I also with my 2nd I had got to 13w but baby was only 9w no hb. I hate scans now have anxiety thinking about it. Sending love and hugs xx

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TRYING2016

Oh my goodness I can’t believe im reading this, i didn’t think this would be possible you went for your viability scan not so long ago, im thinking of you I really hope tomorrow is alot better. Thinking of you xxx

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Noobs

Really sorry to hear this.x

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Lou7744

I’m really sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

Hope you get your scan today and find out properly what is happening. This is such a rollercoaster of a journey. Send you both the biggest hugs xx

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Wishfully

I’m so sorry to hear this 😔, totally heartbreaking. I hope it works out, and that embies were just a little slow off the blocks xx

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WaywardGirl

Thanks everyone. I’ve been awake half the night and now waiting for the EPU to call. Not sure if we can just go along anyway? Just want this to be over now

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Give them a call there Ive always got appointments the same day usually within hours from the phone call. x

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Caza2009

I’m so so sorry to read this. Sending you so much love and hoping today brings better news xxxxx

Oh Wayward girl, this is heart breaking to read. I hope you can get some answers soon. Thinking of you xx

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Emma04

I’m so sorry to read that you are going through this, I hope you get some answers today xx

Oh sweetie I’m so sorry to hear this & like others I hope it was a “mistake”. When you feel up to it let us know how you get on. Keeping everything crossed for you ❤️ xoxo

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry, I really hope this isnt the case! Look after yourselves!xx

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Tugsgirl

I’m so very sorry. We’re here for you xx

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Barbara1012

Hope everything is ok today xx

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Littlemex

sorry to hear this ❤ the same happened to us two weeks ago and im booked in for an mva tomorrow, I have seen ladies on here going back a week later and seeing something so hopefully you get good news 🤞xx

I'm so sorry hun, it is such an anxious time,thinking of you xx

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