Today was our scan day waiting anxiously feeling I had symptoms and the scan just showed the sac no embryo, just the sac had been growing. Tomorrow having a d and c, me and my AH (amazing husband) feel lost and empty and so want it to be our time and I still believe it will be one day just wasn't meant to be now.
Wishing you all hope going through this process we need it when we are going through our journeys xxxx
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So sorry to hear this, will be thinking of you tomorrow xxx
I'm absolutely gutted fur you guys Kelly, my thoughts are with you both during this time... I wish you all the very best and hope one day you may return the a miracle.
So sorry for you. So many sad stories on here lately. I know we will all find the strength and courage to move forward. Take care and hope all goes well tomorrow for you x
Hello my lovely yes I am nervous and just feel sad this part of the journey has to end like this. Our journey will start again and let's hope it's our miracle on our next one xx thinking of you and message me if you need anything xx
I never want to have to repeat that op ever again! Just got out. They wouldn't let me go any earlier because I was sick and kept feeling faint. Hope yours went ok xx
Oh no lovely I'm really sorry to hear if your deveasting loss. Nothing can be said to make it any better-I wish there was. Thinking of you in this sad time and I hope the D&C goes ok. X
I have my bad days I would of been 23 weeks almost . Some days I just feel why us . Why did it have to happen to us. Before I experienced blighted ovum I didn't have a clue what it was. I went to my 8-9 week early reassurance scan started to be scanned and silence I knew something was wrong but no body would tell me anything . I knew I was going to Miss carry I hadn't had a missed miss carriage up until that point .. after it happened I was numb for a while but threw myself into my fitness DVD . I didn't opt for d&c as didn't get offered one. But I just wanted to go home and be on my own to deal with it how I wanted to deal with it. In time it does become bearable but it never leaves me completely what has happened . But what it has taught me is that yes I did go through something horrible and devastating but I am a stronger person than I thought and I will not give up XX
Message me anytime you feel like you need a chat 💕 My inbox is always open xx
Hi kelly I'm so sorry this was the outcome it's seems so cruel that our body are capable of doing this, I'm sure it will take some time for you both to deal with this. Wishing you all the best take care of yourself xxx
This post is a year old and if you read the profile and see her latest posts, she has given birth. We should all pay attention to the dates on posts so we don’t rehash old memories and posts that aren’t relevant today.
I agree completely with you. It’s okay to research old posts but commenting on them can trigger painful memories. Also bumping up old posts means we cannot view recent posts; which means lots of people won’t be getting the support they need. There should be a function where the OP can prevent further comments xoxo
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