I haven’t posted for a while as I have been focusing on getting tests done and our next cycle arranged and that has helped me stay focused. Now all of a sudden I am having a wobble (not just the bloating!)😂
So far we have had a great round, 9 embryos on day 3 making their way to day 5 🤞🤞 and we are booked in for transfer day this Wednesday. I was doing ok and then my SIL gave birth yesterday and now it all feels too much for me. It seems to have pushed me over the edge. I keep running through what they just be doing now and how they are taking their baby home this week. I also feel the looming reality of 3 other friends giving birth this month!
It feels so impossible and unlikely to happen for us this round. I’m also affected by the fact we had a top quality embryo transferred on out first round but still got a BFN and then our frozen embryos didn’t survive the thaw. My mind is saying, ‘well it doesn’t matter how many embryos you have it still won’t work.’
I know I should be grateful (I truly am) that we can even afford this round, never mind still having a few embryos in the running!
Does anyone have any words of wisdom of how I can pick myself back up. I really don’t want to have a completely miserable tww and feel I need to be in a stronger place to deal with the outcome!! I think I would benefit from counselling but my clinic have a waiting list and I didn’t find the first session overly helpful! I had acupuncture today and it always picks me up a little bit I can’t have it several times a day!
Help! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
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I think everyone has a wobble at some point during all this and it’s only to be expected. The way I coped was to take a step back, I got a bit of distance and took the time I needed to help deal with all the pregnancy announcements/babies. I was really lucky because my family are so supportive and understood that I needed space. I really enjoy walking so my OH and I would go on nice little walks and take our minds of everything. I guess you just need to do what feels right for you, if you need a bit of space then take it.
I really hope your 2ww goes ok 🤞🏻 sending you lots of luck x
Thank you so much! I love walking too and it is definitely a great way to relax and let go. Maybe I will seek out some new routes to try. I am not working at the moment so I have a lot of time on my own and I sometimes get lost with my own, negative thoughts.
Our anniversary is on Sunday in the 2ww so we have just booked a night away and will go on a nice long walk!
Thank you! Will be great to have a tww buddy! I’m not sure how sane I will be haha, but will try! Here’s hoping we manage to have a positive few weeks and outcome! Hope all goes well with you tomorrow too!🤞🤞🙏🏻xx
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