Sadly my scan confirmed that my little embie has stopped growing, I've got to go back to the hospital on Tuesday for medical management
Scan Update 😥: Sadly my scan confirmed... - Fertility Network UK
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Oh no Clairenix. I am so so sorry to read this. I went through similar back in April and it is just horrible. Sending you huge hugs xxx
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Thank you Camille,just heart breaking isn't it, but we have to stay strong and hopeful. Hugs to you to xxx
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Camillage, apologies for typo xxx
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Honestly, don't worry about a typo! Xxx
Im so sorry Claire xxx take care xxx
So sorry for this. Can relate. It awful😔 take good care xx
• in reply toDreamingofbaby
Thank you. It's just so hard isn't it xx
Really sorry to hear this. Thinking of you & sending love 💕 xoxo
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Thankyou Jess that means a lot xx
I'm really sorry to read this. Sending you lots of love and hugs xx
• in reply toPenders
Thank you Penders xx
So sorry to read this, it’s unbelievably cruel. Take some time to grieve xx
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Thankyou, my work have been really good and told me to take as much time as I need so I will see how I feel next week xx
Hi claire, I am so sorry to hear your news. This happened to me too and it was the saddest thing. I felt all my hopes robbed and so shocked. It takes time and you will never forget that wee baby. But time heals and with the support of family and friends you will start to feel better. Most importantly dont give up hope. Sending you lots of love.xx
• in reply toBlueberry16
Hi Blueberry,so sorry that this has happened to you too, it really is tough and nothing can prepare you for those devastating words. I still have hope that it will happen just need to build myself back up again.
Lots of love to you too xx
I hate scans now can’t get passed that 12w scan I have anxiety about them. Sorry to hear about your miscarriage they’re just awful. I was broken after my first it was such a shock. Sending love xxxx
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Thankyou I appreciate that, it is so so hard. Sending love to you too hun xx
So sorry to hear this. I can't imagine what the grieving process will be like. So painful. Sending love. Look after yourselves.
• in reply toforMoira
Thankyou Moira, im going through a range of emotions! X
I'm so so sorry hun. Reading your recent posts brought back memories for me from last November. Them scans and hoping, it's dreadful I'm so sorry hun sending you big hugs and love I hope you have lots of support hun. 😘😘💝💗
• in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv
Thankyou hun, I am lucky to have lots of support,it is just a horrible thing to go through isn't it 😥 hope your ok xx
AllWeNeedIsluv• in reply to
It's truly awful hun. Life is so cruel. Glad you have support hun. Bless ya. Take each day at a time.
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Oh no I’m so so sorry 😢 The world is a cruel place at times. Take care lovely 💕 x
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Thanks Kirsty xx
So sorry to see this. It is such a cruel journey. xxx
• in reply to_MrsC
It is such an emotional rollercoaster xxx
Aaw Clairenix, I was really hoping things would turn around for you. So so sorry to hear this.
Please take care of yourself, let yourself go through the emotions and don’t feel bad on yourself for feeling how you do.
Thinking of you 😘 xxx
• in reply toDevj
Thankyou I really am going through different emotions, I was feeling strong yesterday and today just really angry but I think I'm going to go through a whole range of emotions xxx
So sorry to read your news, thinking of you, & try to stay strong! 😘
• in reply toDisneyJL
Thankyou hun xx
I’m really sorry to hear your sad news. Life can be so cruel sometimes. Sending love 💕 Xx
• in reply toClover5
It really is cruel, I've been shocked about how many ladies have experienced it too 😥 xx
I’m so sorry to hear this, it’s the most heartbreaking thing to go through. My husband and I sadly went through this a few months ago and it’s so difficult. All I can say is just take the time to grieve and be there for each other, you never stop thinking about what could have been but in time you will start to heal. Don’t give up hope x
• in reply tobeauty1984
Thankyou Beauty1984, really sorry to hear you have also been through this, I can't believe how many other ladies this has happened too,it does make you scared about future attempts but all we can do is keep hope x
I’m so so sorry. Sending you all the love in the world xxxxx
• in reply toCaza2009
Thankyou Caza, I really appreciate that, sending love back to you too xx
I'm so so sorry. I was really hoping that things would turn around for you.
Thinking of you.
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• in reply toMantaray75
Thankyou Mantaray x
I'll be thinking of you too next week x
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Thanks. I think I'm gonna be terrified before every scan. x
So sorry to hear that. We have just got back from the hospital after my wife miscarried following the 12 week scan. Life is so hard but I’m sure as will we, will get through the pain and one day it will work out for us. Best wishes and hope the management plan isn’t too stressful.
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I am so sorry to hear your news, it really is heartbreaking. I really hope that it does work out for you whenever you decide to try again.
Take care of yourselves x
I'm sorry Claire!!💔😢xxxx
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Thanks Cinderella, I feel soo tired it's been a tough few weeks! xxx
Cinderella5• in reply to
I can only imagine lovely! Look after yourself, will be thinking of you tomorrow. Life is so cruel!xx
Oh, I feel sorry. It's an awful situation. You must be devastated. Trust me, I can relate. I had three miscarriages due to an early life sports injury. God forbid, that is so frustrating. People asking you questions like why didn't you conceive yet? what is the reason for miscarriage? God!! I am tired. We'd do anything to conceive naturally. However, we just can't. I hope things get better for you. You can try again. Wish you luck xx
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Thankyou horien, I'm so sorry to hear what you have been through, life really is cruel xx
Really sorry. It’s horrible xx
Really sorry hun. I went through the same last month. Stay strong, take the time you need to grieve. Hugs sent xx💕
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Hi cryst4l so sorry to hear that you have also been through this, it is so hard isn't it. How are you coping xx
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Thanks Claire, it took me a while to accept what happened and I was pretty upset a lot of the time, but I am ready to move on. Trt not to beat yourself up about it, something I now understand that nothing I really did caused it so its the same for you. Time will defo help so do take some time out. You are not alone. Xx
I am so sorry for your loss I don't know why it happens when you are so sure that this it is going to work. Happened with me when my embryo was transferred and the test told it is going to stay. But sadly after 6 weeks, I miscarried. It was awful... ah!! Sometimes staying hopefull doesn't work any longer.
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I'm so sorry to hear you went through the same thing, life is so cruel
That’s so bad Clairenix. This condition refers to IUGR (Intrauterine growth restriction) in which a baby in the womb doesn’t grow well. You know whenever a baby doesn’t grow well then it put him at high risk of health problems until death. The main reason of happenings suck kind of situation is birth defects as well as genetic disorders too. Tell me one thing. Do you smoke or has an infectious disease or any other disease like high blood pressure? Because whenever a woman is considering to be caught in such diseases then chances are there to stop the baby growth. How do you get this feeling? Is this informed to you by your specialist? If you are making estimations, then it’s a time to get treatment of it. it’s not too late. Go to your doctor and inform him of the sudden changes you felt in yourself. Probably, he will advise you to take plenty of rest. Of course, you have to take medicines on time. do what he will say or you think that’s better for your health or can save your kid. Hope is a thing with feathers which boost you up to fly and never stops at all.
I'm so sorry 
you've been through such an awful wait. I wish I could say something to make it better. Big hugs xxx
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Thankyou, the wait has been the hardest part and at the start of the abdominal scan the sonography said I can see it on the left side and looks like it's grown,for just a split second I thought all was ok, nothing can prepare you for the news,all we can do is try again! Hugs to you too,hope your ok xxx
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I can't even imagine how hard it must be xxx
Hey Clairenix, I’m so sorry to hear this, I can’t imagine what you’re going through, sending you lots of love. Xx
Thankyou noviceknitter,it's been a really tough few weeks.
I've just read your post and I'm so sorry you didn't get a positive result, it really is a tough journey but we have to keep hope. Lots of love to you too xx
I am so so sorry. It must be heatbreaking. I am thinking of you and sending you so much love. Give yourself time honey. xxx
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