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Moorning lovely ladiees hope you are all well.

Mee.. Me not very good but will get better.

Had a phone call in the morning so from my 4 eggs one wasn't mature, one was abnormal 2 fertilized vut didn't develop properly.. Soomy first ivf cycle os cancelled ❀ Now looking forward to my follow up consultation! Xx

Hope you all have a lovely day! Xxxx

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Oh that’s devastating... that happened to me with my first cycle, nothing to transfer.

Stay hopeful though, I’ve also had a round where I got 6 eggs that made 5 blasts!xx

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Heyy. I was kind of prepared for i don't knkw why. And to be honest im sure is less devastating if all fails before the transfer. Life we need to accept everything and carry on πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Awww honey, I'm gutted for you both! This happened to me on my first go too and it's devaststing. Hopefully the clinic will have learned from this cycle and will have a plan forward for you. Sending you massive hugs.xxx

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Hey thank you so much. I feel good and im quitr surprised that i feel that way. I think is better that way than having the 2ww and ending with a negative result πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx Im not going to grieve but move forward straight away if they let me πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Glad to hear you're holding up ok! Really good attitude you have there!!xx

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Trying my best i always think about all the other ladies who try and try and try amd never give up hope and i know women can be very strong and fight for what they want! Lotsbof hugsss xx

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So sorry to hear that. It gutting. Always worth a shot though and 🀞🀞 for whatever is next for u xx

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Thank youuu. I will call them on Monday to book my follow up appointment πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Oh no, I am so sorry to read this. It's so very hard after all the hope and wishes that go into your cycle. Do take time to heal and consider your options. DianeArnold has a list of questions she can email to you for the follow up. Hopefully your clinic will have some answers and suggestions for your next round. Big hugs xx

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Thank you so much. I had a good cry in the morning and my eyes are like little cushions. Thank God my brother is here which made me feel so much better. I will.phone on Monday and book a follow up consultation πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€— Sending lots of hugs xxx

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Oh my goodness darling I'm so sorry to read this πŸ˜“ this is just so unfair. I really hope your clinic will be able to help and make a good plan going forward for next time. Take care of yourself sending love and hugs to you xxx

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Thank you so much. I will phone them on Monday for follow up consultation and let's see. Im sure they will do everything to make our second cycle better πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Sorry to hear that hun! Happened the same to me 2 weeks ago. Had 3 eggs retrieved but 2 not matured and one fertilize but not developed. Wonder why they didn’t mature and developed. Our clinic couldn’t explained regarding this matter. And my period comes early. We trying again soon. Baby dust to us both! Good luck

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Im so sorry you've been through that as well. I was kinda prepared for this outcome. My follicles weren't developing right. Ad honestly i don't eant to grieve because this will make me feel worse. I will call on Monday for followup consultation and see what happens next πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—

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Ya, kinda devastating really but just keep be positive. Good luck!

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Im trying my best πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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I'm so sorry to hear this, I hope the clinic are able to provide u with some answers xox

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Thank you. Im sure thry will, they've veen amazing so far just it wasn't the right time yet πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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U've such an amazing positive attitude which can only help u get ur miracle baby, I'm sure the clinic will have learnt loads from this cycle for the next 1. Good luck xox

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Thankyou very much πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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I'm so sorry lovely, that's such sad news it must be devastating. Hopefully your clinic will be able to change things for your next cycle and achieve a better result but in the meantime be kind to yourselves and take some time to recover. Sending lots of love x

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Heyy thank youu. Im sure they will they've been fantastic through the whole thing. Luckily my brother is visiting and i will be busy for few days going around xx

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Awh my darling, my heart breaks for you. It is such an empty feeling. You look after yourself and take the time you need to grieve. Do use the councelling services available to you, it will help. Hugs to you my lovely, Xx

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Heyyy i did have a very good cry in the morning. I dont wanna grieve or go counselling as i think will make things worse. I will just carryon with life and see when they will let me start avai. Please tell me you have some better news!? πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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You do whatever works for you my lovely! As you see we have 1 embryo. Still a long way to go & the odds are still stacked against us but we must hope! Never give up hope! Xx 😘

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I've been aleays hopeful and positive person. Will get there πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€— i wish you all the best with all my heart xxx

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I’m so sorry to read this. It’s so disappointing and after going through all of the meds too. I love your positive attitude, it’s a credit to you.

Sending you big hugs πŸ’• xx

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Heyyy thank you so much. I cried in the morning, took it all out and feel much better. Also my body feels better after few days woth no injections. Im ready from today for what comes next xxxz

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Truly devastated for you. Look after yourself today.x

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Heyy i will. Will go have some nice time out, get myself my favourite perfume and will enjoy a nicr glass of wine as well. Well deserved glass of wine hihi lots of hugs xxx

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Ah sorry to hear this. I hope you’re able to get some answers at your follow up appointment. In the meantime perhaps you could take a look into extra supplements such as DHEA. I have never used it but many of the ladies have as it’s supposed to improve egg quality. It can’t hurt to look into xx

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Heyy thank you. Will do that definitely. Today will do some nice stuff as my brother is visiting and guess what, will have a large glass of wine ahhahahaha big hugsss xxx

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Really sorry to hear this hon. Hope at the follow up they have some suggestions for trying something different. In the mean time, focus on looking after yourself and keep your chin up xxx

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I promise i will! I feel better than i felt in the morning and will have a fantastic day today. I will call on Monday to book my follow up appointment and lets see when they will let me start again xxx

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So sorry to read this, the same thing happened to me on my second round.

Take some time, but there is lots they can do, I have had different drug regimes which made a big difference.

To give you hope, my third round I went on to get 3 day 5 blasto’s from the 3 that fertilised, this was after only 1 day 3 embryo on 1st cycle and a nothing on the second cycle.

We also used the Zita West IVF diet (it’s a book you can get from Amazon) which I think made a difference too. The food is super tasty and my eggs were much better quality, so a win win.

You are such a positive lady, which will stand you in good stead.

Big hugs.

Suzannah

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Thank you ever so much. After a good cry i feel much better. My brother is visiting so will spend next few days travelling around the country and will keeo my thoughts away. I will phone on Monday for a follow up consultation and lets see what happens next xxxx

Bug hugs to you too xx

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So sorry to hear this, hopefully you will get some answers a plan moving forward, and you can maintain you positive attitude xx

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I will. Honestly im so much more positive than i thought. I just want to have anotherconsultation and carry on πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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So sorry to hear your news, hopefully they can arrange you a quick consultation appointment to discuss what's happened.

Sending big hugs and love xxx

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Hope i can get the consultation soon. I don't wanna spendtime grieving as will make everything more difficult..❀❀xx

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I understand what you mean, the worst thing is the waiting around for the next step takes it's toll xx

Keeping my fingers crossed for you it will be very quick turn around for your appointment xxx

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Thank you hun πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Gutted for you, its such a rollercoaster.

its too early to reassure you now, but I do think each cycle gets better, its like our bodies learn each time. So am optimistic for your next one.

Sending you hugs xx

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Heyy thank you so much. I cried a lot in the morning but i won't cry more. I don't really like grieving for too long. I just want to get againon board and fight for what i want! πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ’xxx

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I know exactly how you feel, I was the same with my first failed cycle and even the same now with various things going on.. At least when you are in the cycle you feel like you are doing something positive. Well done for rallying! I could try (I think) as soon as post cycle period had finished so literally the next month - really hope its same for you xx

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Me too. I just want to be in board as you said to feel like im doing something. Good luck with everything xxxx

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Ahhhhh bad luck this time but better not to go ahead and then have a bigger disapointment further down the line hopefully consultation will get you closer dont give up it will happen just not yet look after yourself and fingers crossed for next time πŸ˜πŸ€žπŸ™πŸ‘ xxxx

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Thank you so much. Hope i can start again soon πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Hi I am terribly sorry hun, you were so brave and positive throughout this journey. I was keeping everything crossed for you. Sending lots of love your way. xxx

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Hey thank you so much. I spent the whole day out chilling and i feel better. Will arrangeon monday the follow up consultation and lets see xxx

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Your a amazing woman, sometimes you just need to carry on! Just look after your self and go with the plan you have and remember to write down all the questions you need to ask before consultation! I hope it all goes well for you xxxxx

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Will definitely do that. I will keep positive after I've seen so many stories here i know there is always always hope so never give up and i want to start again as soon as i can πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Oh how gutting (!) I'm so sorry for you - really hope you get some more answers

Has their been any concern over egg quality? And hubbys sample i know had issues this time... Is he on supplements too?

You can email diane to get a list of q's to ask at your appointment

You're so strong i know you'll get through this xx

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Hubby semen analysis has been really good. We are on different supplements recommended by the clinic, lots of vitamins, we stopped smoking and drinking. Maybe it was just not our time yet πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€— Im ready for next round hahaha. He even said this morning "Don't worry if the cycles here don't work we can always go to Turkey" (he is Turkish btw). He is really supportive and in such a hard time i love him even more πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Aww I'm so glad you're able to support each other through this difficult time

I feel even closer to my hubby too 😍

Ahh that's handy @turkish! Yes apparently they have many good clinics and are usually quite forward thinking in a lot of their treatment

I think i read that on the day your hubbus sample wasn't great? Maybe that was it and next time it'll be your time xxx

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Yesss. His semen analysis were great last time but recently he was under so kuch stress and worked so hard so maybe all affects it. Next time will be better πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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My husbands was opposite - his sample weren't great to begin with so they took a frozen sample of his a few weeks/months before the cycle

On the day of cycle he gave fresh sample which was perfect! But if it wasn't they could use his frozen sample instead so no delays.

So might be worth asking your clinic about a reserve frozen sample from your hubby too x

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That's definitely a good advice. Will ask for it as well xx

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So sorry to read this hope you get the answers you want at consultation xx

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I'm sure i will. The guys at the clinic are fantastic and I'm sure for next round they will do more to help us improve everything πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Take care x

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I will thank you πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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So sorry to hear that :( it happened on my first IVF too. Only two eggs retrieved, none fertilised.

My recommendation is to ask the doctor or the embriologist what are the possible causes of the missing fertilisation (sperm quality/egg quality), if you need further testing or ICSI. In my case, only one egg was enough mature but it was just bad luck with ICSi. When we tried some months after that, we managed to fertilised 1 (but did not end up in bfp) and with our last ivf we managed to freeze 2 embryos. We’ll transfer them in February.

Don’t give up hopes, every cycle can be different 🌷

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Our bodies are different each month anyway. Im not putting myself down for one fail and i don't even accept it as a fail but life. Next time will be better πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Yes, that’s the right attitude, you got this gurrl! X

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❀❀❀❀ We all got this πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—

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So sorry to hear this wishing you lots of luck for your follow up xx

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Thank you so so mucj xx

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Sorry to read this. You appear positive from the below replies. Hopefully your clinic have learnt from this cycle and can tweak things for more success next time. Sending big hugs x x

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Thank you. Even in very dark times I've been always desperate positive hahha. Sometimes is way easier like that and i just don't think about it too much but carry on. Will get there all of us πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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I’m so sorry to hear this, sending big hugs. πŸ€— xxx

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Thank youbso much. Big hugs your way tooo xx

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Sorry to read your disappointing news, I hope u get answers from your review, alot can b learnt by consultant from the first cycle.. take care x

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So true. At least now they have mkre clear view of how my body works and what can be improved xxx

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So sorry to read this after it all looked promising. It was only your first shot though, I’m sure they’ll adapt and it’ll be better news next cycle.

Until then treat yourself, sending hugs your way xx

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I will definitely be kind and treat myself really well πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xx

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Really sorry to hear this! 😞 were you on a low dose then? Hopefully they will adapt for the next cycle! Do you get another go I’m assuming as it was cancelled? Hope you’re ok xxx

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I was on a very low dose due to pcos and also i had a cyst this month. I have 2 frozen and 2 fresh through the NHS sp hopefully Next time will improve xxx

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Well that’s a positive. Just got to keep going. That’s all we can do. Enjoy your wine! Xxx

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I will carry on and i can't wait for what future brings πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Really sorry to hear this, it’s good that you can stay positive, have that glass of wine tonight and I hope your follow up appointment isn’t too far away so you can get some answers to all of the questions I’m sure you have now x

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My head is full of questions but will keep thrm for now. Today i will just sit back, relax and watch a nice movie xxx

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Biggest hugs to you. I admire your attitude and positive outlook. Wishing you every luck in the next cycle xx

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Thank you ever so much. Seriosly if they let me im ready to start next week πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€— haha xxx

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I am so sorry to read this. I know how you feel with my last cycle not resulting in anything being transferred. Going through it all and the emotions is hard. I found that the only way to get through it was to look forward and have a plan. I hope that you can continue your recovery. You are amazingly positive and your fertility team will have learnt so much from this cycle. Sending you big hugs xx

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So truee. The easiest way to carry on is look forward to the next step πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€— Honestly the recovery from EC is more difficult from accepting the idea of not having a nut to transfer πŸ™Š I will have few busy days travelling around with my brother so will keep my mind away from ivf for a bit. But then will return full of power and positivity and ready for my next cycle πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Huge hugs to you. I’ve twice had nothing to transfer and it’s absolutely heart breaking. Keep at it though one day it will be our turn xxx

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Thank you so much! Im so sorry you went through that twice. You must be a really strong woman cause yet herr yiu are still fighting and being positive! Sending millions hugs πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€—xxxxx

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My prayers to God for things to progress and you have a lovely healthy baby soon. You are a positive person. Keep it up. Best wishes and Best of luck.

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Thank you very much πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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This is very sad , I no you feel like you have put your body through the mill without anything at the end but this will give the hospital/clinic the information they need to make your next cycle better for you hun. They will up your meds and maybe give you extra drugs.... I am wishing you all the luck in the world for your next cycle πŸ™πŸ€—

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I definitely don't think was for nothing πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€— New cycle new luck hihi πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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I am so so sorry my lovely. My heart goes out to you!

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Thank you so much hun.

Any news with you? Xxxx❀❀❀❀❀

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I’m so sorry to hear this. Keep strong 😘😘😘

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I'm doing my best i keeping strong πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—Thank you xxxx

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So sorry to hear this news. But I think your positive attitude is amazing, hun. So take good care of yourself and just stay focused on the next steps. I know you will get there in the end. 😘

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Thank you so much, i will phone tomorrow to book my follow up appointment. You take very good care of yourself and happyand healthy nine months πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxx

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Aw hunny I’m so sorry to read this, I know how difficult it is to not get to transfer. On my first round I only had 3 follicles and they were all empty, I was gutted, I know we know it can happen but it’s still so cruel when it does. I’m in for EC this Tuesday and we only have 4 follicles so I’m not feeling over hopeful that this round will go any better but only time will tell. Take some time out to get your head around it all and treat yourself to some tlc you deserve it 😘

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Heyy. Im trying not to thinj about it. Luckily my brother is visiting and im going here and there doing different stuff. Still quite sore after EC. I had like 16+ follicles but seems my eggs were nkt that good and hubby sample wasn't great which was a surprise. I will.phone them tomorrow for a followup consultation. Next tjme will work better.

I really hope you get 4 very healthy eggs πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—xxxxx Best of luck xx

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Really sorry to hear this how upsetting for you both. Hope your follow up appointment comes soon & you can discuss the way forward ❀️ xoxo

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Thank you so much. I'm phoning them tomorrow to book follow up consultation πŸ˜πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—πŸ€—xxx

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Sorry to hear this. Hoping you don’t have too long to wait for your review.

Take good care of yourself in the mean time x

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