Scan update

Sadly my scan didn't go well this morning,although the sac had grown slightly they couldn't see anything inside,they want me to go for another scan next friday just incase but I know its just prolonging the inevitable....I feel so so sad xx

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I’m so sorry to hear this news. You must be devastated. I had a chemical pregnancy last year & hearing bad news is crushing after it’s such a fought for and wanted pregnancy.

Being in limbo is horrendous but I really hope Friday gives you better news or at least get closure.

I know there is nothing anyone can say to make this better but I’m thinking of during this difficult time xoxo

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Thankyou, I know that all of us on here have gone through so much and I'm sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy, it doesn't get any easier does it! Xx

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It can be a heartbreaking journey that is for sure!

My fertility doctor said something really lovely “ through the dark cloud the silver lining is that you did conceive and this is positive. “

I try to see it as progress as at least we fell after 6 year of not managing to fall. Try to see something good out of something truly tragic.

I promise you you will get through this ( I know it won’t feel like it now) . A day a time xoxo

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you that is a positive way to look at it, we just have to keep our strength to keep on going xx

[CC2018]

So sorry to hear this. I hope you get your dream soon. Take care of yourself xxx

[Hidden in reply to CC2018]

Thankyou, this journey is so hard xx

[TRYING2016]

Im so sorry to hear such sad news, we cant ever be happy 😣 lots of hugs ❤️

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Thanks hun xx

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Oh no Claire. This is so hard. I completely understand. More so in that you want to keep believing and there is always someone on Google who has had a miracle, but in the back of your mind you kind of want it to be all over so you can start again. Sending you huge hugs xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank You,that's exactly how I feel, I wanted to have resolution today one way or the other, I'm just so tired xxx

[Tugsgirl]

So sorry. You’ve been in limbo and it’s hideous. Thinking of you xx

[Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you Tugsgirl, this journey is so tough, I don't know how you manage to keep going! Xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hidden]

It’s a mix of desperation and hope xx

[Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl]

We can't give up hope xx

[Hidden]

No words for you - just sending love 💕

Hope Friday brings some resolution so you know for sure.

Xxx

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Thankyou I appreciate that xxx

[WaywardGirl]

So sorry to hear this. I think it’s something we all dread and the further down the line you get, the more emotionally invested you are. I hope Friday brings a miracle, in the meantime be kind to yourself x

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Thankyou, its difficult not to get carried away after a BFP but if in the future I will be a bit more cautious! Its the limbo that has been the hardest! X

[lucylob]

Sending lots of love! Xx

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Thankyou xx

[Novice_knitter]

I’m so sorry the scan wasn’t more positive or conclusive today Hun. Horrid to be in limbo - sending you a big hug & wish there was more I can offer xx

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Thankyou, everybody's support is enough xx

[Loulav]

Aw Claire. Im sorry to read this. I really don't know what I can say. Sending you much love right now x

[Hidden]

Thankyou, how are you doing? X

[Abaco]

Am so sorry to hear this, this journey can be so unbelievably cruel. Thinking of you X

[Hidden in reply to Abaco]

Thankyou, it is really tough xx

[Devj]

Sorry to hear this. Hoping you get a positive outcome on Friday xxx

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Thankyou Devj xx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry. How awful to keep you hanging on. Thinking of you xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you, being in limbo is the hardest part xx

[Clover5]

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. Sending love and hoping you get through this difficult time ok 💕. I’m booked in for my scan next Thursday and I’m so stressed worrying it won’t be good news. I’ve never made it to the scan stage so far 🙏 Xx

[Hidden in reply to Clover5]

Thankyou,fingers crossed for your scan next week,it sounds like you've been through a lot xx

[Clover5 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 💕 we’re really hoping it’ll be different this time around 🙏 xX

[Caza2009]

I’m so so sorry to hear this xxx sending you all the love in the world 💕 xxx

[Hidden in reply to Caza2009]

Thankyou Caza xxx

[Hidden]

Of course you feel sad as it hurts when your dreams are shattered.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I know I need to stay strong, pick myself up and try again...its just hard isn't it

[Autumnmoon]

I'm sorry this must be so difficult hope you have love and support around you x

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Thank you my parents have been amazing, my OH is trying but he's not great with emotion!

[Mantaray75]

So sorry to hear that. This limbo is just the worst.

I have my repeat scan on Monday but not holding out much hope even though hcg is still rising. As much as this pregnancy is desperately wanted I’m kind of over it.

X

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I understand exactly what you mean, I was really hoping for a conclusion yesterday,even though I know its over knowing I have got to wait another week is torture.

I really do hope you have better news on Monday xxx

[forMoira]

Sending love xxx

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Thankyou Moira xxx

[Dreamingofbaby]

So sorry to hear this it is tragic. I had the same with my last. Just so devastating. Take good care of u xx

[Hidden in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

I'm so sorry that the same thing happened to you, it feels so cruel xx

[Refocus]

I'm so sorry to hear and sending lots of love and hope xxx

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Thankyou for your message xxx

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear this terrible news I had bleeding at 12w and went to EPU and scanned I had a blighted ovum measuring baby at 6w mc, pregnant again all well scan at 12+3w baby with no heartbeat 💔 measuring 9w mc again totally crushed emotionally, hang in there & sending love xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thankyou xx

I'm so sorry to hear that this has happened not only once but twice, I can imagine how devastated you must be, sending you love back xx

[magda22]

So sorry, the emotional ups and downs are killer, aren't they? I'm sending lots of hugs too, be as quiet and kind yo yourself as you can be xxx

[Hidden in reply to magda22]

Thank you Magda xxx

[vic77]

I am so so sorry. .I feel your pain xxx

[Hidden in reply to vic77]

Thank you Vic, I just feel empty xxx

[Aleelilook]

So sorry 😞 please be kind to yourself at this terribly sad time xxx

[Hidden in reply to Aleelilook]

Thank you Aleelilook xxx

[Sherry07]

I’m so sorry to read this. Have been there two times before; nobody should go through this Take very good care of yourself xx

[Hidden in reply to Sherry07]

Thankyou Sherry, sorry to hear that you have also had to go through it but pleased to see that you have had a positive result xx

[charR]

I’m so very sorry, I was in exactly the same position last July. I now have a 6 week old little girl so please don’t give up x

[Hidden in reply to charR]

Oh Congratulations on your little girl,fantastic news and gives me hope x