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Ahhhh, feeling so down tonight, if I see one more pregnant lady I think I will cry. My strength seems to have disappeared this afternoon. 😔

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It’s completely normal to feel like this every so often In our situation! When you do feel like that aswell it seems so many more people are pregnant or have just had babies and every program has a storyline with someone pregnant 😩. Try not to be too hard on yourself though. I’m sure your time will come 💕🤞 x

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Melissa11 in reply toClover5

Thanks for the reply, I’m glad it’s not just me. Just praying for the day it’s my turn. 🙏🏻🤞 . Xx

I kno we’re watching the old xfiles and even frigging Scully gets to have a baby it maybe 1/2 alien 👽 but still hurts.

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Don’t..... actually lol then. Bloody ridiculous isn’t it, other day a girl who has 4 already said she was pregnant again and she didn’t know what she was going to do. Obviously she doesn’t know our situation, but it just hurts. Why can’t I just fall on? Feel like everything we want we have to fight for. 😔 anyway I’m sure I’ll be fine tomorrow. Just a down afternoon. At least I know I’m not on my own, I know we are all in the same situation ladies. Xx

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Sorry just wanted to lighten the mood. We all feel ya bumps, babies, people selling baby stuff, announcements. 😩

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You did. Bloody scully 🤣. X

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Tho she did have a tough time during her pregnancy I give her that got thrown across the room and hit the wall, being chased and drugged and that baby was perfectly fine.

It is completely normal to feel like this. Don’t be too hard on yourself easier says than done I know that. I am terrible for feeling like this 😘 xx

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Jonesjp

Aw hunny we all have days like this, sometimes you need to allow yourself to wallow in it, we can’t be strong all of the time. I always find after what feels like a really bad day, always seems so much better after a nights sleep. Be kind to yourself x x x

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Melissa11

Thanks everyone, you have all made me feel a little better knowing it’s not just me. Your all stars ⭐️ thank you xx

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Shirazlover2013

We’ve all been there 😩 sometimes I think I’m actually going to turn green such is my envy! I try to remember that those pregnant ladies might be one of us who has struggled and finally got lucky. And the feeling does pass, a good nights sleep as mentioned above does refresh ones psyche.

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Drives

I had a cry in the toilets at work today 🙈 sometimes it hits you at the strangest of times. A colleague and close friend of mine just announced she's expecting her second baby and really struggling with the constant pregnancy talk 😢

It's not just you lovely but hope you're feeling today 😘

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Melissa11 in reply toDrives

Aww it’s soo true. Every day is different, today im feeling a little better. thanks. Sorry to hear it’s your bad day. Up and down our emotions go ... such a rollercoaster isn’t it. Hope you feel better tomorrow lovely!! Xx

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Feeling so much better now thank you. Just needed some good sleep and time chilling out with my husband 😁 I've got a week off work coming up and it can't come soon enough! x

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Faithful06

I’ve had 3 close people tell me in the span of 1 week that they’re pregnant. After 12yrs of waiting for our first one unfortunately those feelings don’t go away. We have off days. Allow yourself to do so.

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