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Broke down with the update

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Had my egg collection on Monday and got 19 eggs and hubby had decent results too. Was hopeful of getting a better cycle this time. Got a call today for day 5 update and was told that 12 were mature, 7 fertilized and none are blasts yet. They can only cofirm tomorrow. Around 2 look a bit hopeful and some are in morula phase. We are doing pgs and hence they need proper blasts for that. This is the second time and I feel quite drained with every stage. I told my mother the update and broke down. She broke down as well. I have never wished bad for anyone and I don't know why is this happening to me every time.

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NCS88

Keeping everything crossed for you. I understand your feelings it is nothing you have done yourself. Try do something to enjoy yourself even a simple task like sorting out some photos in a frame or making a cake whilst you wait to take your mind off of everything. Love and hugs Xxx

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hopeful123456 in reply to NCS88

Slept through the afternoon today 😕

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Niki_B

Oh geez you poor thing I can imagine how you are feeling 😥 but hey dont lose hope, I was shocked to get a call on day 6 to say I had 2 frosties! So as hard as it is try and stay positive and I have everything crossed that you get good news tomorrow! 🤞🙏🤞🙏🤞 sending you a big hug 💕 xxx

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hopeful123456 in reply to Niki_B

Thank you so much. I know others have faced bigger challenges in the group. But it gets tough at times to convince oneself on why can't it get smoother at some point of time. Seeing all your replies makes me feel so much better. All the best for your process. Sending lots baby dust 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Lou7744

Aww... gotta keep the faith. Got my fingers crossed 🤞 for you 💕 xx

They can do pgs on 6 day blasts so there is still hope xx 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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