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Happy but terrified - its BFP!

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Got our BFP this morning from our donor cycle. Feeling so happy but so scared as we've been here before.

Was a welcome relief this morning as only arrived back in New Zealand last night after an epic journey involving delayed flights, lost luggage, missed connections and then our car not starting. Nearly vomited twice on flight when served dinner - there was me thinking it was just terrible Emirates food!

This morning sat in bed with electric blanket on and having tea and crumpets. Such a change from the temperature in the UK. Off to pick up our dog in a minute to complete our current family. Can't wait after 6 weeks away from her.

xxx

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Congratulations! You must be exhausted from the journey, not to mention emotionally! I hope your luggage has been found! Good luck with the rest of pregnancy, fingers crossed all goes well moving forward xx

Huge congratulations, wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy XX

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Barbara1012

Congratulations! Wish you a happy healthy pregnancy - stay positive xx

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PurpleH

Congratulations, wishing you a healthy pregnancy x

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Cinderella5

Wahhhhh this is amazing news!! So so chuffed for you both! Know it's a long road yet but hurdle well & truly over!!xxxx

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Orla9298

Congratulations! Xxx

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DisneyJL

Congratulations!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 xx

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Lou7744

Aww... that’s amazing news! Many congrats 💕 xx

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72cloud9

Oh lovely news!! Wishing u love and luck & May this be your time xxxx

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destiny121

Amazing news congratulations... wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xxx

Yay! Happy happy brilliant news xx

Congrats mantarey, welcome back nz, yes v cold these days here, hope you try to stay warm, good luck with your pregnancyXxxx

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Whereabouts in NZ are you?

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Hendrson, Auckland

What wonderful news! I’m so happy for you. Huge congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 I cam understand the worries but I wish you the very best with your pregnancy xoxo

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Tezzabell86

Congratulations and make sure you rest xx

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Loulav

Congratulations on your BFP. Barcelona is our most favourite place to visit. How exciting that your having a Barcers baby. So happy for you both xx

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CC2018

Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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Dunla

Congratulations, super news. Very best of luck for a healthy pregnancy. I’m sure your doggy was delighted to see you xx

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misswinky34

Wow that’s great news 😍

Congratulations! I’m sure this will be your rainbow baby xx

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Mantaray75

Thanks for all your warm wishes. Still doesn't seem real but already feeling a bit sick at times and getting twinges which obviously make me paranoid.

My Spanish clinic don't bother with testing HCG but I had it done yesterday anyway, 14 days after transfer and it was 870 so very happy.

x

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Becks72

Hi, not on here much now but just wanted to say congratulations. I had donor egg IVF treatment in Barcelona and after a rollercoaster journey we eventually achieved our dream and had a beautiful little girl 6 months ago. We’re now planning a return trip for FET! Hope you have a happy healthy pregnancy.

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Mantaray75 in reply to Becks72

Thanks. Just waiting for it all to sink in. Been here before though so trying not to get too over-excited. X

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Becks72 in reply to Mantaray75

I know that feeling miscarried at 6 weeks the first time then 3 failed attempts, it was fifth time lucky for us. Despite my age it was a really easy pregnancy hence the plan for No. 2, never thought I’d be saying that. That was a great Hcg result fingers crossed all goes well and you’ll be seeing your baby on scan.

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embiemomma

aww congratulations! I know you're cautious but it's a massive hurdle overcome. Just look after yourself now and breath a bit easier! How long till your scan? Xx

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Mantaray75 in reply to embiemomma

Waiting to hear but probably around 15th. The clinic wanted me to have it at 6 weeks but I feel thats a bit early and I’ll panic if there is no heartbeat.

Did you decide to go for a 2nd child?

X

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embiemomma in reply to Mantaray75

i had a 6 week 2 day scan and could see the heartbeat quite clearly. Have a video of it too but i know it's not always the case... We're still sitting on the fence regarding baby no 2. we'd try naturally first though as we were unexplained infertility, with the option of 1 remaining frostie! Our little one is 16 months and I'm 37 next birthday so we'll decide in the next year either way i think. I always wanted 2 but not sure I'm cut out for it! 😂 xx

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7AVA

Great news Mantaray 🤞🤞🤞 xx

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