Am writing this through tears. Just left my OH at hospital after he got admitted for a small bowel obstruction. The options at the moment are an NG tube or another surgery. I had tears in my eyes as I left the hospital and cried the entire way home. I don't want to spend a night alone in bed without him, let alone countless (last time he was in hospital for 6 weeks). I just want to hold his hand or cuddle him so he knows I am there! Feel hopeless at home!
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Oh dear I bet he wishes you could be there with him too. He’ll probably be too poorly to appreciate you being there just now and not being there is not your choice. If possible I would go and get a hug from a good friend or relative and try and get some rest as it’s going to be a stressful few days. Lots of love x
Thank you I'm in Australia and it's 1:30am now we spent 7 hours in emergency before he was transferred. I know he's exhausted and hopefully he get the much needed rest xx
Oh dear at that time of the morning there isn’t likely to be a fresh supply of hugs.... I’m sending you a virtual one from the U.K. instead xxxx go get a nice jumper that smells of him and snuggle that in bed xxx
It is so difficult to watch the one you love go through difficult times but just knowing how much you love him will bring him huge comfort hoping he is home with you soon x
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