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Negative again 😒feeling hopeless...

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Feeling hopeless, heartbroken and the feeling this is just not meant to be. Why is this happening, now I have to let everyone know great...😕let everyone down again ...

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So sorry to hear this. This journey can be so cruel. Please take time out to take care of yourself. Hugs hun Xx

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Nix44

So very sorry to hear the bad news.

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elle80

You haven't let anyone down hun! Life is just really unfair sometimes. Sending you a massive hug xx

Sorry to hear this- but you haven’t let anyone down. This is something outside your control so please don’t blame yourself. Be kind to yourself and surround yourself with people that love you. Xx

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Caza2009

I’m so sorry to hear this. You haven’t let anyone down. You have to remember how incredibly strong you are for even being on this journey.

Take some time out for yourself, have a good cry and then decide on your next step when you’re ready.

Sending lots of love x

Sorry to hear this news....so heartbreaking.

I just feel this process is so random and we cannot control the outcomes so it cannot be your fault. Please don't blame yourself.

Sending you lots of love.

Xxx

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andylins

Oh, honey, I'm so sad for your bfn. We are here to support you. No letting down at all. Sometimes we share pains. Other days these are happy announcements. I believe this place is the hell of support for every situation. Now give yourself more time to recover. Don't be hard on yourself, you're a strong bravie struggling with her issues. Please do drop a line any time you need. My heart goes for you. Sending you massive hugs xx

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Apdp

Totally understand how you feel it’s the most awful thing to experience. I can relate to you. This time I am not telling anyone as usually very open about my treatment and when it doesn’t work you feel there is something wrong with you. It’s hard to know to keep it to yourself or tell people. Hope you are ok X

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Autumnmoon

I'm really sorry this didn't work for you but like everyone said none of it is your fault and you will be more disappointed than anyone you certainly have not let anyone down! Be extra kind to yourself right now and let yourself grieve in whatever way you want to sending love and hopes for happier times to come x

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cryst4l

Sorry to hear this jolo. Sending you hugs. Stay strong and take the time you need before the next step. X

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ziannarose

hi, Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. Go for the checkup. Consult a good doctor. My best wishes are with you. All the very best. My prayers are with you. Lots of love

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angellllll

Hey, I am so sorry to hear about the BFN. I am sure it must be a difficult time for you. It wasn't your fault! Therefore, you are not letting anyone down. TTC journey can be a difficult one. I am on the same boat as yours and can completely understand how that must feel like. However, you just have to never lose hope. You need to believe in yourself and the system. After this just hope for the best. I think you should check with your doctor and ask for some help. Maybe that way things will quicken up a bit. I am sure things will work out soon. Just don't let negativity strike your way. Keep yourself busy! Research on the internet for help as well.

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Cinderella5

Awww Im sorry to hear that. Its hard getting bfn after bfn and not knowing any reason why. Im the same, dont know if its just bad luck. Sending hugs.xx

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Babysitt

Dear so so sorry about news but pls stay strong and don’t blame yourself if you do that you never forget it. It’s no fault of yours since medically nobody can explain why it happens u are in my prayers

Hey there. Stop worrying. It was not your fault. Don't blame yourself. Destiny has its own plans. We can't control it. Don't lose hope. Stay positive. Good luck dear.

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jolo146

Thank you all ladies good luck on your journeys and all the joy in the world. Over and out 😘

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