Feeling hopeless...

[Britt86]

Hello everyone, I had my second FET on Wednesday and I already feel like it didn’t work. I had my first FET last month and when I got my BFN I just wanted to go right into another transfer but I’m realizing I didn’t really process my negative results. I’m now 4dp5dt and am now starting to process it, I feel really low and hopeless, like I will never get my BFP... If there are any ladies out there who had a failed first transfer and ended up with a BFP on their second transfer please let me know, I need help getting back into a good head space! 🙏❤️ Thanks

[Jonesy84]

Hi lovely my first fresh transfer failed and then my second frozen transfer worked. I thought it didn’t as I had no symptoms at all! So the only thing I had to compare it to was when the first failed and had no symptoms. Honestly until you do the test anything is possible so please keep the faith. I had completely ruled myself out of the second working and was completely shocked when it did. Keeping everything crossed for you! Xxx

[Britt86 in reply to Jonesy84]

Thanks so much for your response! Congrats on your success, this is very inspiring! 😊❤️

[Jonesy84 in reply to Britt86]

I jdrovr myself silly googling and of course I would only see stories where people had every symptom but it definitely can happen with no symptoms present. Every body acts in it own way so I hope this give you some hope back as I know it’s very tortuous during the 2ww xxx

[Britt86 in reply to Jonesy84]

It does help, thank you so much!! 🙏

[CAS2]

It’s so hard. I just had a successful FET and felt the same as you and had zero symptoms so was shocked it worked. Keep looking after yourself and keep busy. Test day will be here soon. You are stronger than you know xxx