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Negative

Morning all

Well I have done my test and it was negative as I thought it would be awaiting clinic to ring.

I’ve decided not to let this get me down but in the back of my head I know it has and a part of my heart is breaking.

I know one day I will be blessed but for now I’m gonna work on myself And start again ASAP

Good luck to everyone on here xxx

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Really sorry to read this. I truly hate seeing bfns here xx

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Sorry to head your outcome, bfn's are hard! Plan something nice for yourselves for going through this crap and hold onto each other tightly!xx

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It feels as though my husband is taking it hard and blaming me slightly he says not to worry it’s not your fault but I see different x

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Well only he can know that but he will come around......although Im sure he doesnt. I think as a female we all feel a bit guilty that our bodies cant do the simplest of things and it probably us that feel its our fault more than anything and so feel other people blame us too. The more Ive gone on in IVF, Ive learned that its just a masive lottery with pretty rubbish success rates! Just make you to talk when you can and try to be there for each other....you do come out the other side eventually!xx

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Thanks I know deep down he loves me and we will pull together on this and treat it as a bump in the road a hurdle we have to get over thanks so much for you advise xxx

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So sorry bfn are difficult. Take care xoxo

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Big hugs xx

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Oh im so sorry to hear this, its so disheartening. Good mind set though, got to carry on! We will get there xxx

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Sorry to hear this. BFNs are really hard.

Take some time out for you and your hubby and go again when you are ready xxx

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Sorry to hear Hun! Don’t give up... keep going until you get what your want x

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So sorry to hear this Hun! Big hugs xx

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Thanks all awaiting the clinic to ring with next step I’ll let u all know xx

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really sorry to hear, wishing you both strength in the days ahead. be kind to yourself 💕

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Sorry to hear this and this is no ones fault. They don’t call it a miracle of child birth for nothing... you can do everything wrong and still come up positive or do everything right and have a negative. There is no rhyme and reason to any of this which makes it so frustrating. Wish you strength and move forward and hope you find hope again. Xx

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I’m sorry you’re having to deal with such heart breaking news. Thinking of you and wishing you nothing but the best going forward xx

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I'm so sorry, sending you massive cyber hugs xx

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