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Due to start IVF but now bleeding

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Hi All, after 7 years trying to conceive, endless tests, weight loss and a final diagnoses...we have decided to go for IVF. I have been told to go for the long protocol and my date for the first injection is the 29th June 2018.

I woke this morning to find that I was spotting and a 50p sized clump of endometrial tissue (TMI SORRY!) fell out of me when I was showering. I am now really upset and stressed out about this. On top of this my cousin and his wife have announced that they are expecting their second baby, they are gutted as they did not want another baby and I feel really angry.

I hate this...just feel like a horrid person.

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Hey try not to stress, it usually happens with women or couples who are not planning etc i work with women one went through 3 abortions and she didnt think what women would go through to have the one. Unfortunately this is how some are inconsiderate and not bothres but try not to stress. If you can phone your clinic and see what they say...and why are you feeling like a horrid person?? You shouldnt have to feel like this if anything you should be a brave beautiful lady starting on this journey with the rest of us. I hope it all still goes to plan call them and see what they say xx

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Thank you! I am trying to stay positive. I am 33 and have been trying for so long now that it is at a point where it just consumes me completely. Honestly can not remember what my life was like before all of this.

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It can feel like this but if you read all the positive amazing stories here it gives lots of hope and its only a matter of time before you know it you will be giving us good news! Try to stay positive and take everyday as it comes xx

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Thank you for your kind words. xx

hi, Hope and hell hope so you are doing great. Don't take so much stress. All will be fine. Go for a checkup. Stay positive. Nothing is impossible. Just don't lose your hope. Sometimes things seem to be impossible. But things are possible. You are a very strong lady. Just keep calm. Handle the situation patiently. My prayers are with you. Don't think negative. Best of luck ahead. Soon you will be blessed with blessing. Lots of love!

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Thank you. My consultant said the IVF can still go ahead. Xx I appreciate your kind thoughts and words xx

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Hi. Surrogacy is not an option for us. I haven’t tried IVF yet so will have a try first. Thank you for replying.

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Fingers crossed for your IVF cycle. And a BFP very soon!

You are not horrid at all - we all struggle with friends and relatives announcing pregnancy while we are going through this journey. It is totally natural. Everyone on here can relate.

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Thank you. Xx

Hey did you start IVF in the end???xx

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Hello. I have. I started a week ago.

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And how is it going ?xx

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Exhausted! Injections are the easy part. Feel very thirsty but it’s part of the treatment. Being a secondary school teacher doesn’t help the stress levels.

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How is it for you?

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For me it went really easy .I did my injections and then took week off just to stay at home. Had my egg collection yesterday and provisional transfer booked for this Monday.So planning to go back to work this week coming.Im retail manager so very stressful and a lot of running around 😀

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Hope it all goes well for you. Hopefully EGG collection will be on the 31st of this month and 2ww (if any good embryos) will be within the school break. Keep in touch x

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I was on short protocol so everything was super fast.Good luck!!!Xxx

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