It’s 3 weeks since it was finally confirmed we’d lost our baby following IVF with DE. We’ve been TTC for 6 years, 3 rounds of IVF, 2 miscarriages, £19k and a lot of heartache later and we still haven’t managed to get our longed-for baby.
My OH is feeling really angry about having gone through all of this and won’t even entertain the idea of trying one last time with our frozen embies. I can’t accept that I’ll never be pregnant with our child and we’ve reached an impasse where I’m now back in limbo still not knowing if I’ll ever have children at all as he doesn’t want to talk about it.
The clinic have suggested a follow-up appointment but OH doesn’t want to go and I don’t know what they’ll tell us that we don’t already know. Can anyone advise what they talk about at the follow-up and whether you found it useful.
I really don’t know where to go from here. I’m trying so hard to hold it all in so I can function at work and in life but I feel like I’m close to breaking point. I haven’t really grieved this loss, I just feel numb 😢