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Struggling to feel happy for any pregnant friend..

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So as the post says.. this isn’t a new thing, but even friends who have been through losses and are now pregnant I can’t seem to deal with this. I though after this long time I had got past this.. but after our miscarriage I seem more bitter than ever 😔

I so wish to put something positive on this page.. sorry for moaning to you all!

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Im stuggling with my cousin GF because she just gets on my tits.. cuz she txted me on what should of been my due date for the twins i lost at 11 weeks to say she was preg n she cudnt understand why i didnt reply. To b far i cried my eyes out with anger to be fair x

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Star9

Please don’t be hard on yourself, your feelings are completely normal, this must be even more so after your sad loss. Take care of yourself and don’t be sorry, this is the place to share your feelings for support 😘 xxx

I wish I had an answer for you. The pain just goes so deep and being around pregnant people and friends with young children gets more and more unbearable for me as time goes on. I hate that I can’t be happy for people. Jessica Hepburn and Jody Day both talk beautifully about how far reaching the pain is. I find it helps to know that what I’m experiencing is in some way normal xxx

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