Yesterday got the results of my bloods and his sperm.
Outcome - bloods were fine all but one thing - a past infection of chlamydia (which we both caught off one of the women we slept with together... we swing with women but are extremely safe after that!) - he said I'm in the 512 bracket something to do with antibodies for it which puts me at risk from scarring of that past infection. So I've booked in for a laporoscopy so Akande can fix it if there is scarring in the tubes.
His sperm - on the slower side - below average but maybe able to get pregnant naturally for it. However, he's put us in the ivf bracket.
Not sure why but I'm very positive about the results! I was mostly concerned that I'd have a worse sexual disease and he was more concerned about shooting blanks. But we are both happy with it all and things should set off well. Booked in for the 10th July will be an overnighter - not sure how he'll feel about it but I'll tell him once he's had a cooling off period. He said yesterday to just take a few days off to not think about it all and relax a bit. No point in springing the overnight stay on him he's given me the okay for the surgery so all is good!