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Hey,

I haven’t post for a while but I wanted to congratulate everyone on their BFPs and scan pics I’ve seen and let everyone that’s had sad news know, you will survive this.

I’ve managed to get a cancellation appt so will be having my surgery next month in hope I can start my FET in August🤞

Have to say the waiting never gets easier and the fact it’ll of been a year out of treatment doesn’t sit easy for me if I dwell on it to much.

I do know though my mental health is the most important thing and that’s what I’m concentrating on atm 💛

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Good luck for your surgery! I’ve just set the wheels in motion for a new cycle and the clinic are going to draw up a treatment plan and contracts so that hopefully I can have my scratch in July and cycle in August so we may have similar transfer dates. 🤞for us both this time around xx

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Oooo I am the same as you ladies I think! August FET.

:)

Can't wait to get going!!!

🤞☘

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Good luck to you both Tugsgirl and Hidden xx

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Ah it’s good to have some cycle buddies, fingers crossed for us all!

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E_05 in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you, am pleased you’ve been able to chose a new clinic and have a plan in place. Definitely it has to be our times this time 🌈

Can’t be long until your wedding now? Xx

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Tugsgirl in reply toE_05

We finally decided to go with the old clinic! It was kinda tough but I know I feel comfortable there (as comfortable as you can be in this situation haha). Yes, June 28th xx

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E_05 in reply toTugsgirl

Oh sorry I misread new cycle and clinic! Sometimes I think in this journey going with what/who you know can be a good thing. Ah that’ll be here so soon, hope you have a lovely day xx

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XxjustmexX

Wishing you all bfp on your fet 😃 xx

I've been thinking about you...Glad to hear things will be moving sooner than anticipated. Good luck with the surgery and your subsequent FET xx

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Thank you, yeah I’m relieved i don’t have to wait until August now. How’s your pregnancy going? Xx

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Ok I think! I seem to have been lucky and only have mild symptoms but rather than enjoying feeling well it has created more anxiety! My 12 week scan is next week so fingers crossed everything is ok. Xx

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That’s understandable but I honestly think lack of symptoms isn’t always a bad sign. Look forward to hearing good news from you next week xx

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7AVA

I’ve been wondering how you’re getting on. Great news that you’ve managed to get a cancellation. Hope all goes well xxx

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E_05 in reply to7AVA

Thank you! How are you doing? X

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I’m ok. Still undecided about whether to put ourselves through another round with my eggs or go straight to donor. We’re supposed to start next month so need to decide soon if we are!! Have an appointment on Friday at a different clinic about donor eggs as there is a 6 month waiting list at ours. X

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E_05 in reply to7AVA

That must be really tough for you, have you been able to speak to a counsellor or anything to perhaps help you make the decision? I hope your appt goes well on Friday xx

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We have had appointments with counsellor at our clinic but it’s more been if donor eggs is the right route for us. I think we’re pretty sure it is but hadn’t thought of discussing decision about final attempt with own eggs with her. Perhaps that would have helped. We’ll see how it goes on Friday anyway. Thanks for your support and sending you so much luck with your operation and forthcoming round xxx

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Good luck with your surgery and thanks for asking how everyone is especially that some of us are not that active on this forum :)

Following my husband’s illness we still have not decided when to start the second round of IVF. Part of me is panicking because I’m getting older but part of me knows that it might be too much for us to handle IVF at the moment. I wish you all the best and hopefully we hear good news from you soon x

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E_05 in reply toKari55

Oh I’m sorry to hear your husbands been unwell, is he better now? I think you’ll know when the time is right, sometimes it can cause extra pressure when you’ve already got a lot going on in your life x

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Kari55 in reply toE_05

Thank you, he is much better now since end of May do fingers crossed he continues that way and there won’t be any nasty surprises x

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E_05 in reply toKari55

Ah glad he’s doing well and good luck for when you start your next cycle x

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E_05

Thank you, hope you are doing well.

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Gemz29

I’m happy that you have been able to get a cancellation, hope your doing well?

Since my treatment ivf for unexplained infertility I was advised to complete a amh blood test which come back really low😔 this was the only bad result I’ve had from all tests completed. I felt really disheartened, However after meeting with a different consultant today I’ve been prescribed clomid & advised to take DHEA. To be honest I’m willing to give this a go as I don’t feel ready to undertake IVF again yet... (plus it’s a lot cheaper) you have amazing strength to go though it again 😊 xx

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E_05 in reply toGemz29

Ah so lovely to hear from you! I’ve struggled a lot with my anxiety since last year but am doing okay thanks.

That’s understandable, it’s tough to deal with news you wasn’t expecting. I’m glad you got some answers today, I took clomid before IVF - don’t know what your consultant advised you but I took it at night so the side affects like sweating etc were more bearable xx

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