Took a few months away from here after we miscarried at 7 weeks from our first fresh cycle- it was all a little raw for a while and took a little while to dust ourselves off...
We’re about to embark on a medicated frozen cycle (in fact I started the meds this morning !) and I’m torn with emotions...
I’m relieved that the excitement is still there (I was so scared we had lost it) and I smile when I think about what could be around the corner.... but at the same time I’m scared about the what ifs...
What if it happens again? Does there mean I have a wider issue? What if it doesn’t work at all? Will the bitter disappointment be as crushing as the miscarriage?
I guess I’m just needing to vent these things a little - it’s all a little much trying to process through.
Anyone any wise words that may help ?
Xx
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Hi Linds I think you’ve done the right thing by taking a break. I want to wish you lots of luck for this cycle 🙏🏼🍀🤞🏼 I know how you feel! I’ve lost 6 pregnancies ranging from 7 to 14 weeks and the anxiety and fear is real but we have to push past it, be brave and positive because it can and does happen 🙏🏼 I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant and cautiously optimistic. We just have to take it step by step but ultimately as cheesy as it we’ve got to be in it to win it!! Xxx
Thanks so much!! It sure is a crazy rollercoaster, have to learn so much on the way and toughen up to be able to make our dreams happen. I have a friend who went into depression due to early menopause but didn’t even want to try because she was scared to fail, you don’t get anywhere like that! Miscarriages are so common and i honestly don’t have 1 friend or family member who hasn’t had at least one but the key point is they’ve all gone on to have healthy babies 🙏🏼. Thinking of you and wishing you tonnes of luck for next time 😘🍀🤞🏼Xxx
I think it’s natural to be apprehensive after you have been through so much heartbreak. I think all you can do is go in open minded and with lots of support from OH... I’ve tried to start new cycles and not become emotionally invested, but it’s impossible! We’re not robots after all. Wishing you every bit of luck this round - Fingers crossed for your BFP 🤞 xx
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