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Looks like this time is not the time for us 😐

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Heavy bleeding this morning prompted a rush up to epu. Scan showed no pregnancies in the womb. Awaiting blood results now to understand if ectopic or if this time is just not our time. So sad.

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwwww lovely. I'm so sorry. Thinking of you big hugs hun. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Thank you very much. I am trying to look on the bright side that at least this time I did get pregnant and we have 3 frosties left. And another trip to Spain. Xx

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Bless ya. Love your taking a positive out of this. Hopefully next time is your time lovely

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So sorry. I hope you get some answers soon xx

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Autumnmoon

So sorry x

I'm so sorry to read this. Hope you get some answers soon. x

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Amanda86

So sorry πŸ™ sending love your way xxx

Oh no hun I’m so sorry. I had an early miscarriage last year and it’s totally heartbreaking πŸ’” Thinking of you xoxo

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Thank you very much xx

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Jm82

So sorry to hear this xx

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Tugsgirl

So very sorry xx

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry to hear your news. Sending hugs x

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Cinderella5

Ahhhh im so sorry to read this! Thinking of you both. Sending love and hugs xx

So sorry my lovely! Sending you lots of hugs. 😘

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read this πŸ’• xx

So so sorry to read this post. Are you still very very early to see anything in a scan? I know when I got scanned at around 5 weeks we were told not to be upset if nothing was seen. Also so many ladies bleed very heavily and are still pregnant. When I miscarried I hardly bleed at all and only for 5 hours. I have everything crossed. You are so lovely and so supportive to many. Big hugs xxx

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Thank you so much Snuggles. The lady at epu said that the stenographer is one of their best and most experienced, and that it was their good scanning machine. Also, with my 266 result on 16th they would expect the hcg to be much higher at this point.

Not likely to be seen by Monday but they are going to take bloods again then. Really they are looking to ensure that my hcg is reducing and that I don't have an ectopic pregnancy.

They said that with less powerful machines or less experienced stenographer yes things have changed in the past but not today.

I am going to continue my meds anyway. Until someone prompts me to stop.

If nothing else, I know today I am the most pregnant i have ever been and this may have been my bodies trial run before my next transfer which will be successful through to birth and old age!

Everyone has been so supportive. Thank you so much xxxx😘

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That’s such a shame but you are so good at looking positive and being pregnant once means hopefully it will happen again xxx

I have just had a huge amount of blood tests done to see if anything comes up that may cause miscarriage. Don’t know if you have looked at anything like that?

Keep strong my lovely xxx

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I know about them all but haven't done them. We will have to look at it. Xx

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emu2016

Oh Camillage. Sending massive hugs xx

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Thank you xx

No no no 😭 it’s not fair. My love to you x

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lianm8

I am sorry xxx thinking of you xxx

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry. This hurts like mad I know been there four times. Take care of yourself xxx

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Laceygirl

So sorry to read your post, hope you get some needed answers soon. Amazed by your positivity in the face of adversity and inspired by it. Much love xxx

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