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To scared to test and see a bfn

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So title says it all really! I’m to scared to see another negative! I’m 2 weeks past trigger and 12dpiui! I’m having af type cramps and have had sore (.)(.) for a few days! It’s Mother’s Day tomorrow and I would rather know I’m out before af shows up, it’s also my partners bday! I don’t know whether to try and hang on until Monday when I’ll be exactly 2 weeks after my iui or wether seeing the negative will soften the blow if af comes! I’m just so scared to see another negative ! 😑😐

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Awwww honey, I can totally imagine what your going through, if I was you I'd try to wait is that your official test day hun? I can't offer you much advice hun, but I do really hope you get your bfp and when you test your celebrating. Big hugs hun I'll be thinking of you 💗💗🤗😘

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Cara_mac in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you 😊 the clinic have told me to test on the 13th, but the 12th will be exactly 14 days since my iui! So I’ll probably just hold off until my otd! Either way it’s torture xx

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Awww hun I can totally imagine, when's af due, really hope this is your time hun 💗🤗😘

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Cara_mac in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

I’m not sure when af is due because I don’t know for sure when I ovulated. I took the trigger 2 weeks today! But I’m on cd 28..but without medication I don’t get a period at all, so it’s really just waiting and hoping! My last iui cycle af came 5 days early xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toCara_mac

Fingers crossed the witch isn't coming then, I'll be looking out for your update hun, big hugs and try keep busy these next few days 💗💗🤗😘

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