Yesterday was 9dp5dt, OTD after natural FET on 20th December. AF was also due yesterday. I decided it was too early, ie.i was too scared to! I had a chemical two months ago so my thoughts were if I test later I’m less likely to Know about the chemical??!!! (Starting bleeding 16dp5dt last time) I’m clutching at straws...
Anyway we’re on holiday until 4th January now and my husbands birthday is NYD. Trying to decide when’s best, don’t want to wreck the holiday! I’m thinking that at least if it’s negative and I test tomorrow I can see if the NY with some fizzy pop?!!
Not sure why I’m posting, thinking out aloud....
Ps. Happy new year lovely brave ladies x
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Oh I feel for you, it’s the worst feeling isn’t it. No advice really just do what you think is best, will you feel worse and be constantly checking in the loo if you don’t test though? It’s going to be tough either way. I really really hope you have the bfp you are wishing for. Whatever you decide good luck and happy new year xxx
So sorry for your chemical pregnancy. I had one last year. It’s so heartbreaking.
I missed my period a few months ago which is something i never do my periods are always so regular.Endometriosis was my issue getting pregnant once treated we could conceive.
But I was like you terrified of testing & against it. My hubby on the other hand was desperate to test & insisted on testing the day after my missed period; I was scared of a negative test or worst another chemical pregnancy. He just wanted to know whether or not I was pregnant. So can really relate to what you are saying. I did test & made hubby look at the test which took an forever how does time stand so still 🤣 I burst into tears when he handed a positive pregnancy test. ✨I’m now 18 weeks & can’t believe after TTC for 7 years we got our baby 😍
Just because your last pregnancy didn’t work out doesn’t mean the next pregnancy wouldn’t. Most women who miscarry will go on to have a healthy baby 😘
Limbo is awful too.
No one can tell you when to test, that is your decision. Do whatever feels right for you. You might get a happy surprise 😍 wishing you the best & hope you a BFP what a lovely way to start the new year 😘
Bless u I have a scan on NYD to tell us either mc or viable good way to start the year isn’t it! I dunno I prob just test now as I’m quite impatient sometimes you have to push through your anxieties and fears I really thought going for another scan after 2 mc I would be absolutely terrified I’d cry thinking about it but on the day I was good even though they told us bad news I crossed that hurdle. I hope you get a super blazing positive to start your year and a healthy pregnancy xxx good luck
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I was thinking about you yesterday wondering how your getting on. Good luck for your scan, just to be out of that limbo must be a relief. I hope it’s good news for you . X
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Were ok just chilling he’s been at work most of the holidays so been abit bored taxi-ing kids their and friends had sleepover. Being realistic we’re prepared for mc but still hoping there’s a chance.
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ERA Test? 
Want to test starting to feel nervous! 
14dp5dt - faint positive 
