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OH MY GOD, this journey is something else! How am I only 5dp, feels like it has been weeks. I have odd cramping today, also feels like a stitch on my right side. My head is going all over the place that I just needed to get it out on here. I am still remaining positive that my baby is snuggling in and that I am pregnant and will be for the next 39 weeks but today I just feel so meh. Had a puncture this morning in my tyre which was annoying, and now this cramping sensation is making my mind run a million thoughts. It doesn't feel like AF at all, its quite a moderate cramping (if there is such thing). I am struggling to get warm in the office today, still sat in my coat from when I arrived. I hope this is implantation cramps I can feel - at first I thought they were just in my head but they are still here! Its so surreal how much worry I feel for my little dot right now.

Sorry, im done haha, I hope everyone is doing well xxx

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Sharonl75

It’s so hard, isn’t it! I’m 4dp3dt and it is dragging in!! Although at least at the moment I’m in that ‘it might have worked’ phase and there’s still hope.

Rubbish about your tyre but hopefully the cramping feeling is good news.

What day are you testing?

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oharal in reply toSharonl75

It really is, each day gets harder even though were closer. It has worked, remained positive!! Sunday, how about you xx

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Sharonl75 in reply tooharal

Officially Tuesday next week but I’m away with work Tuesday and Wednesday and working early on the Monday so can’t decide what to do for the best. Tempted to go for the Sunday as well even though it’s 2 days early!

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oharal in reply toSharonl75

I wouldn't test early just in case it was a false reading and I got worked up over nothing but do what you feel is best hun. Can you not test when you're away with work, well actually guess its okay if you get a BFP! xxx

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Sharonl75 in reply tooharal

I’m just not sure how I’d cope and do a full day’s work away from home if it was negative-but actually I suppose that might be the best thing to take my mind off it. Although if it were positive I’m not sure I could concentrate on work either! Can’t win either way! Lol

Oh yes this wait is killing my soul 😂!! I have absolutely no symptoms at all, havent even had any pink inplantation signs. Nothing! My nerves are on end. Desperate for test day to arrive but so petrified for it to arrive in case its not what I want to hear 🙈. And to top it off I have just had someone tell me “If you ever have kids just make sure you dont have natural birth, its just terrible” ummm how I wish that was my worry right now! Sorry I have just realised ive had a little vent. Ok I really think this wait is driving my crazy....

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P.s- sorry to hear about your tyre, not a good start to the day eapecially in the cold. Hopefully its almost home time for you and you can go curl up under a blanket and get warm.

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oharal in reply to

this made me laugh, if only people knew! I often wander down the road and all the people I see I do wonder what their life is like. I haven't had any pink, no signs are also good signs. Remain positive is the best, how long until you can test now? Yes 20minutes until home time woohoo xx

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Ha ha im glad I could make you laugh 😊. Today is 5dp5dt. I have my blood test only on the 19th but wondering if I should do a urine test on saturday. Im so scared tho 🙈. When are you going to test?

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Tugsgirl

It’s a really tough and crazy “two” weeks. It’s almost as if time stands still. Completely messes with your head doesn’t it? I think you’re doing really well so far though.. keep up the good (hard) work xx

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oharal in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you, only a few more days to go xx

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JULIETJAM

You will be just fine hun. Let’s keep our faith and trust. I pray for us every day. God has got this . Sorry about the puncture.xx

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oharal in reply toJULIETJAM

I know he has, we will be fine xxxx

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Dreamingofbaby

Oh I feel for u and right there with you too. It driving me crazy. Back to work today and couldn’t really focus and can’t sleep. Oh what fun we have a. Best wishes to you. I’ll be testing on Sunday too☺️ fingers crossed for u. Let’s hope a😊😀🤞🤞🤞

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oharal in reply toDreamingofbaby

I didn't believe anyone when they said it will feel like forever. Keeping everything crossed for the both of us xx

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Lou7744

I hear you! I’m on day 6... and it’s going soo slow! Wishing you positive vibes 💕 xx

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Ttc0919

I am the exact same as you. Had 1 - 5 day blastocyst embryo from a FET transferred Wednesday. I made a horrific mistake and tested today with a first response test. It was a BFN. Complete torture. Sending you so many positive vibes. My first day on the site and it is comforting that I am not completely insane with all these feelings I am having. My clinic tests on Friday though. Best of luck to you sending so many positive vibes. xx

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