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Donor chosen.

Hotel booked.

Flights booked.

Happy Mr and Mrs Emu.

Except I booked the wrong flights! So now we have to stay for two more nights! Well; we don’t... we could pay £35 to change the flights but after Mr Emu got over the initial shock (that only a man from Yorkshire with a padlock and an industrial chain wrapped around his wallet could experience) he decided that it was a sign. We must need to stay longer to relax... despite the extra £300. “What’s £300 now?!” So three nights became five.

First baseline scan is 20th Feb. Bloods were done last week and came back showing I have an alarmingly low level of vitamin D. So now I’m taking some tablets for 8 weeks to help.

86 days to go to transfer. Eeeeek.

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Gemilou

Good luck xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to Gemilou

Thanks Gemilou x

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7AVA

So much luck to you and Mr Emu xxx

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emu2016 in reply to 7AVA

Thanks! xx

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Hope85

Hiya!! Hope your okay! Happy For you! Let the count down begin ah 😊 xx

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emu2016 in reply to Hope85

Hey you! All good ta! I still feel pretty transactional and meh about it all. But I’m hoping I’ll start to get in to it soon. How’s you? xx

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Hope85 in reply to emu2016

Ah I bet you are Hun. I’m starting my FET cycle in March and I’m so scared of miscarriaging again. But we have to be brave don’t we 😬 xx

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emu2016 in reply to Hope85

It’s so hard. Being brave is an understatement! Good luck you! x

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Cinderella5

Ah ha ha ha ha I've honestly missed your messages about poor Mr Emu's wallet. I think my husband thinks I'm the same with my Scottish Purse!🤣🤣

Whoop whoop so pleased that everything is in motion for you! We're thinking out next transfer might be mid April which seems like an age away but I suppose it's not really!! I've also been advised to take vit D and a whole lot of other stuff. So pleased to you both, huge step for you guys!!xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Cinderella5

I think I’ve missed Mr Emu’s bloody wallet sagas! 😂

It comes round so quickly! I wish I could get excited or nervous! It is a huge step you’re right. Fingers crossed for us all! x

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Cinderella5 in reply to emu2016

Ha ha ha bless Mr Emu!! It sure does.....scary but exciting! Yes, fingers & toes crossed!!xx

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Poppy16

All the very best! Trusting all goes well.xo

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emu2016 in reply to Poppy16

Thanks Poppy x

You have had my husband and me giggling at your Yorkshire man financial dilemma 🤣🤣

May won’t be long around the corner! Funny how we seem to wait for ages and then it comes round all of a sudden! Where are you headed back too?

We are mid DE cycle, I have glorious oestrogen patches on (with sore boobs, headache and moody pants on!) including stabbing myself with clexane and suitably rattling from all my usual medication!! Hey ho!! We’ll get there hey?! xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to

You sound like a delightful rattling bruised peach!

Good job I love him; but he does speak sense! As if I’d be happy to get on a flight with just one day of relaxing after transfer! I’d be so panicked! But then last time I just wanted to come home and cried! Can’t bloody win!

We’re off back to Cyprus. Are you doing ok apart from rattling?! x

in reply to emu2016

I am my love, thank you for asking! 😘 My best friend likened me to maracas and pin cushion the other day, it’ll be worth it in the end!

It does make sense and hey there is nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy the Cypriot weather and food, all business and no pleasure as they say! I’m jealous that your going abroad! Please keep me posted, thinking of you 😘😘😘

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Dunla

Brilliant, great to hear you’re all set. I’m sure the couple of extra nights there afterwards will be a welcome treat for you both. It’ll be £300 well spent 😊

So much luck to you and your husband xx

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emu2016 in reply to Dunla

Let’s hope so! It’ll be worth the extra relaxing x

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Lou7744

Wishing you lots of luck for your journey ahead 💕 xx

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emu2016 in reply to Lou7744

Thanks Lou x

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Sprinkles86

Got everything crossed for you both MrsEmu, hopefully the extra couple of nights will be just what you both need xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to Sprinkles86

Here’s hoping! x

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TTCs

Thats fab emu2016! Very exciting times. A nutritionist recommended DLux oral spray 3000 to me if that helps at all 😘 xx

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emu2016 in reply to TTCs

I’m on 40,000 units of vit D a week... dr prescribed so we’ll see how I go. Hope you’re well too? x

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TTCs in reply to emu2016

Oh dear me! Well 3000 certaintly wont touch the surface lol, oops. Doc knows best 😊 I am ok thanks, got BFN on friday from 1st round ICSI, it sucks but doing ok. xx

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emu2016 in reply to TTCs

:-( sorry I missed that. What a shame. You make sure you do something nice or plan something nice for yourselves xx

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TTCs in reply to emu2016

Thank u! Off for a hotel break next weekend so that will be nice xz

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Laura_beth

Sending lots of luck your way!

Definitely enjoy the extra time, you’ll be thankful of it I’m sure. They say the first couple of days after ET can be when implantation happens so may as well get truly pampered while you can 🍀💕 xx

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emu2016 in reply to Laura_beth

We stayed 10 days last time. Definitely a bonus! x

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E_05

Wishing you lots of luck xx

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emu2016 in reply to E_05

Thank you x

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Littledee88

Fantastic news wish u lots of luck hun xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Littledee88

Thanks x

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Amanda86

Well an extra 2 days definitely sounds like a bonus!! 😀 good luck xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Amanda86

Thanks! x

Fantastic news. Wishing you lots of luck - enjoy the extra couple of days holiday xx

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emu2016 in reply to

Will do! May as well enjoy which bits I can! x

Good luck and enjoy your extra few days xx

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Thanks you x

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strong-girl

Hi Emu

Just wanted to say that u provide a great deal of support on here to everyone and Iv been on the receiving end of that aswell. Ur a strong person and hope this goes soo well for u, u really deserve it and u r Defo strong xx

Congratulations and enjoy the break it’s Defo a sign

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emu2016 in reply to strong-girl

Thank you strong-girl x

Good luck on your journey. Where are you flying of too? We went to Poland. You seem to have had a bit of a time of it. Fingers crossed my lovely xxx

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Cyprus. We’re very lucky that our clinic guarantees an FET. Thanks x

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Se99

Excellent!!!! The extra 2 days must be meant to be!!! I think I’m transferring about the same time x

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emu2016 in reply to Se99

Beginning of May? It’s all happening then! x

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Se99 in reply to emu2016

Just realised I can’t add up! Start of April! X

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emu2016 in reply to Se99

Haha! I’ll be start injecting then. Good luck lady xx

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Se99 in reply to emu2016

And you! Defo our turn!x

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emu2016 in reply to Se99

I’m all for that!!!!!!!!! x

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Emmyeve

Oooooooo this is great! Wonderful mistake hehe xx

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emu2016 in reply to Emmyeve

He’ll be saying I did it on purpose next! x

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Scarlett13

Hi emu! Good luck with your trip and so pleased you get to kind of have a holiday out of it! When going abroad, how many trips do you have to do? Obviously in England you have tests and consultations and lots of scans and then the procedures so I just can't imagine the logistics of going abroad and the cost of flights and accommodation and the time it takes to travel versus England? X

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emu2016 in reply to Scarlett13

My clinic is linked to one in Leeds. So I only have to go out for treatment. I do know that some women go out once before treatment to their clinics and it works well for them. xx

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Sunshine09

Wishing u all the best hunny, this is ur time, positive thinking all the way, and I agree it was a sign to spend an extra few days relaxing, stocking up on vitamin d, and when u come this far and have already emptied mr Bank several times, what the heck is an extra few hundred, that’s the way I look at it, it’s weird I don’t even think about what we have spent now, just feel this wee one wriggling around inside me, and I could never put a price tag on he/or she, good luck keeping everything crossed xx💋💋

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emu2016 in reply to Sunshine09

Some things you just can’t price like that! Fingers crossed it goes well this time. Hope you’re doing ok! xx

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Sunshine09 in reply to emu2016

Doing great hunny 16 weeks to go 💗💙💋💋

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Aleelilook

Oh wow good luck, brilliant on the extra couple of days, what a genius mistake to make!!!! Xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Aleelilook

Genius! Like it! x

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DC13

Wishing you all the best.

When is transfer day booked on for? Wondering if we might be de cycling buds again!!!@

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emu2016 in reply to DC13

There’s a few of us who might be! 7th May x

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Tugsgirl

Good luck. Enjoy the extra break xx

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emu2016 in reply to Tugsgirl

I’ll try! How’s you? x

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Tugsgirl in reply to emu2016

I’m ok xx

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emu2016 in reply to Tugsgirl

Sending hugs just in case x

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Tugsgirl in reply to emu2016

😘

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Dreamingofbaby

Best wishes. Hope goes well. Enjoy time away too. Why not a☺️

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emu2016 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thanks! x

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Kyell2

This is great news.

You are right, the £300 must seem like nothing when you count up (with head in your hands) how much you’ve actually spent on this journey. My OH’s favourite game is to list all the holidays and fun things we could have done with the 6k we have already spent and we’ve not even bought our donor sperm or paid for our first IUI yet😩. But it will all be worth it eventually!

Hope those 86 days fly by 🤞 xx

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emu2016 in reply to Kyell2

We daren’t add up the bills! They don’t include the massive splurges on items when it’s gone wrong! It will be worth it! #fingerscrossed x

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Hollibob

Great news...the next chapter begins :-)

X

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emu2016 in reply to Hollibob

A chapter that stays full of smiles this time I hope! x

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romaluna2015

All the best to you both xx

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emu2016 in reply to romaluna2015

Hey you! Thanks! x

Good luck Emu.

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Thanks you xx

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gattonero

Best of luck!!

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emu2016 in reply to gattonero

Thanks x

good luck we are the same flights and accommodation all book we head out on thursday eeeeeek xxx

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emu2016 in reply to

Where are you heading to? GOOD LUCK! x

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Iv only just seen this lovely

I must. Admit your hubby sounds like my grandad I remember grandma always arguing with him about being tight 🤣 he's a Yorkshire man born and bred too.

Just wanted to wish you luck lovely and vitd deficiency so common over here after you've finished the tablets invest in some drops to keep it at optimum levels that's what I did after my vit d tablets had finished just recently got my levels checked and they've stayed at good levels.

Good luck hun keep us updated 💗💗🤗😘😘

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