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Dear Peas,

Mr Emu christened you both peas on the afternoon of transfer as he gingerly tapped my tummy to check you were there. I hated it. “Stop making them real”. He’s been attached to you since you were transferred.

You’ll not know this, but when I had to pee in a bed pan after the transfer he felt the need to “check for lumps” in case you’d dropped out. He’s a funny one.

Mr Emu is definitely more excited about you than I am. Though we both know that if tomorrow brings a positive we’ll not really believe it until we see one of, or both of you, ourselves.

If you’ve made it through stresses of a mother in law with cancer, the risk of redundancy for Mr Emu, a fractured ankle and a very emotional Mrs Emu who has cried so much since you’ve been put back in debating whether it’s fair she can have you when she panicked if she even wanted you... then you are incredibly strong. And you’re already the offspring of an Emu.

I promise if you’re real, I’ll tell you all of these stories. I’ll be honest with you about how ridiculously heartbreaking this journey is so you can make sure you are prepared for potential problems and always be there for others.

I’ve refused to call you the peas until tonight. I can’t call if you’re there. But, in the morning, if you are there... you’re very welcome to stay. xx

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Maikai profile image
Maikai

fingers crossed for you and eagerly waiting your post tomorrow.xx

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emu2016 in reply to Maikai

Thanks you. Hoping you’re doing ok xx

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lorraineb61

Good luck for tomorrow 🤞🤞🤞

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emu2016 in reply to lorraineb61

Thanks lorraine x

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Lilli79

This is the sweetest post ever 😍 Good luck for tomorrow xx

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emu2016 in reply to Lilli79

😘😘😘

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vic77

I have everything crossed for you both that the peas are here to stay..much love 🥦🥦🥦I couldn’t find pea emoji so broccoli will have to do xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to vic77

How are there no peas?!?! Broccoli will do just fine x

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vic77 in reply to emu2016

Lol it’s a scandal...I been complaining all day so am sure I could write to emoji manager too 😜xxx

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emu2016 in reply to vic77

Yes! Do it! Pea emojis for 8am would be great x

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Cinderella5

Beautifully written lovely!💕 You made me well up there....what you doing to me....again?! I really hope those little peas have sprouted!!🤞🙏 I wish I could send you extra luck somehow, hoping tomorrow is the start of something special!!xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to Cinderella5

Do peas sprout? See vic77 ’s reply above... broccoli sprouts though! So here’s hoping peas do too! x

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Cinderella5 in reply to emu2016

Ha ha ha yes peas do sprout!😂 I know vic77 ....where is the peas emoji!!xx

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emu2016 in reply to Cinderella5

Good job! x

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gattonero

We've got everything crossed here for you hun! Good luck!!! xxx

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emu2016 in reply to gattonero

Thanks you x

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ama4

Following ur journey and staying so very hopeful or you both. Been a long wait for me too 😂 xx

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emu2016 in reply to ama4

Not long now! x

Wishing you so much happiness tomorrow xxx

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emu2016 in reply to

Thanks you xx

Choked up! Wishing you both all the luck in the world for tomorrow 🍀🍀🍀🍀 xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to

I don’t think I’ll sleep! x

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Sharonl75

Aw-Mrs Emu-I have everything crossed for you and your little peas tomorrow. Sending lots of love and hope your way.xx

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emu2016 in reply to Sharonl75

Thanks sharon xx

Good luck for tomorrow. Hoping you get a BFP, you really deserve it. X

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emu2016 in reply to

Thanks you x

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Jenjen84

Such a sweet post.. Really hope you get the BFP you both deserve tomorrow! Lots of luck 🍀 xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Jenjen84

Thanks Jen. xx

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baby2016

What a lovely post. Praying your posting very good news tomorrow xx

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emu2016 in reply to baby2016

Thanks you xx

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Dunla

So beautifully written and poignant. Feeling very emotional for you. You deserve happy news xoxo

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emu2016 in reply to Dunla

Thanks Dunla x

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precioce

Really hope the peas are in for the long haul 💕💕xx

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emu2016 in reply to precioce

Xxx

Good luck x

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emu2016 in reply to

Thanks you xx

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72cloud9

Very best of luck sweetheart xxx

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emu2016 in reply to 72cloud9

Thanks Cloud. Big hugs x

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Squeak2

Wishing you lots of baby dust lovely 💕 xx

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emu2016 in reply to Squeak2

Thanks Squeak - again! x

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Squeak2 in reply to emu2016

Most welcome xx

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Mifkipi

You brought a tear to my eye! Hoping for some happy news tomorrow xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Mifkipi

Thank you x

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MrsAb77

Wow what a beautiful story.Thanks for sharing XX

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emu2016 in reply to MrsAb77

Xxx

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WaywardGirl

Everything crossed for you! x

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emu2016 in reply to WaywardGirl

Thanks x

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destiny121

Fingers crossed....you and mr emu sound like such a nice couple and i prayer this is your time... good luck xx

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emu2016 in reply to destiny121

Thanks Destiny xx

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bms12

I so hope it's good news I'm reading tomorrow!! You both deserve the best xx

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emu2016 in reply to bms12

Thanks! If I ever get to sleep! x

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Flossy85

Good luck for tomorrow 😊 I don't often come on here of late but I just had to come on and wish you all the best of luck. Beautiful post as always Mrs Emu. Come on little peas 😀❤ Xxx

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nikki85xx

I have everything crossed for you both . Xxx

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emu2016 in reply to nikki85xx

Thanks Nikki x

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Autumnmoon

Good luck for testing hoping to see good news!

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emu2016 in reply to Autumnmoon

Hope so! x

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Omg 😢I'm an emotional wreck. Peas oh peas please give us the most amazing news this morning.

Love you Mrs Emu really hope this is your time my love 💝😘💝🍀🤞🏼💝😘

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emu2016 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Not long now... can’t hold this bladder for much longer! x

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Sprinkles86

A beautiful post Mrs Emu, fingers and toes crossed for you for tomorrow xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Sprinkles86

hey Sprinkles, thanks for the wishes x

Good luck ❤ praying for a positive for you xx

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emu2016 in reply to

I’ve been awake since 4... dying to pee! Too many peas/pee! Holding out for 15 mins more before I wake Mr Emu! x

in reply to emu2016

Bless you, I'd be "accidently " giving my hubby a nudge lol lol.

Fingers crossed xx

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julietyler

Fingers x for u Hun xx

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Sunshine09

Keeping everything crossed for you this time hunny 🤞xx

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Catlady2013

🤞🏻🍍✨🍀 keeping everything crossed for you xx

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MrsElbow

Sending good thoughts xxxxxxxxx

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emu2016 in reply to MrsElbow

Quick! Go to the next post! x

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Box01

Wow, that has made me cry! You write so beautifully. It's strange because I don't know you at all but have read your posts along the way and keep finding myself thinking of you I love you your tww. Good luck, whatever happens you have to be in it to win it, and if you don't win it, at least you can say you were brave enough to try. Xx

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Box01 in reply to Box01

Sorry, meant to say thinking of you in your tww.... That'll teach me for posting too soo.

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emu2016 in reply to Box01

Awww lovely x

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Gillyc1

Your posts are incredible, very articulate. I am genuinely wishing you all the best because, as everyone on this page does , you absolutely deserve it xxxxxxx

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emu2016 in reply to Gillyc1

😘😘😘

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Asweetpea

lol. I even named mine when they were fertilising!!! Now I have one in its little freckle, because it was a tiny spot, freckle on the the scan after transfer. It has helped me through the process to be able to identify with them and send positive vibes so I feel like I am doing something. Hubby thinks I’ve gone mad. But he is slow coming round to the idea of little freckle!

Everyone handles this process differently. Sometimes you just have to do what works for you.

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Bexta6060

Fingers crossed for you for sticky peas!

Best of luck tomorrow, this post is so heartfelt xx

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Claire_2018

Good luck peas from a fellow adopted Yorkshire woman ( well for the last ten years at least)! 🤞

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emu2016 in reply to Claire_2018

Yay x

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Tugsgirl

I’m missing so much posts on the forum lately, I seem to only be able to see the same ones all the time despite refreshing the page and logging out and back in etc.. Anyway, good luck 🤞 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

She got a positive this morning hun. Hope your OK 💝😘💝

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Why aren’t I able to see the most recent posts?! I only found this one because it was at the bottom of another one. It’s like I’m just not getting the full picture on here, remember I said it to you not long ago? xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

Yeah and I thought it was coz not much was really happening. Have you checked to see if anything is altered in your settings? How do you log on through app or Google I go through Google.

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Google. I like the format better over the app. I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ I logged out and on again, I refresh the page but I’m still not seeing all the posts 🤷‍♀️ xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

Same here iv never used the app tbh, OK I'll try to tell you what I can remember Poppy had her boy she posted a pic yesterday. WeeMrsH got a positive other day, we found out we're having a boy. Sez is having transfer today she hasn't posted though. Contact health unlocked see if they can help sort it out.

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Also when I comment on a post it isn’t bumping the post to the top of my main page 😕 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

Sounds frustrating, something's not right. Soz for late reply my shopping come

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Lol, that’s ok. I think I sorted it.. I went into a different forum and then came back to this one and everything now looks all different on the home page xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

Awwww great. Your back on track

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

That’s why I’ve been absent, I thought there was nothing going on! Lol xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

I just thought you were having a break that's why I messaged you other day. 💝😘💝

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

😂😂 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

Have you been castle visiting.💝😘💝

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Not since last Tuesday xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

You'll be at one for your wedding won't you 💝😘💝

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Kinda.. it’s more of a stately home but they call themselves a Castle xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Tugsgirl

We’re being naughty taking over emu’s thread 🙊 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

Oh yeah bloody hell I'll pm you later sorry Mrs Emu 🙊💝😘💝

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

I have to keep doing it though xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

How annoying. Bloody hell 💝😘💝

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emu2016 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

I love ear-wigging on conversations! 😂

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to emu2016

😉😂💝😘💝

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emu2016 in reply to Tugsgirl

I can’t use the app anymore. It’s ridiculous!

in reply to emu2016

Hey I missed this result....was it positive??? If so massive congrats! Xxx

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romaluna2015

All the best Mr and Mrs Emu 💕 xx

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