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Dear Peas,

Mr Emu christened you both peas on the afternoon of transfer as he gingerly tapped my tummy to check you were there. I hated it. “Stop making them real”. He’s been attached to you since you were transferred.

You’ll not know this, but when I had to pee in a bed pan after the transfer he felt the need to “check for lumps” in case you’d dropped out. He’s a funny one.

Mr Emu is definitely more excited about you than I am. Though we both know that if tomorrow brings a positive we’ll not really believe it until we see one of, or both of you, ourselves.

If you’ve made it through stresses of a mother in law with cancer, the risk of redundancy for Mr Emu, a fractured ankle and a very emotional Mrs Emu who has cried so much since you’ve been put back in debating whether it’s fair she can have you when she panicked if she even wanted you... then you are incredibly strong. And you’re already the offspring of an Emu.

I promise if you’re real, I’ll tell you all of these stories. I’ll be honest with you about how ridiculously heartbreaking this journey is so you can make sure you are prepared for potential problems and always be there for others.

I’ve refused to call you the peas until tonight. I can’t call if you’re there. But, in the morning, if you are there... you’re very welcome to stay. xx

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fingers crossed for you and eagerly waiting your post tomorrow.xx

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Thanks you. Hoping you’re doing ok xx

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Good luck for tomorrow 🤞🤞🤞

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Thanks lorraine x

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This is the sweetest post ever 😍 Good luck for tomorrow xx

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😘😘😘

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I have everything crossed for you both that the peas are here to stay..much love 🥦🥦🥦I couldn’t find pea emoji so broccoli will have to do xxxx

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How are there no peas?!?! Broccoli will do just fine x

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Lol it’s a scandal...I been complaining all day so am sure I could write to emoji manager too 😜xxx

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Yes! Do it! Pea emojis for 8am would be great x

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Beautifully written lovely!💕 You made me well up there....what you doing to me....again?! I really hope those little peas have sprouted!!🤞🙏 I wish I could send you extra luck somehow, hoping tomorrow is the start of something special!!xxxx

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Do peas sprout? See vic77’s reply above... broccoli sprouts though! So here’s hoping peas do too! x

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Ha ha ha yes peas do sprout!😂 I know vic77....where is the peas emoji!!xx

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Good job! x

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We've got everything crossed here for you hun! Good luck!!! xxx

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Thanks you x

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Following ur journey and staying so very hopeful or you both. Been a long wait for me too 😂 xx

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Not long now! x

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Wishing you so much happiness tomorrow xxx

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Thanks you xx

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Choked up! Wishing you both all the luck in the world for tomorrow 🍀🍀🍀🍀 xxxx

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I don’t think I’ll sleep! x

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Aw-Mrs Emu-I have everything crossed for you and your little peas tomorrow. Sending lots of love and hope your way.xx

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Thanks sharon xx

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Good luck for tomorrow. Hoping you get a BFP, you really deserve it. X

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Thanks you x

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Such a sweet post.. Really hope you get the BFP you both deserve tomorrow! Lots of luck 🍀 xxx

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Thanks Jen. xx

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What a lovely post. Praying your posting very good news tomorrow xx

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Thanks you xx

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So beautifully written and poignant. Feeling very emotional for you. You deserve happy news xoxo

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Thanks Dunla x

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Really hope the peas are in for the long haul 💕💕xx

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Xxx

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Good luck x

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Thanks you xx

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Very best of luck sweetheart xxx

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Thanks Cloud. Big hugs x

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Wishing you lots of baby dust lovely 💕 xx

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Thanks Squeak - again! x

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Most welcome xx

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You brought a tear to my eye! Hoping for some happy news tomorrow xxx

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Thank you x

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Wow what a beautiful story.Thanks for sharing XX

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Xxx

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Everything crossed for you! x

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Thanks x

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Fingers crossed....you and mr emu sound like such a nice couple and i prayer this is your time... good luck xx

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Thanks Destiny xx

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I so hope it's good news I'm reading tomorrow!! You both deserve the best xx

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Thanks! If I ever get to sleep! x

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Good luck for tomorrow 😊 I don't often come on here of late but I just had to come on and wish you all the best of luck. Beautiful post as always Mrs Emu. Come on little peas 😀❤ Xxx

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I have everything crossed for you both . Xxx

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Thanks Nikki x

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Good luck for testing hoping to see good news!

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Hope so! x

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Omg 😢I'm an emotional wreck. Peas oh peas please give us the most amazing news this morning.

Love you Mrs Emu really hope this is your time my love 💝😘💝🍀🤞🏼💝😘

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Not long now... can’t hold this bladder for much longer! x

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A beautiful post Mrs Emu, fingers and toes crossed for you for tomorrow xxx

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hey Sprinkles, thanks for the wishes x

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Good luck ❤ praying for a positive for you xx

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I’ve been awake since 4... dying to pee! Too many peas/pee! Holding out for 15 mins more before I wake Mr Emu! x

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Bless you, I'd be "accidently " giving my hubby a nudge lol lol.

Fingers crossed xx

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Fingers x for u Hun xx

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Keeping everything crossed for you this time hunny 🤞xx

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🤞🏻🍍✨🍀 keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Sending good thoughts xxxxxxxxx

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Quick! Go to the next post! x

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Wow, that has made me cry! You write so beautifully. It's strange because I don't know you at all but have read your posts along the way and keep finding myself thinking of you I love you your tww. Good luck, whatever happens you have to be in it to win it, and if you don't win it, at least you can say you were brave enough to try. Xx

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Sorry, meant to say thinking of you in your tww.... That'll teach me for posting too soo.

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Awww lovely x

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Your posts are incredible, very articulate. I am genuinely wishing you all the best because, as everyone on this page does , you absolutely deserve it xxxxxxx

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lol. I even named mine when they were fertilising!!! Now I have one in its little freckle, because it was a tiny spot, freckle on the the scan after transfer. It has helped me through the process to be able to identify with them and send positive vibes so I feel like I am doing something. Hubby thinks I’ve gone mad. But he is slow coming round to the idea of little freckle!

Everyone handles this process differently. Sometimes you just have to do what works for you.

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Fingers crossed for you for sticky peas!

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Best of luck tomorrow, this post is so heartfelt xx

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Good luck peas from a fellow adopted Yorkshire woman ( well for the last ten years at least)! 🤞

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Yay x

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I’m missing so much posts on the forum lately, I seem to only be able to see the same ones all the time despite refreshing the page and logging out and back in etc.. Anyway, good luck 🤞 xx

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She got a positive this morning hun. Hope your OK 💝😘💝

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Why aren’t I able to see the most recent posts?! I only found this one because it was at the bottom of another one. It’s like I’m just not getting the full picture on here, remember I said it to you not long ago? xx

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Yeah and I thought it was coz not much was really happening. Have you checked to see if anything is altered in your settings? How do you log on through app or Google I go through Google.

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Google. I like the format better over the app. I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ I logged out and on again, I refresh the page but I’m still not seeing all the posts 🤷‍♀️ xx

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Same here iv never used the app tbh, OK I'll try to tell you what I can remember Poppy had her boy she posted a pic yesterday. WeeMrsH got a positive other day, we found out we're having a boy. Sez is having transfer today she hasn't posted though. Contact health unlocked see if they can help sort it out.

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Also when I comment on a post it isn’t bumping the post to the top of my main page 😕 xx

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Sounds frustrating, something's not right. Soz for late reply my shopping come

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Lol, that’s ok. I think I sorted it.. I went into a different forum and then came back to this one and everything now looks all different on the home page xx

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Awwww great. Your back on track

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That’s why I’ve been absent, I thought there was nothing going on! Lol xx

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I just thought you were having a break that's why I messaged you other day. 💝😘💝

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😂😂 xx

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Have you been castle visiting.💝😘💝

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Not since last Tuesday xx

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You'll be at one for your wedding won't you 💝😘💝

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Kinda.. it’s more of a stately home but they call themselves a Castle xx

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We’re being naughty taking over emu’s thread 🙊 xx

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Oh yeah bloody hell I'll pm you later sorry Mrs Emu 🙊💝😘💝

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I have to keep doing it though xx

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How annoying. Bloody hell 💝😘💝

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I love ear-wigging on conversations! 😂

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I can’t use the app anymore. It’s ridiculous!

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Hey I missed this result....was it positive??? If so massive congrats! Xxx

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All the best Mr and Mrs Emu 💕 xx

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