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UPDATE

We’ve put the deposit down on the egg!!!! Thank you as always for letting me empty the contents of my brain and being so willing to help!

Merry Christmas

Xxxx

So we made our decision that DE is definitely the route we want to go down, and since our counselling session we both feel really excited! However I think we’ve found a donor which is really weird as we only had our counselling on Tuesday! We don’t want to rush into it, but equally she seems a good match and we don’t want to lose the eggs!! Any advice welcome!

I hope you all have a restful Christmas xxx

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Dunla

I think you should listen to your gut instinct and if she feels like a match for you, follow your heart. We are also about to start treatment using donor eggs and also feeling excited now to be at this stage. Wishing you very best of luck with your decision x

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Aleelilook in reply toDunla

Thank you, and good luck to you! Sometimes on this journey I just want someone to tell me what to do!!!! Xx

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Dunla in reply toAleelilook

I know exactly what you mean x

Follow your gut instinct it’s usually right xx

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Aleelilook in reply to

Thank you, hope you have a lovely Christmas xx

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Thanks you too and hopefully 2018 will be a special year for you xxx

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Cinderella5

If you're excited then you sound like you are ready to move forward! Go for it!!xx

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E_05

I don’t have any advice but just wanted to say I’m glad you’ve decided on the route you wanted to take and sounds like you are so positive. Wishing you lots of luck xx

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Aleelilook in reply toE_05

Thank you xx

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Fredaflintstone

Congratulations! It’s a big step. That’s fab you’ve found your donor so soon! Wishing you all the very best xx

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Aleelilook in reply toFredaflintstone

Thank you so much! I think we are both quite blown away at how quick, it’s been 6 weeks since we were told my egg quality was poor, but this bit has happened so quickly after the counselling appointment it just seems crazy! Xxxx

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Fredaflintstone in reply toAleelilook

Take as long as you need to think if through but if you feel ready go for it! We’ve not looked back since starting the donor egg journey ourselves xx

Wow, how exciting. Why wait? Sometimes it can take months to find a donor so you are very lucky to find one so quickly. Go for it and wishing you all the very best. X

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Aleelilook in reply to

Thank you! It’s all so exciting now! Xx

I am currently in my 2ww after donor egg transfer. I must say, after all the drugs, injections and a terrible response to Norithisterone in my last ivf cycle , the donor egg route is much more gentle and natural feeling. Let me know if you have any questions at all. Xx

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Aleelilook in reply to

Thank you! Xx

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Cinderella5

Woo hoo great news on the update!!xx

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Amanda86

Aww amazing news!! Soooo pleased for you 😀 Merry Christmas, hope your dreams come true in 2018 xxx

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Aleelilook in reply toAmanda86

Thank you so much, I do feel like a weight has been lifted, especially off my husbands shoulders which is all I could ask for! Merry Christmas to you too and a happy new year! Xxx

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Tugsgirl

Great positive post! Happy Christmas 🎄 xx

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mimisquiz77

Congratulations !! Exciting news! Well you should listen to your gut feelings. if you fell she is the right one, just go for it. I wish all the best! Xx

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lolyloy

Well, an egg donation, honestly I didn’t know my donor because it was forbidden by my clinic. All donors are anonymous; they will never meet us in the real life. We just had an access to the donor database where we could see lots of donor 3D profiles with small video presentations. We had a right to choose up to 7 donors, of course the criteria of choosing depend on each couple's preferences.

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