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Heartbroken! After doing so well seeing heartbeats at several scans, one today at 10 weeks baby now has no heartbeat..not sure how to get over this

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Poppy16

Devastated for you. No words at all can take away the shock and sadness that you are feeling right now. Thinking about you so much. Know how tragic it is to lose a baby. I have lost 3 times and the experiences were simply indescribable. You won't get over this quickly. Take one day at a time. I am so sorry. I'm here if you need a chat. Just pm me. Big hugs. Xo

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Sienna2 in reply to Poppy16

Sorry to ask but did you need medical management if so which did you opt for xx

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Poppy16 in reply to Sienna2

Had a missed miscarriage and a d and c with the first loss. The second loss was an ectopic pregnancy. The third loss was an incomplete miscarriage and an emergency d and c. Xo

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Kattalex

Hi Sienna2. The reality is - you don’t! At least I didn’t... but you need to find strength to move on and carry on fighting. My thoughts are with you ! 😭🙏

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tiger-cub

This is one of d worst . Absolutely no words just take one day at a time . It's like forever and ever though . Why is life so cruel with us . I've had 2 experiences. I am extremely sorry my dear . Xx

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Jhenderson

I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. Thinking of you xx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry! Thinking of you. Hugs xx

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E_05

So sorry to read this, there are no words. It’s not something you ever get over just somehow learn to live with. Take time to grieve for your baby, thinking of you xx

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Sherry07

Sienna I`m ever so sorry. Sending lots of hugs and prayers x

I'm so very sorry. Thinking of you. X

You poor thing, devastated for you xxx

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TTCs

Im so sorry to read this, devastated for you! Look after yourself hun 😘

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Tezzabell86

Oh no I’m so sorry. Cannot begin to think what you are going through. If you want to chat get in touch. My thoughts are with you xxx

So sorry to hear this I know exactly how your feeling and you just need to take things day by day. Make sure you look after yourself. Thinking of you xx

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Lou7744

Am so sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs xx

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Amanda86

So so sorry 😞 thinking of you xxx

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-noodles-

i am so sorry for your loss. take each day at a time & be kind to yourself xx

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ve also had two miscarriages and I can promise you that you will survive this. You might not “get over it” but you will find a way to grieve and heal, even though you’ll never forget xxx

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Sprinkles86

Oh no Sienna I’m so sorry, this is just so so cruel, did they say how far along you were when baby passed? Heartbroken for you xxxxx

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Sienna2 in reply to Sprinkles86

It was at 9 weeks and 1 day :-( xx

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Sprinkles86 in reply to Sienna2

I will never understand why these things happen, this journey is so hard. Sending you the biggest hug xxxxx

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Hormomalmess

So very sad. I really am so sorry. Big hugs xx

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Squeak2

Such sad news, lots of love and hugs 💕 xx

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Se99

This happened to me at 11 weeks, it’s so difficult. I’m so sorry x

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lorraineb61

So so sorry to read this. Hopefully you can find the strength you need to get through this xx

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JKT90

So sorry. I had the same happen. Be kind to yourself, you will find a way through this xx

So so sorry to read this but I have hope for you x in June I got to 8 weeks and my babies heart beat had stopped . Devastating wasn't the word I was feeling x I felt like my life was over . Time is s great healer and I decided to plant a lovely bay tree 🌲 in my garden so my baby will never be forgotten . Cut long story short I went through treatment again and I'm currently 16 weeks pregnant .

My advice to you is take time to heal then don't give up x

Good luck

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Sienna2 in reply to

What a lovely idea xx

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mimisquiz77

Oh dear, this is awful... I am so sorry to read this... I am speechless... the world is so cruel... take care... Sending lots of hugs x

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