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Had my 7wks scan today...i'm exactly 7wks and 2 days but im measuring 6wks 2day. No fetal, embryo or heartbeat...it actually look like the yolk sac wasn't connected to anything...my second miscarriage in 4 months. Everything was going great but never get to a heartbeat....my heart is broken...this my second ivf round and both ended in miscarriage...i have 2 frozen embryos but i dont know how i will ever recover....To make matters worse, my husband is currently deployed and wont be home until October

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Stam34

I am very sorry Whitneysmiley. Life is so unfair! I am sending lots of love and hugs your way. Hang in there lovely xx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm so sorry to see this hon. Sending you big hugs. Hope you've got plenty of support around you while your husband's away xxx

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Poosa

I am sorry to hear this. I had miscarriage last week. It was on my 6.5weeks. I was really down and still trying recover physically and mentally. That was our last embryo. So was totally devastated. We need start ivf all over again.

I heard the acupuncture helps to heal and improves the body and hormones to become normal after miscarriage.

I have a follow up visit next week with my Doctor. I am going to check with them and planning to go for some acupuncture sessions.

i pray for your speedy recovery and for your next cycle!

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Seha04

I’m so sorry, I also found out I had a miscarriage and I’m just bleeding it out now. Also left w 2 frozen embryos. It’s really tough but we need to pull through and hope for the best :)

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amandac84

So sorry. Sending you best wishes xx

So sorry to read this and it must be so much harder having gone through it so recently before and your oh being away.

Definitely ask about the thrombophilia panel of tests. Hopefully they will suggest to you how to ensure this doesn't happen again next time. Big huge hugs xxx

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry I have been there that's happened to me twice at the first scan it’s so painful. Sadly I have had more miscarriages and much later. Hopefully you will be under a consultant and they can make changes to you care. I now always have aspirin leading up to ivf and clexane after ivf for 12 weeks. If you need to message me privately please do.

This can be a very lonely and scary time. But we are all supportive here.

I hope you have some family support and will try again if you want to in the future take care xxx

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Georgie17

I'm so sorry. I am went through the same and it's heartbreaking. Rest up and allow yourself time to be sad. It is a cruel journey. Lots of hugs xx

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Kitcat12

I'm so sorry darling 😞 it's just not fair. Try to look after yourself and surround yourself with friends and family x

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Rainbowhope

I'm so heartbroken for you. I'm so sorry.

😢 sorry x

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Core

So sorry to read this, absolutely devastating, hope you have lots of support around you especially as husband is away xx

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Gueritarubia

Oh damn, so sorry to read this! My heart breaks for you... be kind to yourself and let people in on your secret if you think they can support you. Big hugs

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Hopingforgood

So sorry dear. Please be strong. Please try to be with someone from your family or good friends since husband is not around. Praying for you.

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Hope4usall

I'm so so sorry. Just remember you're not alone. I know how you feel. I miscarried at 12 weeks in Jan this year. It feels like you're in a black hole that you will never get out of.... But you will. Be kind to yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family you love and who are supportive and allow yourself time to grieve. Thinking of you and sending you so much love xxx

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Babywaiting

So sorry to hear this. Sending hugs. Must be so hard when your partner is away for the both of you. Hoping you are surrounded by people who can support you and you take time you need. Best of luck in the future. Xxx

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Cinderella5

I am so so sorry!😪💔 So cruel!xx

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Drives

Sending you a big hug and lots of love 💕 absolutely heartbreaking x x x

I'm so sorry to read this. My second IVF ended in our second MC = we had a heartbeat at 7 weeks but none at second scan a few weeks later. The pain does get easier and I am sending you tons and tons of love and hugs. We have since had some tests and found 101 things wrong with me that could cause MC. I so wish we had tested earlier but it was never offered to us. When you are starting to feel like yourself again definitely ask for tests. Really hope you have some support with your husband being away x

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s truly heartbreaking getting bad news.And I’m so sorry it’s your second loss 😢 I don’t what your clinics policy is but my fertility doctor would have referred me for miscarriage clinic if I had another loss ( I had one chemical pregnancy in 2017) I hope you can get referred & some answers/reassurance. Sorry you are facing this alone I hope you have some friends/family that can offer you much needed support. We are all here for you . Thinking of you during this difficult time xxx

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Jen_jen

I’m so sorry to hear such sad news. Sending you big hug 💕 I really hope your ok xxx

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Militarywife7

So sorry to hear this sweetheart, it’s such a hard time especially with your husband being away. Please make sure you reach out to friends and family for support in his absence. Thinking of you xxx

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Nikitela

Im so sorry my dear, i can relate, the same thing happened to me last week Tuesday, next cycle July, hang in there my dear, take care of urself😍

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Lou7744

I’m so, so sorry to read this. It’s truly heartbreaking. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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KirstyC90

I am so sorry to hear this 😞 I hope you have lots of support while your husband is away. Sending so much love xx

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