😥why is life so unfair and cruel nearly 2 months of 3 injections a day, scans, blood tests all for nothing! Starting to feel my dream of becoming a mum slipping through my fingers. All I want to see are 2 red lines!!!! I really thought that this Xmas I would be sharing the best news ever. Hate hate hate this IVF journey 😥
Sorry for my rant..... we are lucky that we have one more go on the NHS and have so many questions now which need answering xxx
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Hi cls37. So sorry to read this after so many weeks hoping that this would be it. I’m just hoping that through your sadness, lots will have been learnt about you through this treatment cycle, so perhaps that knowledge will help when you go through your next cycle. Thinking of you. Diane
Thank you Diane. When we went for transfer the embryologist said we followed the same pattern as before so hopefully our consultant will make some changes for next time x
Oh cls37 I so feel your sadness and want to send you big cuddles.
Had my BFN yesterday and i still don't want to believe it...had tried to be so positive that it would be good news (which is hard for me as im usually quite realistic about that might go wrong!) and all for nothing.
It's so easy to say but please stay strong...and allow yourself to try and enjoy Christmas in a positive way (a couple of drinks and food you may not have been able to enjoy).
Then focus on that next round...i have everything crossed for You xx
Hi Hun. I’m so sorry to see this. I found my 2nd one harder than the first. Maybe because it was the last as well. Take your time to grieve over this one and get yourself fighting for for the next one. Each time is harder I found. I know what you mean about Christmas too. You just want it to be your turn. You want something to celebrate. You wouldn’t moan about not being able to drink or eat soft cheeses because you’d be so grateful! Hopefully that lucky number 3 cycle will be the one for you. They do say that 3 cycles is the ideal so let’s hope that’s true for you. Thank goodness your area have listened to the recommendations from NiCE. You know where I am if you want to talk/rant/shout/cry. xxx
Ach Im so sorry it didnt work for you this time round, life is so unfair!!! Enjoy what you can of Christmas! So tough to carry on with a smile on your face especially during festive period with all the child focused events and social media but lets hope its 3rd time lucky for you 😘 xx
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