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I think it's all over ... ๐Ÿ™

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I'm currently 5wk +4. Last night I had some pink discharge but this morning it's gone red and I've had a few small clots passed as well. Can't contact my clinic till tomo but I'm not having good thoughts over what's happened ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ I've still carried on taking my medication until the clinic say otherwise. Feeling so disheartened right now xx

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I had two massive bleeds at 6 weeks with clots and cramps and so much blood I thought it was over as it felt like when I had a miscarriage but everything was absolutely fine and Iโ€™m 30 weeks now.

Just want to give you some hope because the ladyโ€™s on here gave me hope and it got me through xx

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Aww thank you hun xx I'm going to ring my clinic tomo to see what they say xx I've been awful all day but trying to stay positive xx

Congratulations on your wonderful news xx

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Thank you!

It seems a lot of people on here who have early bleeds have had FET although when I mentioned it to my clinic they kinda of rubbished it xx

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Really I never realised that x

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Probably just coincidence but there has been a few of us on here. Fingers crossed everything is fine ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿปxx

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Sprinkles86

Oh no Iโ€™m so sorry youโ€™re going through this, will keep everything crossed for you, hopefully itโ€™s nothing to worry about. Push your clinic for a scan or bloods as a minimum xxxx

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Fredaflintstone

I had bleeding around that time too but all was fine. Rest up as much as possible and see if you can get referral to EPU or a scan at your clinic. Hope all ok xxx

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Sjmackel

I had lots of bright red bleeding too, so don't give up hope. I even ended up in A+E where the doctor said 'yes you are having a miscarriage' then the next day I had a scan and all was fine. Dont believe anything until you have had a scan and see with your own eyes. I'm now 17 weeks pregnant. Good luck! x x

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Dreams1982

Thank you ladies xx luckily I do have a really good relationship with our clinic and they are really understanding. Hopefully il be able to go in and get it sorted. Really hope it's all OK though xx

Is it too early to do a scan now?

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They might scan but there wonโ€™t be a heart beat until around 6 weeks probably better to have bloods done x

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Tezzabell86

If youโ€™re concerned I would go to A&E just to be on the safe side. Fingers crossed that all goes okay xx

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sandra81

I am sorry you are going through this. I am sorry I can't say anything that could help you. I was in the same boat as you last week. But I had a lot of brown blood. Now my bHCG is dropping. My dr says we will have an u/s in two weeks because he feels at 5 weeks it is too early to see anything. I lost all pregnancy symptoms too but I am still taking my medication until the ultrasound confirms that I did indeed miscarry.

I would encourage you to keep taking yours.

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Clarence80

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's such a worrying time. I had the same experience at 9 weeks. From what I'd read, 50% of cases of bleeding in early pregnancy go on to have a positive outcome and there are lots of great examples of that on here. Unfortunately my story didn't have a happy ending but that doesn't mean that yours won't. It's incredibly hard but you have to keep the faith.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you're getting on. Fingers crossed for you!

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lianm8

I had bleeding all throughout my pregnancy- week 16 I had bleeding as heavy as a period. Keep thinking positive and try not to panic xxxx

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Dreams1982

Thank you everyone x I'm continuing my pessaries an tablets till I'm told otherwise xx I'm feeling OK just hope everything is OK an the clinic can do something xx

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Fingers crossed everything turns out to be okay xxx

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Dreams1982

I am struggling a little with my pessaries only getting the tablet halfway as it's not comfy will I still get the progesterone absorbed x

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sandra81

I am sorry you are going through this. I had light spotting last week and I was praying it was just that spotting. It wasnโ€™t. My bhcg is going down and my dr says is a sign that I have miscarried. We are bringing forwards a u/scan that we were supposed to have next week to today just to confirm. I am sorry I could not tell you positive news although I know some who have described more bleeding than what I experienced have gone ahead to have healthy babies. So it just depends. Follow your doctorsโ€™s advice and pray. It may work out for you. Best wishes

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Dreams1982 in reply to sandra81

I'm so sorry to hear that sandra81

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I'm so sorry to hear your news hun xx thoughts are with you and your partner xx

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Dreams1982 just came back from scan what a long day. I had a twin pregnancy the doctor says the scan shows that the one embryo did not make it so may have caused the bleeding but the other is okay has a heartbeat but very slow. He thinks that may have caused my HCG to go down.

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Dreams1982 in reply to sandra81

Will they monitor you closely with the second embryo x

My clinic have said it's too early to scan at the moment. The bleeding did go but it's back again and I've got tummy ache xx

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they did not seem to be in too much of a hurry for me to come back. I am actually the one who asked the doctor at the end of the consultation and he said that I should come on the 14th. he said regarding the low heart rate of the baby no one can do anything it will improve or not it's up to God and the baby. So its a wait and see game. I am praying for the best of course. I am much more hopeful than I was this morning.

Abut it being too early to see anything they may be correct. When the other doctor looked last week on Thursday (when I was 5 weeks 4 days) she saw nothing and kept asking me if I was sure I was pregnant. So I think it's better to wait because not seeing anything stressed me a lot. I almost gave up hope yesterday and stopped taking my medication but my husband and family were really pushing me to take until we were sure there was nothing.

Today the baby measured 5weeks 5 days the doctors did not seem alarmed. Maybe ivf babies are slow to grow i don't know.

I think you still have a chance. Do not despair yet. I have a tummy ache too I forgot to ask the doctor about it but some people say it's not necessarily a bad thing. It could be because of expansion to accommodate the fetus. Please do not give up hope yet.

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Dreams1982 in reply to sandra81

Il pray that your little bean keeps fighting xx just hope this next week goes quickly

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Cinderella5 in reply to sandra81

Fingers crossed for your remaining embryo!!xx

Same as hydromermaid..... bad bleed then ended up in hospital. Now 32 weeks pregnant. Keep believing! Xxx

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Dreams1982 in reply to Dreams1982

Im hoping all is ok the bleeding has almost stopped I'm just waiting to speak to the clinic xx congratulations on your wonderful news xx

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Missy_22

Hi Iโ€™m sorry to hear this. Im 5+2 and had pink spotting yesterday well quite a lot. No red though. I would contact your clinic for advice. All the best xxxx

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