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I think it’s all over 😢

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I got my BFP on 23rd December and was feeling quite hopeful about this one. Have had a bit of spotting the last 3 days but this morning I have actual bleeding. I also have a bit of backache and feel like I normally do on the 1st day of my period so I think it’s all over. Have viability scan on Monday so guess it will get confirmed then 😢😢😢

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Jenjen84

Hang in there, bleeding doesn’t always mean bad news. I bled for 7 weeks, constantly heavier than a period and my bubba was ok. It’s terrifying though so I feel your pain and disappointment. Wishing you all the best for Monday xxx

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SJA14 in reply to Jenjen84

Thank you for the message 🤞 for Monday xx

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Mazzath1

I'm the same too 😔😔😔 keep pink spotting and brown yesterday there was quite a lot. I've got scan today but not feeling very hopefully. Xxx

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MrsH17 in reply to Mazzath1

Hi Mazza how was your scan? Xxx

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Mazzath1 in reply to MrsH17

All good. Completely shocked there was 3 😬😬 dont think its sunk in. Xxx

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SJA14 in reply to Mazzath1

So pleased for you ❤️ xx

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Mazzath1 in reply to SJA14

Thank you how u getting on? Xxx

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SJA14 in reply to Mazzath1

No bleeding since lunchtime so just 🤞🤞🤞 till Monday now xx

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Mazzath1 in reply to SJA14

That's good news. Did you have ivf? Do you use pessaries as that what was causing my spotting. ? Xxx

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SJA14 in reply to Mazzath1

I had FET. Was using lubion injections but clinic gave me pessaries as I was concerned about my progresterone levels and I used one last night then bleeding this morning so I feel like that’s what brought it on. I’m not sure whether to keep using the pessaries or just only use lubion now. Clinic useless - they basically told me to do whatever made me feel better!!

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Mazzath1 in reply to SJA14

My clinic said to me it's not the pessaries. When I spoke to lady scanning me today she said she sees so many women having that issue. So I'm sure it's the pessariesxxxx

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MrsH17 in reply to Mazzath1

Triplets? Oh wow congratulations 😘 xxx

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Trying1234

This is so tough!

When this happened to me the midwife said that bleeding is more common in ladies with ivf and that usually this is OK. Have you contacted your clinic? They did blood tests for me and a scan at 6 weeks.

Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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SJA14 in reply to Trying1234

I haven’t contacted the clinic because last time this happened they told me there was nothing they could do and that I had just had to wait for the viability scan. That’s booked for Monday morning so figured there wasn’t much point in phoning them today xx

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Scarlett13

Wait for the scan, try and stay positive, bleeding can be normal x

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amyw_15

Hope you’re ok. I’ve known others to bleed and still be ok at the scan. Fingers crossed all ok 🤞🏻 xxx

So sorry to hear this. Hope it's not what you think it is.

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Shelleybean

Don’t lose faith! Lots of people bleed and all is ok. Fingers crossed for you on Mon 🤞 xx

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MrsH17

Try not to worry and get some bed rest if you can. My sister bled and was fine.

Your clinic will hopefully scan you.

Xxxx

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SJA14 in reply to MrsH17

Scan is on Monday so just have to wait and hope xx

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry to hear this! Hang on in there a but if cramping and blood isnt necessarily the end. Wishing you all the luck in the world for scan!!xxx

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Kyell2

Oh no, it’s just awful that you have all this worry. I wrote much the same post 4 months ago and I was fine so I’m truly hoping it’s the same for you 🤞🤞 x

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Leesara

Haven’t followed your journey or been on here for while but wanted to say Be thinking of you, with hope for your scan tomorrow x

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Skippy1982

Good luck tomorrow xxx

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Fifikoko

I know it’s tough but hang on in there 😘Praying you get good news tomorrow 🙏🏽

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Lots8788

Good luck for today x z

All the best with your scan xxx

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