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I think it's all over

Oh dear, today would make me 12dp5dt but sadly had some spotting yesterday which has turned into a bleed today. Have done a test today that was negative and OTD is on Monday. I'm doubtful the result will change though. This was my only free attempt and I had no embryos to freeze. Feel so numb right now 😢 but will have to wait till Monday to ring the hospital.

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I'm so sorry to hear this. Your time will come and there will be joy for you too. It will happen when it's your turn sweetie. Keeping you in my prayers and a big hug to you. 😘

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It’s so cruel. Sorry 😞 xx

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I am sorry for your tragic moments... Life is like this. It is super sad to know that sometimes we jsut don't have control or anything similar to that. I want to say that things will be fine dear... Maybe this is the last wall you had to surpass on your way to happiness. Who knows what else is going to knocnk on your door. Fate is a weird thing, it likes to taunt us, to fool with us. Sometimes it grabs us hard by the throat, so hard that we can barely breath... And when you think your gonna suffocate. It let's go of you and life becomes better again. It's such ups and downs that make life living. Again I am so sorry about you. The thing is that it is over and You are one heck of a warrior for making it out. I sincerely wish that greater things await you! For another thing I am sure about. I am sure that happiness will meet you, eventually... Remain strong and confident dear. God bless, I will pray for you xoxoxoxo

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So sorry 🙁 Xxx

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I am so sorry for you lovely. Today I am 10dp2dt and I also had some spotting today. I have been crying all day because I know it's the end for this round. I also have nothubg frozen. I am right here with you! Xx

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Same here been crying all day. I was so upset to even tell my husband what was going on. At a&e now due to the pains in my side. Hope you get a good outcome xx

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So sorry lovely sending big hugs take care of yourself xxxxx

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Thank you all for your kind words and well wishes. Sadly the bleeding has got worse and I have excruitaing pains in the side of my very swollen abdomen. Have had to come A&E and im waiting to see a gynacology doctor.x

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Wishing you well and hugs xx

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I'm so sorry xxxx

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Have been admitted to hospital as it's likely I've had an ectopic pregnancy resulting in a miscarriage. Life is so cruel at times 😢

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Life is so cruel - in really sorry to hear your news xxx rest up and take care of yourself x

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Ohhh I'm sorry. Keeping u in my prayers. Xoxoxo

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So sorry to hear this. It so rubbish a. I had a bfn just last week n at first was hopeful it may change but then my af came with a vengeance😩. Keeping on going and hoping Hun. Big hugs 😊

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So sorry to read this!! Take time to look after yourself, such a cruel journey!! 😢xx

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I'm in the same boat. I had only 1 embryo and none for freezing. Started cramping on wed and by Thursday had a period. Horrible pains. Did a test and it was negative. Going in tmrw (monday) for my blood test. Hubby hoping for a miracle but I'm being realistic. Think it might hurt less. I feel ur pain and I'm praying for u.

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It's is unfair isn't it considering what we go through to get to each step. My OTD is today but I'm not going to test,don't see the point when I already know. Will have to call the clinic and tell them what happened. Take care of yourself hun x

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Càme back negative. Feel defeated. It's so unfair. Now we have to start over but pay the 10k upfront. I feel lost.

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I'm so sorry hun. Unfair is an understatement.my round was nhs but we only get 1 free attempt. Need to decide when I'm ready what to do next. It's not easy getting through this next bit but make sure you take care of yourself x

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Thank u. Best way is to be patient. Hoping for the best for u.

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So sorry for ur results. I had the same last week. It absolutely sucks Look after u. Take care x

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How are you doing now? X

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Still have quite a bit of pain but that may just be from the effects of the drugs on the inside. Emotionally I'm a blubbering mess. I'm fine 1 minite then sobbing the next asking myself why and what I did wrong. I know no ones to blame but I just feel like it's my fault.

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It's not your fault darling xxxx

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