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Waiting for it to be over 😢

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I’m almost a week into stopping my progesterone pessaries, prior to that a scan showing an empty sac...

I’m starting to wish things would end so I can grieve...

Apologies for the sad post, but my heart is breaking at the moment. At least, I suppose I know we can get pregnant, but it just wasn’t our time, it wasn’t the right foetus.

Anyone else been down this dark road?

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Just wanted to send huge hugs, We had same thing on our first cycle and I was so sick of the EPU clinic scanning me & doing blood test because they seemed scared to tell us it wasn't going to be a viable pregnancy ( id given up after first scan) so can totally understand where you are coming from with just wanting it over.

Look after yourself x

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LadyMM

Hi

Am sorry to hear that I don't know what to say . If we get BFN we cry , if we get BFP we worry until the scan comes

All I can say it wasn't your time and be hopeful that u can get pregnant . Then next try it will be BFP and the baby will be there

Although I didn't get BFP yet but I feel u r pain . Like some of us we just have to accept this and be strong

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Tugsgirl

I’ve had two missed miscarriages since April. I was further along than you but there’s no difference in the pain it causes. A loss is a loss and I’m sorry for yours xx

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Tara2016

So sorry to hear this. This happened to us last year and I remember feeling the same. It was such a strange feeling actually wanting to get rid of something that I wanted so badly. I didn't sleep for weeks and then when it finally passed I was able to grieve and move forwards. Sending you hugs xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Just sending you a hug big hun 😔💗😘

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Rubinaa

I'm so sorry about this, please don't ever give up, your time is going to come soon and you will forget all the pain you went through in this tiring journey... sending loads of hugs. Xx

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Penders

Oh Hun I'm so sorry you are going through this it really is heartbreaking! I've just recently had a missed miscarriage I was waiting for it to end too so I could move on, waiting is never easy. I hope that it's over soon for you. Sending you big hugs. Xxxx

I'm so sorry, thinking of you 💐xx

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Leesara

Sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts x

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