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Still waiting for this to be over!!

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Beta #7 and this nightmare still isn’t over! After the scan which was inconclusive beta dropped and now today it has risen again ☹️ I didn’t even know that was possible after it had dropped. But nope mine has risen again!! So the plan atm is to retest in a week unless I had ad/unusual pain and then I need to go to A&E. I just want this over with so we can grieve and move on. It’s been nearly 4 weeks. Enough is enough ☹️

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MissSaoPaulo

This is so tough hon, I really hope it's all resolved soon xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply toMissSaoPaulo

Thank you, me too xx

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Niki_B

Oh hun 😔 I'm so sorry this is still going on. Remember I told you about that lady that this went on for months? I was hoping this was not going to be the case for you 😔 did you end up taking the shot? Gosh how horrible for you, just this stupid limbo and waiting to try and move on. Sending big hugs 💗💕🌸

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Ajplus1 in reply toNiki_B

I remember, hopefully it’s over soon. They are waiting as they’re hoping I’ll do it naturally but I feel like there is a point they’ll step in. I just don’t want that as we will have to wait a long time before we can try again. How are you doing lovely? Xx

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Stam34

Oh Ajplus1, I know it’s tough and I hope your body takes care of it naturally. I had the methotrexate injection to dissolve an ectopic. It depletes your folic acid reserve and that’s why it would delay your ttc journey. Sending 💕 and hugs your way. I pray things work out soon for you.

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Ajplus1 in reply toStam34

Thank you, me too. Yeah they are hoping that my body can take care of it and are trying to avoid the injection. Fingers crossed we can xx

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Kyell2

Oh no! I can’t believe that you are still going through all this! Thinking of you xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toKyell2

Thank you xx

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Starsandsunbeams

Oh gosh, this just sounds so difficult and tough. Sending you love and strength xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toStarsandsunbeams

Thank you xx

Hi Ajplus1,

I know it’s hard and I hope your body takes care of it naturally and soon. I had 3 ectopic and 1MC so I understand how you'e feeling. For the 1st ectopic I had to go to the clinic every 2 days during 2weeks to do blood tests and transvaginal scan. First they thought I was miscarrying because I had heavy bleeding. But then they realise it was ectopic.

I had the methotrexate injection to dissolve the ectopic. It depletes your folic acid reserve, so doc told me it was important to continue with acid folic supplements. It's a chemotherapy that can cause congenital malformation if the fœtus is exposed to it. That’s why it would delay your ttc journey - I had to wait 3 months.

Fingers crossed! Hope everything work out soon for you.

Lots of hugs your way!

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Ajplus1 in reply to

I’m sorry to hear that that you’ve had such a rough time. Yeah my FS said she was hesitant to give me the injection but I feel we might be getting to that point soon! Xx

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2-shades-of-hope

I’m so sorry, this is awful. I’m thinking of you x

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Ajplus1 in reply to2-shades-of-hope

Thank you. It has been a long and draining 4 weeks! X

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