Question? : So on Monday I got my BFP... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

52,497 members57,761 posts

Question?

LauraGU profile image
9 Replies

So on Monday I got my BFP. I got a call today to say my friend has killed herself. I'm so sad that I never got to tell her my good news, particularly given she was rooting for us every step of the way. Obviously this has knocked me for six, and in amongst all the upset today I now can't help stress about has the upset/shock hurt frostie? I know this is a stupid question, I just can't get it out my head now xxx

Written by
LauraGU profile image
LauraGU
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
9 Replies
Tugsgirl profile image
Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear about your friend. That’s awful 😞 xx

Amanda86 profile image
Amanda86

Oh gosh, so sorry to hear about your friend. How awful 🙁 Such a sad world.

I know stress and upset isn't ideal at this time, but hopefully it won't harm your frostie xxx

Tara2016 profile image
Tara2016

Oh my goodness what tragic news 😞 are you off work? Can you perhaps occupy your mind by going somewhere or spending time with friends or family? So important for you to remain stress free xx

emma2739 profile image
emma2739

Oh my god that is awful news, you should take time off if you can? All anyone can say is, don't stress about being stressed, take deep breaths, light a candle at night, read a book whatever helps you a little bit. I know that stress doesn't help but just think that babies all around the world are born by the dozen in very stressful circumstance so I am as sure as I can be, your little frostie will be too little to pick up on this so don't worry and I hope you have lots of support around you pal that's very tough

AllWeNeedIsluv profile image
AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm really really sorry for what's happened hun. Big hugs and lots of love. You can't help how your feeling hun just pace yourself and go through the stages of grief just make sure you eat drink and rest. Lots of love hun. So sorry for this sad news.💗😔😘

Positive2022 profile image
Positive2022

So sorry to hear about your friend xxx

romaluna2015 profile image
romaluna2015

So sorry to hear of your friend. Lots of love xx

Squeak2 profile image
Squeak2

So sorry for your sad news! Take care and look after yourself 💕 xx

Poppy16 profile image
Poppy16

What terrible news. I am dreadfully sorry to hear this. What a horrible shock for you. Maybe go to your gp and explain the circumstances and get advice. Thinking about you. Take care. Xo

You may also like...

Questions, questions, questions!

constantly going through all our past cycles and I’m now really worried about my periods. Before my...

Questions?!

one tomorrow and my mind has failed me! I had so many questions at first and now i just cant think...

Question

line? The nurse isn't in the clinic until Monday so I can't find out until then. Does what I'm...

A question?

really torn. We have a 10 day holiday booked (hubby has a big birthday coming up) and I’m really...

Question

that I’m keep continue taking us normal even if I got positive. I know vagina progesterone but...