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What a 24 hrs!!! Sorry but it's a moan.

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So I have had an eventful 24 hours. I have had the most painful abscess on my bottom crack since Tuesday last week and been on antibiotics since Thursday but they didn't work and the pain has been unbearable. Hubby took me to hospital and we were told I needed emergency surgery before I became septic and put me and bean at huge risk.

So today I have had my first epidural followed by surgery to cut the infection out.

I have never been so scared in my life that something would go wrong and that something would happen to bean but the hospital were fantastic and kept giving regular heart monitoring to reassure us that he is ok in there.

Like this journey isn't scary enough my body decided to make it worse with this newest curve ball.

Finally home and can feel my legs again now.

Sorry to whine but needed a pity party xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Bless ya hun. Bet you wasn't expecting none of that. I must admit I laughed when you wrote bottom crack 😅 sorry.

I can't imagine what you've been through although I did have epidural when I had my daughter.

Glad your home now safe and sound and little man is ok. Take it easy and look after yourself. You have tickled me. But I'm sure you wasn't tickled in any way. Just glad your ok now

💗🤗😘

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Positive2022

Aww bless you hun, what a horrible time for you! Hope you're feeling better and wishing you a speedy recovery xxx

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MrsG1982

Sorry to hear that. Whine as much as you need to. Get well soon xx

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Aleelilook

Oh my god that is horrific, pity party away! You poor thing, feet up and plenty of rest! Xxx

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MrsTM13

Ouch! Get well soon x

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Hormomalmess. Ouch and ouch again! Sounds like my friend's pilonidal sinus! That was yucky, but she's on the mend now, thank goodness. I'm sure little one was completely oblivious as to what was going on. Hope the rest of your pregnancy is uneventful. Diane

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