It's all over at first scan

[Dreams1982]

Just been for our 7 week scan and they couldn't see anything there so I've been advised to stop my medication and had some bloods done today to be repeated later in the week.

I just feel numb don't know how else to explain how I'm feeling right now x

[KJLee]

So sorry to hear this Dreams1982 😔 xx

[Dreams1982 in reply to KJLee]

Thank you x

[Kiedy84]

I am sorry to hear your sad news😢

[Sprinkles86]

I’m so sorry lovely, this is heartbreaking. Be kind to yourselves and look after each other. When you are feeling up to it drop me a message as this happened to me a few times before I had my boy xxxx

[Rach82]

So sorry to hear this, look after yourself sweetie we are all here to support you xxx

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear that. It's always a right blow when you are looking forward to something only to have it snatched away from you like a cruel trick.

[Hidden]

So sorry to read this hun. No words other than to look and be there for one another xx

[CatDV]

I am really sorry to hear this 😢💔

Hope you have good support at this sad and difficult time.

Lots of love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️

[Hidden]

I’m so very sorry to hear your loss. Not much anyone can say but I hope you have plenty of support around you & am thinking of you during this difficult time xxx

[Hidden]

Really awful news. Am so sorry xxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

I'm so sorry it wasn't good news hon xxx

[Klndmr]

I'm so sorry this happened to you hun... This jour3can be so so hard... Sending you millions hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry! Hugs.xx

[Orla9298]

So sorry 😢 xxx

[2-shades-of-hope]

I’m so sorry to hear this x

[Shola76]

So sorry x

[Hidden]

It’s the worst feeling when you have a scan and there’s nothing to see. Sorry your going through this xx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry 💔

[Kitcat12]

😞 sorry darling, this whole process is so cruel. Look after yourself x

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself xx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself xx

[Hidden]

im so sorry to hear your bad news xxx

[CAS2]

Oh no, I'm so so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how you feel but just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you xxx

[Lots8788]

So sorry to hear this xx big hugs x

[Rowly88]

So sorry, thinking of you and sending big hugs xxx

[Masha111]

So sorry to hear your news. Know that we are all thinking of you at this difficult time. Must be so hard on you both. Sending big hugs. Hope you have a good support network. You also have the online family here. Xxx

[Beacon_of_hope]

So sorry to hear this I can’t imagine what it feels like to get that far. Are they absolutely sure because I’m sure I’m sister had a similar thing there was no heart for her first scan and she completely panicked then they did another scan soon afterwards and it was there. I don’t want to give you false hope but they’re so tiny at this stage I’m sure they are hard to see. Sending big hugs xx

[Nikitela]

Sorry to hear that dear, I can relate, we went for scan with my surro yesterday, after repeated low hcg, the highest was 159 at 28days post transfer, the Dr wanted to rule out ectopic, and there was no sign of ectopic, no cramps, no spotting, but she said she couldn't see any gestational sac and she said maybe is too early, we should repeat hcg next week Monday and scan on Wednesday, I'm so stressed, this will be our 7nth failed attempt, feeling hopeless. Sorry dear😙

[Hidden]

They saw nothing for me at 7 weeks as well. Nothing on ultrasound. No sac no nothing. HCG levels kept rising so they did a diagnostic lap to check for ectopic. Nothing there too. I went in consenting to remove tubes if they find something, but they left them alone as they couldn't spot anything. Few hours prior to surgery I started bleeding and after surgery my levels came down. They're calling it pregnancy in unknown location potentially ectopic. My bloods were monitored to make sure they are coming down. Big scare, still don't know what it was. Don't give up hope. Everything happens for a reason. I'm looking at it as a cleansing process to prepare my body for the one.

[Dreams1982]

Thank you everyone for your wonderfully supportive messages x my blood levels yesterday were 660 so defo confirmed the loss x the clinic did internal and external scan to rule the pregnancy hadn't moved anywhere else but she couldn't see anything. Feeling incredibly tender today from the pain and bleeding but hoping in a few days that will be OK xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Dreams1982]

Sorry to hear that you are still in pain, hope it settles down soon. Look after yourselves.xx

[Hidden in reply to Dreams1982]

Yeah, it took a few days to settle down. My blood levels dropped drastically every few days. They will monitor till it's zero. I tested 26 today from 200 last week. Physically I'm much better. Had a few sharp pains now and then and had to sit on the toilet a lot. Mentally, I'm still trying to come to terms with the miscarriage when they couldn't see anything anywhere. Still no clue. Don't think I will get any answers. Time to move on ...

[Dreams1982 in reply to Hidden]

Hi hun I had my bloods today too and they were 17 so completely cleared. I ended up spending 4 nights in hospital after suffering my terrible adenomyosis pains and also possible septic miscarriage. Back home but as much as I think I'm OK something will pop in my head and il just cry. I'm hoping this will soon pass so we can decide what to do with our final embie. My clinics said take a break again to get my self back in a good place. I'm hoping you feel better soon and if you ever want to chat feel free to message me xx sending lots of love

[wilbie]

So sorry to hear this x

[LittlestBob]

So sorry to read this xx

[Violet5451]

So sorry xxx