Feeling like a loser

[MindyLowe]

I’m super bummed lately.

This girl I used to be pretty close friends with, and still am but we talk less, was upset because she was having trouble getting pregnant. This was a couple months ago. I related because I’m really upset and discouraged when I get my period each month despite using no birth control.

She just posted on Facebook the other day that she’s pregnant and I’ve been really upset ever since. Before this last period, Boyfriend and I had sex nearly every day that I should have been able to get pregnant but obviously, I didnt.

It makes me worry that we can’t have kids and I feel like Boyfriend doesn’t like hearing that I think we cant. It also makes me feel really pathetic to be upset about it. I know things happen in their own time and I have stuff I should do before I have a baby but….it’s just so disappointing and discouraging. I just feel like such a pathetic loser

[Fredaflintstone]

Hey it’s totally normal to be upset and to worry. Have you tried the ovulation kits to check when you’re ovulating? You can also ask docs to test your hormone levels. And cold arrange private fertility mot for both of you which isn’t massively expensive. Good luck xx

[Shan123]

You can go to your GP and ask for help they probably will ask you to wait for 1 year if you want NHS funded treatment. So don't delay. But if you can afford the treatment go ahead with NHS and get started. I know how you are feeling right now this is the crucial time😕 I've also been through and I'm still trying but don't give up Hun 😊 speak to your GP as soon as you can and follow the procedure and hopefully to hear a good news from you soon 😘