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In tww and just been told I need to go back to hospital to have a mole removed and biopsy to test for melanoma! Something else to google! At least it's a distraction from the tww. Trying not to freak out too much! Sorry I know isn't about ivf but needed to share - panic! I'm sure it'll all be ok but am a bit scared xx

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Alessia

It is normal to be scared Fredaflintstone . I guess the impatience that you felt during the tww helped your panic now. You see these things can happen to any of us and they do happen to all of us. These medical procedures although painful are necessary. Don't worry at all doctors know what they are doing. I am pretty sure they won't mess things up. Chances of a melanoma are very low I think... You'd have other manifestations, other symptoms... However these things can be tricky at times. They stand quiet and then attack you when you least expect it. Lets pray together for the best and try not to stress to much. Do keep us updated on what happens though. I really would love to know the rest of this story. I kind feel like I know the ending... Without trying to spoil much, it's a happy one ;) xoxo

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Fredaflintstone in reply to Alessia

Thank you Alessia. I hope you are right and am going to adopt some of your positivity. Hope all is well with you. Xx

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Alessia in reply to Fredaflintstone

Your welcome dear. Please do so... I would be honored to know that I have helped you. I am doing just fine dear, thanks for asking. The same should apply for you. You'll see it will in a very short time. Wish you well xxx

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Fredaflintstone in reply to Alessia

Ah thank you - you are very kind! I wish you well too xx

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E_05

Sorry to hear you've got even more to deal with, don't apologise it doesn't matter if it's not directly IVF related it all adds more pressure to our already pressured lives. Keeping everything crossed for you that all is okay, let us know how you get on xx

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Fredaflintstone in reply to E_05

Thank you - I just needed to let my out after the appointment today. I've calmed down now and am feeling better. Hope you're enjoying the peace and quiet xx

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E_05 in reply to Fredaflintstone

Definitely helps to voice things sometimes rather than it building up inside, glad your feeling a bit better. Yeah it's been a strange kind of evening but nice in a way lol xx

Good luck, I hope it's nothing to worry about!! I had a dodgy spot which I flagged up just before my 2nd round of ivf & had to have a biopsy. The biopsy healed quickly & didn't hurt xxx

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Fredaflintstone in reply to

Thank you, thats good to know. Hopefully it'll be nothing but good to check xx

Good luck hope it turns out to be nothing xx

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Fredaflintstone in reply to

Thank you me too xx

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Cinderella5

Oh no what a worry! Insure it's nothing but always best to get these things checked out. I had to get a biopsy on my cheek & it turns out I'm allergic to the sun....but only happens in the UK....oh the irony!! Try to stay calm, easier said than done! Big hugs xx

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Fredaflintstone in reply to Cinderella5

Oh dear! That's strange- I hope the Greek sunshine is ok for you! Don't worry you won't be seeing much sun here now for a while.

Thank you. Was expecting him to just say it was nothing like the go thought but it's better to check.

Hope you're ok xx

I'm sorry to hear that. It's definitely not what you need on top of everything else. I really hope it's nothing to worry about. Do keep us updated xx

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Sunshine09

Sending loads of love and positivity ur way xx🤞🌈❤️👣💋

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Fredaflintstone

Thank you xx

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