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Morning ladies :)

I have my ET tomorrow morning :D exciting times!!!

But i dont know how to think in my head? do i go about as if i am pregnant or what? I dont want to get my hopes up too much for them to be shattered but i just dont know how to set my mind :| HELP!!!

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Amanda86

Good luck with ET and your 2ww. I'd say just take it easy, after transfer your PUPO (pregnant until proven otherwise). Plenty of rest, don't do anything too strenuous. And again, good luck! 🍀 Xxx

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Rubidge in reply toAmanda86

Thank you, i just dont want to be so positive and happy for it to maybe not work! then i think if i dont think i am maybe my body will reject it? if im too happy i mean it might stick in there?!

All of these worries!!

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Amanda86 in reply toRubidge

Yep, the 2ww isn't easy 😢 I agree with sanj76, don't overthink things and just take each day as it comes 🙂 Xxx

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Newqgirl1

Think positive ⭐️

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Rubidge in reply toNewqgirl1

Thank you :D xx

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Newqgirl1 in reply toRubidge

If this isn't successful you will be devastated anyway, I'm sure you couldn't feel any worse having had a few weeks of positive thinking.

Reach for the stars girl ⭐️

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Rubidge in reply toNewqgirl1

Its so difficult isnt it!! Thank you :D xxx

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sanj76

Wishing you a the very best.... I totally get it's easier said then done but dont over think..... just take each day as it comes.... nows the time for you to remain focused and calm

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louisear

I would say treat yourself as pregnant and that's what my clinic said too, no heavy lifting etc good luck!xx

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Rubidge in reply tolouisear

Thank you :) xx

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Sjmackel

Hi there, my advice would be not to overthink it. Go there, do it, leave, get on with your life. I've had two ETs. One didn't work and the second did as I am currently 5 weeks pregnant. My first one, I was so excited I let my mind run, I imagined a baby inside me etc. Then my second one I treated very business like and didn't let myself get carried away at all. Keep busy (but no sky diving) stay positive but don't overthink or lay about thinking up baby names. That's my advice anyway and it worked for me x

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Mrsshaker1

After our transfer I felt numb, not what I expected, but 18 months of wait, work, drugs then in 6 minutes it was all done and the best of luck?!

We are in our 2WW just now. We have agreed that we have a stowaway, trying not to think either way. Each day I'm finding myself consulting Dr Google more.

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bluewanderlust

Hello, I know everyone is different. But I went into mine honestly believing that I was about to have my little emby on board and from the moment I did I felt that I was going to be a Mom. I got pregnant from that transfer and really do believe that the positive thinking that I really was pregnant and that I totally believed in my emby helped. I wish you all the very best of luck :) xxxx

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Jonesjp

Good luck for tomorrow hunny, wishing you lots of baby dust x x x

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Leesara

Wishing you lots of luck oxo

From the moment last Saturday I had my two embryos put in I've decided I'm pregnant. No lifting anything more than 5kg, no over stretching, I've talked to them, encouraged them to implant, kept my tummy warm with my hands when it feels cold, slippers on feet permanently and trying to ensure I have the rightish diet!! Keeping very positive as are my family and friends. Good luck xxx

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