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Finally, Our Positive πŸ’•

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So today I tested early, and we finally got our positive πŸ’•πŸ’• I am in shock, disbelief, utterly astounded, gob smacked etc etc!!

I am very aware that we have had a few bfn's this past week and my heart breaks with you for your losses. It really does I am so so so sorry.

But I am so incredibly grateful for my bfp today, I have no words. This journey has literally been long and treacherous for us, with abandoned cycles, losses, surgeries and so much more before we have finally reached this stage and I still can't believe it's true.

I'm very conscious that we are not out of the woods yet and with past history I am at high risk of miscarriage again but for now I am revelling in my joy and enjoying my moment, but not taking it for granted.

I love seeing positive posts as it always gives me hope that one day we'll get there. And today I feel like we have. I hope I can help give others a boost of encouragement to show that absolutely cracking flipping miracles can happen!!

I have stage 4 endometriosis and in all I have had 9 plus surgeries in the last 18 years for various reasons, approx one every other year. I don't have a full sized womb anymore due to some of it having to be removed. I had a miscarriage in January 2016. Half way through this cycle of ivf they found a lump in my uterus so our cycle had to be abandoned and I had to go and have it removed. Thankfully it was benign. And so much more I can't even fit it all in a post.

I never thought we'd get to this day. We've had IVF and ICSI and today we got a positive. Unbelievable.

I'll let you know how my pregnancy progresses and I look forward to reading everyone else's updates too.

Sending lots of love to the whole group and thank you all so much for your support along the way.

Xxxxxxxx

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This is amazing news, congratulations 😊 enjoy every moment. Xx

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Thank you so much. I'm still reeling! Can't believe it's true ha xx

Congratulations xx

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Hidden in reply to Leesalou

Thank you so much xx

Fantastic news. Keeping everything crossed that you have a healthy and happy pregnancy 😊

xxx

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Thank you ❀️ xx

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Congratulations hope u have a happy and healthy pregnancy x

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Thank you so much xx

Congratulations xx

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Hidden in reply to Hydromermaid-1

Thank you xx

This is amazing news and you so totally deserve it! You should be so happy, you have been through a lot to get that BFP! It wasn't my turn this time but I know there is hope in those that go on and get their BFPs. Unless you have experienced fertility issues no one can truely understand how precious that moment is ! Wishing you all the best in your pregnancy! X x

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Thank you so much ❀️ and I'm so sorry for you bfn 😞 it's always hard I know it is. I was convinced I had a bfn too this morning as that's what I'm used to!! But you'll get there Hun, as frustrating as I know it is, you'll get there. Keep faith and keep positive. Lots of love xxxx

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Rubinaa in reply to Gem1982

Totally agree with you Hem1982

Absolutely amazing news am so over the moon for you xxx

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Thank you 😍 I'm over the moon too!! Still think I'm dreaming!! xxx

Amazing news. Congratulations, I'm v pleased for you.xx

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Thank you 😍 xx

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Hi BibiPage. Well done! You'll soon be booking your scan. Keep well and I hope your pregnancy is a smooth ride. Diane

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Thank you Diane, really appreciate the support from this group. Fantastically strong women and it's really helped β€οΈπŸ’• thank you xx

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Such wonderful news!!!!! Xx

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Thank you so much xx

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So happy for you....believe in you ! Massive congratulations!!!! Xxx

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Thank you so much xx

Congratulations honey!! That's amazing. You are a fighter. 🀞🏻

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Hidden in reply to mupcake

Thank you so much! It doesn't always feel like I've been a fighter! But must be to have kept going and finally got here xx

Congratulations! ! What great news xx

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Hidden in reply to katya38

Thank you so much xx

Yesssssss!!!πŸŽ‰πŸ€ΈπŸŽ‰πŸ€Έ

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Hidden in reply to Macavela

Hahahaa πŸ˜‚ that's how I feel!!! Xxx

So happy for you, all the best xx

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Hidden in reply to Sa_Ra

Thank you ❀️

Ah what fantastic news... Congratulations 🎊.. Keep my fingers and toes crossed all goes smooth with your pregnancy xxxx

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Thank you so much β€οΈπŸ’• xxx

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all the very best with your pregnancy!

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Thank you xxxx

Woo hoo!! Congratulations! So pleased for you, especially after all you've been through! Xxx

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Hidden in reply to Fredaflintstone

Thank you!! It does feel like eternity to have got here- still think I'm dreaming xx

Fantastic news! Congrats!

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Thank you ❀️

Lovely news. Congratulations xxx

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Hidden in reply to Amanda86

Thank you ❀️❀️

Yay, fab news. Everything is crossed for a smooth pregnancy for you ❀️🀞 xx

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Hidden in reply to SeniorPhipps

Thank you β€οΈπŸ’•xx

Congratulations x

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Hidden in reply to sharpy87

Thank you xx

Congratulations. All the best xx

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Hidden in reply to Lily1989

Thank you xx

That's amazing 😊 So pleased for you xx

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Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you so much! I'm still dreaming I'm sure of it! It hasn't sunk in yet xx

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Congratulations, what an amazing woman you are going through all that x

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Thank you xx

Congratulations. Hope you have a healthy happy pregnancy. Lovely news πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Hidden in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you so much πŸ’•πŸ˜ xx

This is brilliant news, so pleased for you! You totally deserve this, look like a strong positive to xx

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Hidden in reply to E_05

Thank you!!! Still can't believe it's my turn!! xxx

πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ congratulations, so happy for you! Enjoy and hope you have a smooth pregnancy. xxx

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Hidden in reply to N_M_10

Thank you so much 😊 xx

Huge congratulations to you! We can see why you are so thrilled. Praying for it all to run smoothly for you from now on. xxx

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Hidden in reply to _MrsC

Thank you so much! Me too! I'm still filled with worry but am trying to relax as much as poss β€οΈπŸ’• xx

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Fantastic news so happy for you xxx

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Thank you!! ❀️xx

This is amazing news! Another fellow endo sufferer pregnant! It makes me so happy! πŸ˜ƒπŸ‘πŸ»πŸ’ͺ🏻❀️

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Hidden in reply to C_L_A_I_R_E

Thank you ❀️❀️ and yes we've finally got there!!! πŸ™ŒπŸΌ it's felt like a life time but we've done it!! xxx

Fantastic news Bibi, after all you've been through I wish you a happy healthy pregnancy with no further complications. My sister has severe endometriosis and became pregnant on her second round of ivf. She had a very healthy, normal pregnancy and now has a gorgeous 7 year old boy xx

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Hidden in reply to 7AVA

Ahhh amazing!! Thank you! Always good to hear great stories like this ❀️❀️ xxx

Brilliant news! Congratulations and all the very best for the months ahead xx

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Thank you 😊 xx

Absolutely fantastic news and with strong hope this is here to stay!!!! Keep us posted!

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Hidden in reply to Nkoko

Thank you πŸ’• I will do xxx

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Amazing news!! Congratulations & wishing you a smooth & healthy pregnancy. You really do deserve this xxxxx

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Ahhh thank you ❀️😍 xxxx

HUSE congrats this is the best post to wake up too😁what an inspirational story and I wish you all the very best for a happy and healthy pregnancy xxx

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Hidden in reply to vic77

Ahhh thank you so much ❀️❀️ I do feel like I've been through the mill. Lol. Every time we would get more bad news, we ended up laughing at one point and the doctor looked really surprised but it was just obscene how much just KEPT going wrong so I laughed, then my other half looked at me and laughed (quickly followed by tears on my part!) but it has just been one thing after another for years and years I'm still in shock! Had to do another test again this morning just to be sure! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ xxx

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Omg amazing news!!!! Congratulations 🎊! Hope your having a fab holiday too! So happy for you both! Hopefully it'll be me too soon with good news! Xxx

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Hi! Thank you so much!! ❀️ and yes hopefully it will be you too! I've got everything crossed for you and will be keeping an eye out for your posts! Xx

Aww congratulations you trooper!! Fingers crossed for the next 8 months! Xx

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Hidden in reply to baby2016

Thank you! xxx

Great news, I'm very happy for you gal. I wish you all the best

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Thank you xx

Congratulations enjoy every min β€οΈπŸŒˆπŸ’‹ thanks for sharing x

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Thank you xxx

Congratulations! x

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Thank you xx

Thanks for sharing your fab news. It's lovely to here the positives, it gives hope. Wishing you every happiness oxo

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Hidden in reply to Leesara

Thank you β€οΈπŸ’• xxx

Congratulations to you both. I'm at the beginning of 2WW so nice to read a positive result :) xx

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Hidden in reply to Elou81

Thank you!! And MASSIVE good luck with your 2ww! It's just such a pain waiting! Lol. Eat healthy get loads of rest and aaaaaaallllll the best for your result!! When's your test date? xxx

Aww thanks hun x i can't imagine a better feeling than finding out you are pregnant. You will be on cloud 9. Make the most of every second :) you deserve it.

OTD one week today. Time has stood still already haha xxx

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Hidden in reply to Elou81

I know that feeling just all the waiting eurgh! Do you have any symptoms or feel any different at all? I'm super tired and have very sore boobs but I put it all down to the pessaries and other than that I have no symptoms yet at all. (Counting myself lucky for now though πŸ˜‚) xxxx

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I've had some tummy pain, first on right side last night and this morning on left side. Still very bloated but eating everything in sight! Not sure if that's boredom being off, although i did have sardines on toast for breakfast which is a first. I've read the progesterone can relate to all signs of pregnancy though and if anything i'll only just be at implantation stage. Hopefully!! I have been positive all the way through treatment and not prepared myself for bad news but its the only way i could get through it really.

Hopefully you won't suffer with sickness or anything. Have you any thoughts on whether its one bambino or more? Xxx

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I think it's only one, everything tells you that you get stronger symptoms quicker with two so I think it's only one. One strong one I hope!! 🀞🏼πŸ’ͺπŸΌπŸ’•

Wishing you a positive too so much! I can't wait to find out and really have a good feeling about it for you! πŸ˜€. Xx

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Yes one little arnie embryo in situ would be great :)

I watched a fab documentary on youtube yesterday about multips. I just find pregnancy fascinating.

And thank you so much BibiPage for your positive post xxx i'm really touched by it and at 4dp5dt neededthat little boost. I'll keep you posted!

I hope you keep us updated too xxx

Congratulations. This is amazing news. It is always wonderful to read positive post with the outcome that we are all waiting for. I wish you all the luck in the world and w/o be following your journey x

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Hidden in reply to rinsp

Thank you so so much it's the support from ladies like yourself that's helped make that bit easier. Especially more recently as I didn't use the group much before I didn't really realise how strong a network there is here. I wish I'd known sooner!

Thank you ❀️❀️❀️ xxx

Reading stories like yours makes tears come to my eyes 😒I'm really sorry to hear what you have been through I couldn't imagine going through what you have. Your are a very strong woman! This is amazing and I hope you all the best throughout your pregnancy 😍xx

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Hidden in reply to paiges221

Oh that's lovely to say thank you so much ❀️❀️ three days in and I want to do another test to check again!! πŸ˜‚ I keep saying it but I can't believe it!!! Haha I'm so happy I keep crying about it! πŸ˜‚β€οΈ thank you so much xxx

Lovely news, everybody deserves a BFP - glad you have yours xxxx

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Hidden in reply to lorraineb61

Thank you lovely xxxc

aww congratulations!! xx

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Thank you xx

Wow!! What an amazing post to wake up to! I am so so happy for you- that is such a clear positive!!!! Congratulations and enjoy every moment xxx

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Hidden in reply to cls37

Thank you so much!! It's a strong line isn't it!!! I'm hoping I've got a fighter in here πŸ’ͺ🏼 must have to have made it this far with my battered old body! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ ❀️❀️ xxx

Congratulations x

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Hidden in reply to ShellyC

Thank you xx

Ahhhh fantastic news, these are the posts that keep me going too! Congratulations!xx

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Thank you πŸ˜Šβ€οΈπŸ’• xx

That's great news! I'm so happy for you. I wish you the best of luck and congratulations hun. Xx

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Hidden in reply to Rubinaa

Thank you so much πŸ˜ŠπŸ’• xxx

Congratulations. Thank God for the positive. I wish and pray for you to have a healthy pregnancy all throguh.

Did you latter pay for the prescription?

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Thank you so much!!! ❀️❀️❀️ no I did get the for free..... but I had to drive to my clinic to get them, which is 2 hours away.... ha. So yes and no I guess is the answer there!! xx

Amazing news. Congratulations! Xxx

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Hidden in reply to Jhenderson

Thank you xx

Lots of luck for a healthy journey from here! It's so reassuring hearing positive stories ❀️

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Thank you so much xxx

Wow so many positive posts day. Congratulations xx

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Hidden in reply to ch319

Thank you xxx

Brilliant. So very pleased for you x

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Thank you xx

Fantastic news, congratulations! Enjoy this moment & take it a day at a time xxxx

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Thank you xxxx

Blimmin' amazing! Congratulations!!! πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰

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Thank you xxx

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Congratulations, absolutely wonderful news. Xx

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Thank you!! Xxxx

Congratulations hun wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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Thank you so much! ❀️❀️❀️ xxx

This is a dream of lot of women's here! Congratulations, this is very cool :) I wish you an easy pregnancy :))

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Hidden in reply to AbigailAbie

Thank you so much ❀️❀️ xx

these posts inspire me so much, you cant even imagine! thanks for sharing your experience and positive results. we don't give up and keep trying. told my hubby - he's saying hi and the congrats! hope is everything. keep on hoping.

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Thank you so much ❀️❀️ xxx

Congratulation read your story. So happy for you! Xxx

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Thank you 😍❀️ xx

Congratulations x

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Thank you xxx

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