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I'M a fighter

Negative result today

All in tears DH and i where drained ... But still we pray and keep our hopes alive ! Whos ready for the next roud??? Us ! 2nd round of IVF to be scheduled as soon as i get my period ... (since we only had 1 embie last time) back to square one ! Shots lots of shots and medicines, the egg retrieval and ofcourse the 2ww. Im blessed to have a DH with strong faith who prays & supports me.

This is our journey , this is our battle ... no one can understand me better than ppl in this community. Still broken and weak to try , but just dreaming of that baby makes me wanna continue the fight !

Thank you for the love and prayers... i still need you Hugs tho xx

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Sorry for your bfn xx

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So so sorry to hear your news. I had my bfn a few weeks back and am waiting for round 2 so can empathise with you. So pleased to hear how positive you are! You certainly are a fighter and so brave. Xx 😘 keep going, you're stronger than u know. Xxx best of luck and hoping you'll have that baby in your arms soon. Xx

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So sorry hun. I think I'm out this weekend too although I'm trying naturally. I love your positivity it's super admiring and I always say positive thinking equals good hormones equals balanced body potentially ready to carry baby. Big hugs and lots of love xx

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Sorry for the negative result - it sounds like you've got your heads in the right space to go for your next round when you can. Hold onto that positivity xx

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So sorry to hear this, but love your postive fighting spirit xxx

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Sorry to hear your result, but love how positive you are. Cry as much as you need, let it all out and then focus on round 2....and always have hope xx

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Big hugs! Xxx

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i am so sorry for your loss, this is such a painful journey that takes everything from us.

give yourself time to grieve & be kind to each other.

sending love xxx

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Sorry to hear your BFN, sounds like you've got the strength together xx

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I'm so sorry. A BFN is a real and painful loss. At least you have one another to help get through it. Don't give up hope, but do give yourself time to grieve xx

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I'm sorry to read this but you have such a strong and positive attitude. Good luck for the future xx

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So sorry to hear about your bfn, but wow...ur so brave going straight into a fresh cycle...I take my hat off to you! Wishing you all the best for round 2 xxx

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So sorry you got negative result this time round but that fighting spirit will see you far, best of luck for your next round 😘😘 Xx

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So sorry to read of your bfn,

Take care of your self and I'm wishing you lots of luck on your next journey xx 🍀🍀

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So sorry for your loss today but love your fighting spirit. xxx

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So sorry to hear your sad news - it's so hard. It you really are a fighter - so positive! Hope you are ok. Sending you huge hugs and wishing you all the very best for next time xxxx

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Awww I'm really sorry to hear that! Ive had 3 cycles now and it's pretty crap but you sound like me....always ready to get going again! I guess we're all different. Your positivity is great and will do you well! Sending you hugs!xx

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Awe bless you hun. I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN. We had one a couple of weeks ago. It truly hurts so I'm sending a big hug!

I love this post, your strength and positive outlook. I share so many if these feelings. We have our follow up on Tuesday and I want to know when we can start again although I am terrified we are not being beaten. We will fight. So I am thinking of you and your DH (sounds like you have a good one!) Wishing you guys all the luck in the world. We can do this. Hugs xx

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Oh no sorry to read about your bfn 😞

But an amazing attitude and strength to keep going!!!' 💪🏼 that's the spirit!! I'm rooting for you and sending lots of love xxxx ❤️💕🙏🏼🤞🏼 xxxx

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You've got this!!!! Sorry to hear it didn't work 1st time but great to hear you are so positive and raring to go again. I was the same but we had to wait a few months due to going on holiday! Good luck!!! xx

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So sorry for your BFN. You most certainly are a fighter! You can do this. Xx

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Love your positivity, thank you for this even in tough times 💙 sending you lots of love 💙

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So so sorry but sounds like you are going to come back fighting.. this journey doesn't half take it out of us.

I feel for you right now xxx Lots of love and were here for your next try xx

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Hi dear I read your post and I feel very sad . Giving lots of hugs.......... you know that you are very lucky that you got such a lovely , caring and supportive partner who is with you in such hard situation . Dear everything will be fine , be positive ... Good Luck!!!

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So sorry to hear this PandaQueen. Sending you lots of virtual hugs! Stay strong my lovely. I will be praying for you! Wishing you all the best for your next round! ❤️

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Big hugs for you - great to see your determination, the forum here is amazing. It will be your day one day!!

We're in the same situation, 2 failed ICSIs, no frosties so back to injections again but not until we've been on holiday!!

Good luck - sounds like you have an amazing DH - look after one another xx

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So Sorry to here this hun, the strongest people are sent these hard times, you can do this and we are all here every step of the way ❤️❤️❤️ hope and positivity

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And lots of hugs 🤗

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Sorry it didn't work this time but I'm sure round 2 will kick ass and you'll get a BFP! xx

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Sorry to hear that. Good luck for your second cycle.

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In the same boat Hun- we had a BFN in July and waiting to see the consultant. The nurse said that I needed 2 natural bleeds, have had 1 and hoping once the second has been they will let round 2 begin- nervous, anxious, excited all at the same time! Wishing you all the luck in the world xx

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Sorry for your bfn love.. i am also ready for my 2nd round.. good luck to you and me 😜

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PandaQueen you are an inspiration! You and DH are going to get there and will all of been worth it💜💛💙

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Keep going your a fighter xx

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