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So today one of the ladies in the office has announced she is pregnant. Felt like I had been stabbed and wanred to cry so bad. How is this fair? I can't take this any more. 🤧😠

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Hello there, I just posted something similar and now saw your post!

It's awful. I feel I am a bitch because instead of just being happy I think of me. Not that It doesn't make me happy, but I just want that for every of us too! And above all I am scared... So scared that It will never be for me...

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Thank you for your reply. I just don't know what to do any more. I want to give up but I know I can't. There is no escape ever

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katya38

It's a really horrid situation isn't it. I work in a school and used to dread the pregnancy announcements and then they would pass round their scan photos. It was so hurtful. And I was always scared about how I was going to react. When it's a shock thsts always worse. Xx

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Shannon1400• in reply tokatya38

I feel so bad though for feeling this way I just want to scream

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E_05

It's such a hard situation but one that I think we all feel. I know it's hard to cry at work but when you get home let it all out if you need to, it helps. Life really is unfair at times, keep strong xx

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Shannon1400• in reply toE_05

Thank you so much. I'm not one to cry ever but feel like I could do with letting it all out. Luckily DH has a punch bag in the garage lol xx

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sunshineyellow

Sorry to hear this. What a way to start the week. I felt that in our last cycle it was just announcement after announcement. Why couldn't it be us? Your feelings are natural.

Sending you lots of strength to put on a brave face xx

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Shannon1400

Thank u so much xxx

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goodnightindigo

Sending you a big hug xxx

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Shannon1400• in reply togoodnightindigo

Thank you x

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N_M_10

Thinking of you! It's so hard but somehow you will have the strength to deal with it and it will get slightly easier. I cried for a week when my closest friend at work told me she was pregnant. Obviously delighted for her but I seriously thought I wasn't going to be able to cope. I'm sure you will get through this and everyone on here is very supportive if you need to vent. xx

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Shannon1400

Thank you so much xxx

Hi I know how you feel there seems to be two or three pregnancies at work permanently and when you find out they'd only started trying it breaks my heart big hugs xx

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Shannon1400

Thank you x

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kelsbels88

Life is so cruel... sadly we do always think what did we do? Why isn't it our turn? It will happen for us, for whatever reason it hasn't happened yet but you just have to keep hoping and believing... try and stay positive although easier said than done.

Sending hugs xx

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AllyBell88

It's so hard bless you I watched 4 of my friends get pregnant just like that then two at work! I ended up with 3 months off work I was so distraught/depressed! Know that the girls here understand what ur going through and I wish you all the luck in the world on ur journey x

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